What is worse?

[Alison-Mary]

Hi

This is a mainly a question for the GG's, and shouldn't be taken too seriously.

When i opened up to my wife about my desire to cross dress, one of the things i can recall her saying was, to paraphrase, "at least you are not having an affair with another woman; i would definitely leave you if this was the case".

Then about a year after during a heated discussion, she said something like "at least if it was an affair it would be over and done with, but with a crossdresser, there is always another woman"

So as a GG, what would you prefer, discovering your man is a crossdresser, or discovering your man is having an affair?

Alison :)

[Karen564]

I would Prefer Neither..

[Veronica Nowakowski]

Though I'm not a GG, I don't think it would be out of place to say that's just avoiding the question. It was an honest question that deserves an honest answer.

[NikiMichelle]

During one of our many talks my wife and I had after I came out to her about me being a CD (after over 20 years of being married - we're over 30 now!) she told me that at one point prior to her knowing she thought I was having an affair.

Hearing that was devestating to me and I felt terrible that I had done that to her. We giggle now as we say that "the other woman" was me.

I just wish I had told her a long time ago and spared her that concern.

[Karen564]

Though I'm not a GG, I don't think it would be out of place to say that's just avoiding the question. It was an honest question that deserves an honest answer.


So as a GG, what would you prefer, discovering your man is a crossdresser, or discovering your man is having an affair?

I did answer the above question honestly as I saw it here above.

But as to what's Worse, then I say it's an Affair......hands down..:thumbsdn:

[Leigh58]

As a GG, I can say wholeheartedly that I'd much rather have my faithful CDer than deal with an affair. His CDing is part of who he is. We can deal with it together!!:)