Ladies I need ur counsel!

[Joy3]

About 3 weeks ago, while fully dressed, my 2 dogs needed to go out. It was daytime and because I was concerned about neighbors I decided to take them out the back door which is concealed by our garage. As I had them out a neighbor Tom appeared. He had come around the garage. I was stunned needless to say. He looked at me and smiled and said how lovely I looked. I thanked him but still had no idea of what to say. I finally said I need to take the dogs in and he asked if i had any coffee that he would like to join me for a talk. I felt i had no choice but to invite him in.

The talk consisted of him saying he would be happy to keep my dressing between he and I. However, he added, that is, if I would be willing to give him oral sex on occassion. What a spot to be in! I felt i had no option but to agree.

I work afternoons and my wife leaves for work early in AM. he now calls me when she has left for work 2 or 3 times a week asking me to dress for him and comes over for oral sex.

Yesterday he came over and surprised me by saying he wanted to go to bed with me.

I am feeling trapped as I don't want to be outed and worry where this is going. Has anyone had a similar situation and if so what did u do?

[Stina84]

That is a very unfortunate situation you are in. Because many of us keeps CD'ing a secret we are easy victims to sexual predators like your neighbour. What he does is simply disgusting.

You are the victim of a sex crime and I think the right thing would be to go to the police, maybe after having gathered some evidence like a recording where he blackmails you.

I completely understand if you are not willing to go to the authorities but maybe you can blackmail him back? If you record him blackmailing you and then threatens to send the recording to his wife and the police you might stop him. Nut the best thing to do would be to report him.

[Nikki A.]

Personally, I would stop this and tell him NO. This isn't what you want and it is akin to rape. If he outs you, he looks just as bad in that he forced you into having having sex with him. Do you think he wants to be outted too.

[dawnmarrie1961]

Joy, unfortunately you fell for the oldest trick in the book. The guy is a total pig!!
Even though it may mean being outed you need to tell this bozo in no uncertain terms that you aren't going to be played like that! The cats out of the bag anyway because this guy is gonna use his mouth more than you did!!

Be safe. Be smart.

Dawn Marrie

[StaceyJane]

My BS meter is going off like crazy.

According to an earlier post you already told your wife and she was okay with it.
So who was this pervert going to tell?

Plus you also posted once about meeting someone at a gay bar and having a wild night of sex.

[mklinden2010]

Assuming this is "for real", I'm not sure how it could get worse.

You may have to set up a camera and get the goods on this guy.

To make any claims, you'll need some evidence...

And, to handle it privately, you'll need some leverage...

There's no neat way out of this, if this is what's going on.

Nope...

If this is, "for real", then life as you used to know it will never be the same, so plan on moving, etc.

It may not come to that, but this sort of thing won't go away by itself...

And, proably won't no matter what you do.

It would be a better story if it is fiction.

Here's hoping...

[Elle1946]

I have never been that situtation like that but, it sounds like blackmail with a little bit of sexual harassment tossed in for good measure. You could threaten with a law suit which means that you would be out of the closet, but he also would be exposed. Another idea is that it is his word against your word about being dressed, and you do not know why he is causing you so much trouble. Good luck!!

[Tamara Croft]

My BS meter is going off like crazy.

According to an earlier post you already told your wife and she was okay with it.
So who was this pervert going to tell?

Plus you also posted once about meeting someone at a gay bar and having a wild night of sex.I agree... I'm glad someone else does research on people before posting the :OMG: :BS:

If this is true and you really did this, you have to be the most gullable person I've ever known... however... I'm not buying it... sounds more like a fantasy if you ask me... btw... your wife ever come to this forum?? do you really have a wife... if you do... I feel sorry for her... :thumbsdn: I'm not judging you for what you're doing, I just think you're a bit of an ass for bragging about it :straightface:

[Sandra]

:BS:

You know some people must think we are sooooo gullible.

[christina marie]

oh come on now ladies,nobody ever lies on the interwebbiethingie. . .

[kimdl93]

it this dilemma is true, its sad and criminal. If its made up, its just sad.

[Melamie2]

This is coming from the wife of a cd. As, I was reading your post, my first thought was "what's with this 'I felt I had no choice' crap"? By the time I was finished reading it, I was totally appalled that you even had the guts to put it in here.

Just in case it "may" be true, you should be ashamed of yourself. You have a wife and you took a vow to be true to her and only her. You broke it, bottom line.

And since everyone seems to agree that your story is not true, may I suggest you post stuff like that in a website called Lushstories.com. That's where it belongs.

Sorry ladies, but I felt the need to post on this one. LOL

[Kaitlyn Michele]

maybe next time you should call the police

of course, most likely the police will only help you if you agree to sexual favors which may include working for them as a sex slave, so please be careful!!

also, you could tell his SO, but of course she may force you to serve her and all her friends at the next tupperware party in a french maid outfit

[minalost]

it this dilemma is true, its sad and criminal. If its made up, its just sad.

Ditto.
:sad:

[JustAlex]

My BS meter is going off like crazy.

I didn't know about the other posts and my BS meter burned to ashes.

But I could be wrong...

[Tamara Croft]

also, you could tell his SO, but of course she may force you to serve her and all her friends at the next tupperware party in a french maid outfitThat will be the next thread.... :devil:

[EnglishRose]

maybe next time you should call the police

of course, most likely the police will only help you if you agree to sexual favors which may include working for them as a sex slave, so please be careful!!

also, you could tell his SO, but of course she may force you to serve her and all her friends at the next tupperware party in a french maid outfit

:jumping:

This made my day.

[Janet K.]

This is such BS!! Stuff like this should stay in the writer's section. I know the thread was only started two hours ago, so I am curious to see if Joy comes in to defend her story. I bet not.

[meri]

BS meter pegged at 100%

My advice to the original poster, find some other site to peddle your porn, we are NOT interested.

[MAJESTYK]

Interesting story........penthouse forum maybe? It does sound kind of familiar.

[Karen564]

Personally, I think it's a lovely Story...:heehee: and maybe Penthouse can publish it for you..

My only advise to you is, if you don't like the way he taste, just get some mouth wash...:D

[Kimmy55]

Personally, I think it's a lovely Story...:heehee: and maybe Penthouse can publish it for you..

My only advise to you is, if you don't like the way he taste, just get some mouth wash...:D

Personally I think she would rather enjoy the taste.My question is how *** ( pardon the pun ) Joy has not responded?

[Tomara]

I would have to agree that if this is really happening to you , you should seek some professional help and have enough self respect not to share the details here.
It will be interesting to see if you respond to any of our comments.
Tomara

[charlie]

Joy, you would not be where you are if you did not want to be having sex with your neighbor in the first place. He may have told people that you are a Cd...but you would have told them he wanted sex with you. If you don't want sex with him anymore, just say no.

[Bootsiegalore]

I agree with "get it on tape" and reverse blackmale him. I'll bet his wife would love to find out you are giving him BJs! Too bad you can not have her over to watch the tape and tape her watching it! Awsome revalations!

Sorry to hear of your situation though.

T

[sherri52]

Joy it's time to take your neighbor and cut him off at the knees. Sorry guy feelings. The man needs a lesson in manners. Tell him that your relationship with him has ended and if you like tell him that you taped your last session and any further threats from him would cause you to use the tape. If he is going to out you you are going to bring him down with you.

[mklinden2010]

Yes, the line about "kissed me on the check and left" did put a hole in the tale...

Still, change a few pronouns and this situation does describe more than one situation I have seen people live through, live down.

In those, however, it was a "guy-living-as-a-girl" part time while living with a guy, a "roomate" for all public purposes. Usually this was a "stay at home gal" thing with the other guy working full time to support them until they could live their real dreams.

Wasn't "Dog Day Afternoon" based on a true story? So, who knows about the "whole truth" of this, or, what parts were changed to protect them from thier partner who is on these same forum sometimes?

The thing to be aware of here is the notion of being "compromised." If someone thinks they are, and acts stupidly to protect it, they're pretty much stuck with the entire ride unless they can get out of it.

Not always an easy thing to do since life does not have a "reverse" button...

Meanwhile, so long as anyone can open a thread here on the general page, and splash this kind of stuff in front of us, about all we can do is deal with it "as if" until it gets moved or goes away.

Here's for hoping both happens to this one before it goes "viral" on the Net at this adress....

[Tamara Croft]

Oh come on... you really aren't buying this are you?? lol...

[mklinden2010]

>> Oh come on... you really aren't buying this are you?? lol...


I wish it wasn't being put out there for sale, but, like I said, I've seen something very like this and it never turns out well.

Too bad too. If it were a porn movie you could just toss in the wife, the dogs, and a couple of good-smelling plants...

By the way, gotta love the tags added to this one. (below)

[Tamara Croft]

Don't you know how to use the 'quote' button mklinden? Press quote... instead of you having to write >> text here...

Yes I noticed those tags... thought they were amusing :whistling:


Too bad too. If it were a porn movie you could just toss in the wife, the dogs, and a couple of good-smelling plants...:lol: and I thought that said smelling pants :eek:

[mklinden2010]

Don't you know how to use the 'quote' button mklinden? Press quote... instead of you having to write >> text here...

Yes I noticed those tags... thought they were amusing :whistling:

:lol: and I thought that said smelling pants :eek:

TC,

Well, I thought I did.

If I push "quote" then I get the entire message quoted in the reply - usually not what I want to do.

If there's a way to select just some text, and then push "quote" and get only part of a post, I'm all for it.

Didn't seem to work when I just tried it, however.

If it does, then I don't.

Meanwhile, I just "cut and paste" what I want, and denote it with ">>"

Old email habits of an old emailer...

[Andy66]

Rather than quoting just what you want, you can quote the whole thing then remove the parts you don't want from the quote.
...Sorry, sort of off-topic. :sad:

[mklinden2010]

>>...Sorry, sort of off-topic.

Yeah, but the OP kind of imploded anyway....

[jessia_arrora]

Suchha BS

[Joy3]

Just got home from work and have read the replies to my post[I work from 12pm to 8pm].

First, I would like to thank the girls that offered some very good advice. Wish I had thought about turning the tables as I am sure that my video and voice recording equipment will do the trick quite well! Have little doubt that will stop any further harrassment.

Second, one person suggested that as my wife knows why would I be concerned. Well perhaps the fact that our 6 children, 17 grandchildren and 2 great grand children do not know plus our many friends, etc do not know might give me cause for concern.

My wife was initially supportive but over time has changed. She now wants nothing to do with my crossdressing.

The incident with the cd friend was as I described, however, the guilt I have experienced since has led me to conclude it really is not worth it!
I would also agree that it was totally wrong and unfair to my wife.

[Tamara Croft]

:lol: nice job on the first post edit.... why are you editing stuff out of it? just makes you look even more like you're making the whole thing up... You can edit it all you like, I can see what you've edited...

[Michelle-Leigh]

I like to think I would have told that guy to go **** himself, but who knows what one may do in a state of panic ?

[danielle.cd]

i dont belive this at all first off im not into dudes at all propositioned or not im not doin it tell all you want who is going to believe you and even if some one did find out and believe him he hit on you and now poeple would know that he likes guys that are dressed up soo you would have ammo too, i think if any of this was true you wouldnt have kept talking to him let alone invite him in especially when you freaked out when he saw u i would have turned and went in imediatly and hope he thought it was someone else like a cousin or other ladie person

[jenifer m.]

i just dont know what to say.im stunned!!!!

[Samantha B L]

Joy,I had a similar situation almost 30 years ago. Unless you want to have oral sex with him. And people do those things and enjoy it but if it's not your idea to do it,then it's about as much fun as digging a septic tank or shingeling a roof in 100 degree weather. I'd tell the SOB "no" even if I had to duke it out with him. I don't think he'll snitch on you for dressing,either, but he's trying to keep you subject so he'll leave you to wonder if he just might blab. I found out the hard way back in about 1981 or 1982 that some guys expect a "TV" to be only too glad to perform certain acts since that's what "TV's" do. Tell him to 86 it or stay on his side of the property line

[Felicha]

I know that I'm not a CD but I am a Trans gender but none the less no one makes me do anything I don't want to do and the next thing is if you are married your spouse should know about what you are doing. When I was married my wife knew everything I did. We kept no secrets from each other. I'm sorry girls if I jumped in your area but I'm new here and still don't quite know where I am supposed to be.

Felicha

[Andrea86]

he's totally a pig!!! you must no let him do this, you have to stand up for yourself and be treated with respect you can always blackmail him too!! good luck girl.!

[Bethany38]

All I can say is "WOW"!! This thread is messed up. Joy I don't usually become rude or crass with people. However, IF this is true I have to say that I would think you were the weakest simpleton I have ever run into. If this is true I feel sorry for you. You need to either get the authorities involved or cowgirl- up, and take charge of the situation to put an end to it. That is unless you literally enjoy being raped? :eek: I am sorry if I have offended anyone with this. It is just mho on the matter.

[Daintre]

I thought for a minute I was in the FictionMania site

[Eva]

Just say no!

[Karen564]

I thought for a minute I was in the FictionMania site

Actually,

You Are....

Or the Twilight Zone

Take your pick....:heehee:

[Hope]

I tend to be of the overly trusting sort, I tend to be the kind to give folks the benefit of the doubt - but I am calling shenanigans.

On the faintest possibility that this is true (it's not) the solution is simple. You point out to your neighbor that what he has done is a felony, punishable by jail time. You then explain to him that he is the only other person in the world who knows about your dressing (doesn't have to be true) so you know that if you are ever outed, that he is the one responsible for it. You then explain to him that if you are ever outed, your first stop will be the FBI, to tell them about the blackmail.

Then tell him about the herpes.

[Karen564]

Then tell him about the herpes.

Nah......don't say that.....that's too mean.

Tell him you have full blown AIDS......:devil:

[christina marie]

it would seem this incident was caught on video,although the facts are not exactly as given. . .
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WxgnVnNou_c

[Fab Karen]

This reminds me of an article in "the Onion" : "These gay guys won't stop sucking my *i**" ( a 'woe is me' tale )

[dawnmarrie1961]

: You can edit it all you like, I can see what you've edited...

Tamara see's all and knows all.
That's "our Tamara!!"

Be safe.Be smart.

Dawn Marrie

[Kelly DeWinter]

Joy, It seems like you have been 'busted' on this thread. Take a page from some of the celebrities. Fess up, admit your mistake, ask for forgiveness. Take a few razzies from the gals here. And come back . No one is perfect. We forgive you ! Some of the best internet researchers are on the forum. If you post something that smells funny, these gals will sniff it out !

Kelly

[Kaitlyn Michele]

Actually...I"m breathlessly waiting for the next chapter

[Tamara Croft]

But you wrote the next chapter already Kaitlyn lol.... :devil:

Coming to a cinema near you.... the plot..


of course, most likely the police will only help you if you agree to sexual favors which may include working for them as a sex slave, so please be careful!!

also, you could tell his SO, but of course she may force you to serve her and all her friends at the next tupperware party in a french maid outfit

[Jenny Doolittle]

Collect the evidence....

Then advise him you do not want to participate in this activity any longer. If he wants to blackmail you let him know you have the evidence and will provide to police if he outs you.

The possibility of being charged for rape will be his incentive not to out you.

[Di]

My wife was initially supportive but over time has changed. She now wants nothing to do with my crossdressing.

And gee can't imagine why that would be:doh:...you posting about meeting a guy at a gay bar...then this neighbor crap
either thing
made-up or real.....where you are comin from. I feel for your wife. How despicable.

[DonniDarkness]

Truth---------------------^--BS

[tamarav]

So tell him you are ready to run off with him and your bags are packed...

Wait, did I get off topic?

[EnglishRose]

Those tags are hilarious :)

Next on Fox: When Forum Posts Attack

[maggiecdva]

I had the same feeling that this was a bit too much like the "Letters to Penthouse". If it is true I am truely sorry but my intuition tells me it's a little too much to be true.

Just my opinion.

hugs - maggie

[Tranny Tee]

The same thing happened to me.
The man came to pump the septic tank and found me dressed and then had his way with me. Now he keeps coming back. My neighbors are getting suspicious of the septic service truck parked in front of my house several days a week and as the days are getting warmer it is beginning to attract flies. What shall I do? Please give me advice.

[Loni]

how can one be forced to do such (:censor:) when the other party has nothing to force you with???

he can still say anything he wants...are you gong to do more sex with him???

you messed up with doing him.

i do not know about the past postings, but i do not understand why you are posting here on this fourm.

not a banner calling type...but this is very close to such for me.


.

[Kaitlyn Michele]

But you wrote the next chapter already Kaitlyn lol.... :devil:

Coming to a cinema near you.... the plot..

Heh
:o

[Karen564]

The same thing happened to me.
The man came to pump the septic tank and found me dressed and then had his way with me. Now he keeps coming back. My neighbors are getting suspicious of the septic service truck parked in front of my house several days a week and as the days are getting warmer it is beginning to attract flies. What shall I do? Please give me advice.
You want advise too???

Here's mine,
Dump the septic guy, then find the nearest UPS driver instead...

Less flies that way......:lol:

[Daintre]

This thread so far....is it believale, a poll has taken place and here are the results + or - 3%

Believe it is true - 15

Believe it is BS - 42

Neutral - 1

Off topic - 7

[Tranny Tee]

Girls, it has gotten worse. the septic guy was leaving as the UPS guy was coming up the sidewalk and he told him what was happening so I had to take care of him too. He told the FedX guy who then came to my house followed by the Dominos pizza kid. The milkman and the postman were next and pretty soon the street was blocked with delivery trucks. My neighbor called the cops and when they discovered what was going on the whole precinct showed up, at least they brought doughnuts. The Salvation Army band is waiting in line on my sidewalk and some Jehovahs Witnesses are at my door. I need your help girls, what should I do?

[StarrOfDelite]

I thought for a minute I was in the FictionMania site

Almost my exact reaction, except I was thinking Literotica.

[Karen564]

Girls, it has gotten worse. the septic guy was leaving as the UPS guy was coming up the sidewalk and he told him what was happening so I had to take care of him too. He told the FedX guy who then came to my house followed by the Dominos pizza kid. The milkman and the postman were next and pretty soon the street was blocked with delivery trucks. My neighbor called the cops and when they discovered what was going on the whole precinct showed up, at least they brought doughnuts. The Salvation Army band is waiting in line on my sidewalk and some Jehovahs Witnesses are at my door. I need your help girls, what should I do?

:rofl:
Go to Home Depot & get the best Kneepads money can buy, then call the Fire Dept..

[Andria]

Collect the evidence....



I was going to say something, but I would have been totally out of line. Especially since I'm a noob here. ;) :censor:

[Daintre]

Before this thread gets really out of hand, and the OP has gotten some good advice if it is true, I think it is time for this thread to join the fishes.

[Tamara Croft]

Spoil sport.... :slap: