Do you have a goal in mind?

[tamarav]

Kind of an open question, but I meet a lot of CDs and each one has their own agenda. Some of them don't seem to have a direction or a goal, just to be able to dress when they can.

Are you moving toward a distinct goal or just having as much fun as you can?

Are you serious about the goal if you are moving toward it, or just a casual dresser?

For those of you in transition, bless you for aiming for that star and staying on the path.

I am not sure of my goal, I just seem to cram as much dressing in as I can, and yes, I am very serious about it.

[Veronica Nowakowski]

My only goal is to understand. I am considering going ******* quite seriously, but that's part of that overarching goal, not a goal in itself.

[Mackenzie]

I have never really thought about a goal. I just enjoy dressing up when I am able. I have a professional career and family, so my time in "female" is very limited.

I think one goal would be to gain the confidence to one day go out in public. That is a scary thought right now. When I look in the mirror, I do see a lovely girl, but that is just me. Who knows what someone else sees, hears, etc.

[minalost]

My only goal is to learn enough, practice enough, and get enough stuff, to look as good as I possibly can while crossdressed - and to have fun while I'm doing it!

I have other goals in life too, of course, but as far a crossdressing goes, that's really it.
:hugs:

[Stacye Rose]

My goal is to feel more comfortable when I'm dressed, look my best, and above all else have fun.:battingeyelashes:

[mklinden2010]

This is an excellent question and one that, if answered by CD/TG/TS people for themselves (first, if possible), would satisfy a lot of the questions their SOs, kids, bosses, neighbors, and family will ask them along the way.

To my first SO's questions about "Are you nuts, gay, confused?" etc. I was able to respond, "No, but I think I want to do this, and this and this. It's just some things I want to do."

Nowadays, it might be called a "Bucket List." Having a list means you have an agenda that probably makes SOME sense.

If people can "get it" about your having a list then life is a lot easier.

My current list is very short. I've "been there, done that" with most of things on the list and, with the experiences behind me, I "mine" them for what useful lessons can be applied to life in general.

Frankly, as I consider the question, I don't think I have all that much left to do on the subject. Beyond to encourage others to thoughtfully persue their current interests in life...

Soooo.... This might be a good time for me to find a cure for the common cold.

That's something to do - too.

[AllieSF]

I am one of those "dress for the fun of it and going out whenever I can" types. My goals are on my ever growing bucket list to do more things en femme and stretching my own limits and eliminating fears, which are few at the present time thankfully.

[Teri Jean]

Goals,
My goals are so varied and I will try to explain a few of them. With that being said here is the list:

1) happiness - paramount
2) to be me and not him
3) transition as a female - working on that
4) HRT - prescription tomorrow afternoon
5) RLE - 5 months behind me and loving the new me
6) figure out a way to wear skirts to work, the ladder thing is going to be the issue, LOL
7) finally is to enjoy the wonderful company of the guys and gals here at CD.com

Snuggles Teri

[JenniferRose]

Goal wise, I would to be able to dress when ever I can and go out and become more comfortable with being out and about dressed lol.

[pamela_a]

I'll have to say my goals changed. At first it was all about dressing. As time went on I realized (or finally admitted to myself) it was much more than that so my goals changed. From starting to see a therapist, then HRT, then transition at work and start my RLE; it's been a progression of goals to reach.

I've finally reached the point where my goal now is to simply live my life as the woman I am and everything that entails. I'm now fully transitioned in my life. Getting my name and gender legally changed last month was the final goal on my list. The only remaining side note to that is I hope to be post-op before this year ends but if that doesn't happen I can still live my life as me.

[Janet K.]

My goal--to fully dress at least two entire days per week. Am I close to meeting that goal? Not a chance. I am underdressing 5 days a week and fully dressing an average of once every other week for a few hours each time. One day I will get there.

[Rachel05]

I just love to dress whenever and as often as I can, if I have a goal then it is to be brave enough to go out dressed, but I have work to do before I get there

[StarrOfDelite]

I'm a hedonistic, voluptuary sybarite, and when not fulfilling the duties of my employment I try to locate as much fun as possible, whether I'm dressed en femme, in drab, or in not much of anything at all. http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/images/smilies/battingeyelashes.gif At 58 you have to be careful to enjoy life before Daddy takes the T-Bird away!

Of course, as much fun as possible can be, e.g., enjoying a Harry Potter novel as much as anything involved with CD'ing. I know I can't leave TV/CD behind me, but I don't let it control me, either. Life is too short and too random to be defined by a label, isn't it?

[SuzanneBender]

My goal is best described by Ethel Merman singing at the top of her lungs, "I gotta be me"!

Balancing "me" with the life that I made as a man thats another goal. I gotta be me, but I am sure I don't want to do it at the expense of my family. It won't happend by my choice. Unfortunately, others have a say in that and I don't know how they are going to vote.

Happiness and being the best friend that I can be to as many as possible is another goal.

I used to have a goal of making the wrapper match the wonderful yummy goodness inside as much as possible. That goal has dimensed lately, because I realize no matter what clothes I am wearing I am always Suzanne.

[kimdl93]

hmmm, goal. I think I'm there...able to dress pretty much full time in the environment of my home, out to my wife, supported by her and to two other relatives. I haven't entirely decided if I can, should or want to go beyond this point.

[Wen4cd]

Individuation, self knowledge, integration, unification, stability, wellness, balance, continual growth, life. It's hard to make open-ended concepts 'goals,' but it's necessary.

[TNRobin]

The real thrill is in the journey, not the destination.

I'm just doing things as they come. At first my goal was just to dress a little bit around the house, then it was to pass as best I could, then to go out in public, now I'm working on becoming body hair free (beard too).

I don't know where it will end, but the journey is an exciting one.

[Kathi Lake]

Goal? Nope, I'm like my idol, Forrest Gump - floating from one experience to another. Also, like him, I'm not that bright, but I do know what love is, and I love these shoes I saw in Dillard's today!

:)

Kathi

[Loni]

i strive to understand myself, grow with in myself, (yes a bit self centered), not going to do the srs thing, but looking at maybe living as a woman. :eek: no wife or so.
learning all i can, and watching all the sunrises i can.:daydreaming:
i guess i am just trying to be....me. :D


loni

[Andria]

As far as crossdressing? No goal for me. I don't even know what I'm doing half the time, but I pretend I do. lol

[Karen564]

Goals??, I have plenty of them....

My main goal at the moment, is doing well in school to pass all the certifications I'll need for my new career as a Medical Professional..and should graduate by mid next year..

I'm currently past the 6 mo RLE & couldn't be happier with how that's going too..
SRS will happen as soon as I have the cash & plane ticket in my hand...but when that is, only God knows...& hopefully asap..

So the priority is my new career in order to support myself comfortably & afford to give my children a higher education..
:hugs:

[Regina]

Regina has goals long and short term. A 3-5 year plan... that includes the ending of my marriage, moving, partial transition and some other goals that I won't discuss right now because they are to far out.

But for this year it is continuing with Electrolysis, growing my hair out,finishing up the laser removal of a foolish tattoo some time back and blending myself in with the mainstream population...and oh yeh! finish paying for completion of a goal two years ago.



Regina

[dawnmarrie1961]

All I want to do is "LIVE" and be "Happy". That's all I want. That's not asking to much is it?

Be safe. Be smart.

Dawn Marrie

[joank]

I struggle with the goal thing all the time. I have no interest in a transition yet I want to dress as much as possilbe and be as presentable as possible. My fashion statement is conservative, business and comfortable casual. I love heels yet the tallest I have are 4" and most are much less. Also I have flats and loafers, etc. Lots of skirts and tops but dresses too and (gulp) pants, jeans and crops. Get the idea. My wife says I have a larger wardrobe than she does and she is correct.

So, where and I going. I really do not know. Much of the time I spend as Joan feels very right but so does my male side when fishing, hunting and just being a guy. It is very confusing for a 66 year old. Life should not be that difficult at my age.

[wishing2bali]

Wouldn't necessarily call it a goal, but I would like to learn more about Rachel and why she is a part of me, hard part is, is that I only contemplate those thoughts when dressed. And that's hard to do with a disapproving SO. I do wish sometimes that I could dress everyday, at least to some extent, and possibly live my life as Rachel. I do sometimes consider going through with SRS. Will I go through with it someday? I do not know. For now my goal is to just try and learn as much as I can when I can...

[JaytoJillian]

I am not sure of my goal, I just seem to cram as much dressing in as I can, and yes, I am very serious about it.

Ditto on that, Tamara. I find the possibilities both frightening and exciting at the same time. The thought of losing everything and everyone in my life is terrifying, while the peace I get from a few cosmetics and some scraps of cloth makes me wish it was something I did full time.

[Victoria Anne]

This is a very good question. A goal , yes indeed. I have stuggled my whole life with who I am and from the moment I accepted myself I have been happier than ever befor. With the support and encouragement of my wife I have sought out couceling and have now begun HRT and my end goal is to just be me , I must retain a male persona with wprk but this too will change in time, SRS well that would be and end goal finances willing.

[Cassandra Lynn]

I have accomplished sobriety so far (6 months on sat) and with that feeling of achievement, i'm now embarking on operation bring Cassandra to life. Beginning on saturday (3 big events) with my first make-over and wig fitting, and this is all leading up eventually, to me going out enfemme. So i'm working on my goals, but being careful to not stress it, and let it happen. Doing it any other way is a bad idea for ppl in recovery like me. One day at a time! :battingeyelashes: mj :)

[SusanLCD]

I want to be sufficiently blended to be able go out (and not be obvious.):daydreaming:

I've read enough posts to understand that passing isn't possible. But, to be blended well enough that, if someone gives me a 2nd glance while passing by, it's only because they're wondering. Right now, they would not be wondering; they would be sure on the 1st look.

I'm working on it. Much work to do...

Longer term: Like Kathi, I'm following the Forest Gump route. It will be fun.

[Kaz]

I realised a few years ago looking back that I had been through all the usual cycles hoping it would go away. So I decided to embrace it all - big step (for me).

I guess my goal is becoming clear and it is to understand who "I" am... am I Kaz, this other guy, or some combination of the two? I know it is the latter, and hence my goal!

In the meantime... dress as much as I can whenever I get a good opportunity!

Tonight I am in Birmingham overnight... Been out for a few hours... awesome!


Love Kaz xx

[Dee2U]

I am with those that dont have many firm goals but rather an evolution in mind. An evolution into my femininity as a person, inlcuding grooming and dress. I do have one firm goal though, and that is to come out to my SO some day. I know I can do it - and I am working on the how....Dee

[kimdl93]

I realised a few years ago looking back that I had been through all the usual cycles hoping it would go away. So I decided to embrace it all - big step (for me).

I guess my goal is becoming clear and it is to understand who "I" am... am I Kaz, this other guy, or some combination of the two? I know it is the latter, and hence my goal!

In the meantime... dress as much as I can whenever I get a good opportunity!

Tonight I am in Birmingham overnight... Been out for a few hours... awesome!


Love Kaz xx

why not when you look that good!

[ChloeR]

I want to be sufficiently blended to be able go out (and not be obvious.):daydreaming:

I've read enough posts to understand that passing isn't possible. But, to be blended well enough that, if someone gives me a 2nd glance while passing by, it's only because they're wondering. Right now, they would not be wondering; they would be sure on the 1st look.
Same here

[SusanMarie]

Peace of mind...

Might actually achieve it some day.

[Jenna Stunned]

Wow, this is a really good question. Lately I have been asking myself this very question. As I dont really get alot of chances to dress, And Im often in guy mode. I have been trying to think of ways to feel more feminine even while not so. More of an aproach at androgeny i guess. If that makes sense. I want to find a line of balance where both halfs can coincide in peace.

I supose its a thin line, If even achievable. But im gonna try anyhow. Things like trying to loss weight and gain more of a feminine tone body, But with out lossing my male self. I wanna look good no matter the gender im portraying. Also ive been thinking of getting my navel pierced. {if I can lose enough weight} And also getting an androgens tribal tattoo on my leg.

Small things that will make a difference of how i see myself. And more importantly feel about myself. Its alot to undertake, But hey.... We all have to have goals, right??

[tamarav]

Originally, in my simple mind, I was envisioning a few goal statements and the thread would die of old age. I am amazed at the depth of the answers and where you are all headed. Forest Gump was right in many respects, just keep taking them as they come.

[Rachel Morley]

I guess I don't have any specific goals, not really, other than to be happy. I suppose I could say that you and I are fairly in alignment in our thoughts in the sense that I too like to cram as much dressing in as I can (within reason) and I'm fairly serious about the details of my presentation.

If I do have a goal, it's to go out more to mainstream places en femme and push the envelope of my comfort zone so that when its all over and I look back on my life, I'll have no regrets about wishing I had been there or done that, while dressed en femme. My last attempt at doing something different was bowling on very busy Saturday night at a local "Strikes" last weekend. Lots of families and teens all over the place. Nothing bad happened though and in fact, we had a lot of fun! :)

[Karen564]

Originally, in my simple mind, I was envisioning a few goal statements and the thread would die of old age. I am amazed at the depth of the answers and where you are all headed. Forest Gump was right in many respects, just keep taking them as they come.


Tam,
Come on, I know your mind is far from simple...and asking any open ended question will give you more information than a closed one...Just as I've been trained to do in the medical classes, but besides all that, I think this is one of the most realistic & intelligent questions that have been asked on this site for a long time, and it's been long over due...

And why exactly I think this is such a great question is,
because it makes people think about a goal if they don't currently have one...because I for one feel goals are extremely important for anyone to move forward & strive to be a better human being...
And for the ladies that do know where their headed, I think that's just awesome..
So Tamara, give yourself some credit where credit is due, you Are intellegent & happens to be a beautiful human being that Also looks great in whatever she's wearing....
:hugs:

[TxKimberly]

I DO have a goal! It's to leave things maybe just a tiny bit better than I found them and to live my life with as few regrets as possible .. .
What do you think, is that asking too much?

[sherri52]

My Goal is to have fun, enjoy life, and except what pleasures I can. If the road on the way starts to turn, I'll see where it leads. If I don't like that road I'll take a different path.

[NathalieX66]

I DO have a goal! It's to leave things maybe just a tiny bit better than I cound them and to live me life with as few regrets as possible .. .
What do you think, is that asking too much?

Kimberly, my sentiment exactly. :worship:
I think collectively, if more people thought this way, the world WILL be a better place for us all. We are all snowflakes, meaning that every one of us is different, and that we should find the place in our lives that makes us most happy.

[suit]

goals ; to forgive myself for being human and all that goes with it . followed my menical laughter! tag your it!

[Rogina B]

I wish I could split my time between being a girl in the mainstream worklife and being a boy when needed.This economy just keeps away the opportunity to work and earn in girl mode..even if it is away from the public eye[think home office].I would love to have a laser spa and be able to be a girl while working. Not going to happen as people are not spending..I have had the idea of opening a Trans themed diner in a liberal part of South Florida.I love to cook[used to volumes] and people are still paying to eat...I would be working as Rogina and that would be a small part of the circus..It is a goal that I constantly think of.The more you do it,the better you get!:2c:

[Daenna Paz]

<[QUOTE=StarrOfDelite;2074589]I'm a hedonistic, voluptuary sybarite>

And quite the grammarian too! :D

Now what did I do with those goals?? Damn, hate getting older ...

[Evie08]

Tami,

Thank you for helping me renew my journey. My goal is to continously work on improving my appearance. The best benefit has been weight loss. My CDing commitment has been better than NutriSystems and Weight Watchers to stick to a healthy diet and exercise. Got to get those dress sizes down.

Evie

[docrobbysherry]

For goals and agendas!:doh:

One day, before I pass on, I WOULD like to know why I started dressing so late in life, and why it has become such a compulsion!:brolleyes:

But, those thots don't keep me awake at nite! Planning what I'm going to wear in my next CD session DOES!:D

I'm having too much fun to worry!:heehee:

[ArleneRaquel]

2 always be Arlene 24/7 !:battingeyelashes: :2c:

[Cheyenne Skye]

I wish I could split my time between being a girl in the mainstream worklife and being a boy when needed.This economy just keeps away the opportunity to work and earn in girl mode..even if it is away from the public eye[think home office].I would love to have a laser spa and be able to be a girl while working. Not going to happen as people are not spending..I have had the idea of opening a Trans themed diner in a liberal part of South Florida.I love to cook[used to volumes] and people are still paying to eat...I would be working as Rogina and that would be a small part of the circus..It is a goal that I constantly think of.The more you do it,the better you get!:2c:

Well when you start up the restaurant, give me a holler. I've been cooking for a living now for over 20 years and this would be a great opportunity.

As to the original question: I just want to know why I do what I do and find peace with that. As was also mentioned before, I am currently working towards a more androgynous appearance. I have longish manicured nails. I'm letting my hair grow out and I'm shaving more than I use to. One day I hope to muster the courage to completely make myself over to a full femme appearance, but I'm taking it a small step at a time.

[Aubrey Green]

When I was 11 or 12, I knew I was Aubrey. By 14 I knew I needed to become Aubrey for the rest of my life and planned to move out of state at 18 and begin by transition. How everyday circumstances change things, here I am almost 53 and still waiting to be who I should have been. I am too old to be the woman I should have been born. I missed what could have been some exciting 20's and 30's and all the misery that goes with transition. I am not happy in my life, but I am content with where I am.

[marlacd]

To be able to be around friends that are like me. Having a place to go that doesn't require a long distance to go, and a small fortune to be there. Having my SO more accepting of who I am, and not be worried about if I would cheat. (I wouldn't) Get, or be more polished in my appearance.

[Sarah Doepner]

When it comes to crossdressing I don't have a goal in mind as much as I have feeling of peace and completion that only seems to come when I've gone as far as I can with my presentation as a female. It's hard to describe, but I know it when I get it and it feels right. I want to spend as much time feeling that way as I can, so I guess that's my goal. If I could find it without the makeup and clothing that would be great and so much simpler, but it hasn't happened yet. I don't know why either. Make that another goal I guess.

Beyond that I want to make it easier for others to find a safe place with support for this side of their life. I spent way too much time in my younger years hiding, thinking I was alone in what I did or believing it was wrong. So chalk up one more.

Finally I'd like to see Karren flip the puck just past the goalies glove into the net for the win just as time expires. My goal would be to see her goal.

[ErikaLeigh]

Well .... Happiness is also my main goal. I am fairly content with who I am, with the exception that I wish I was more passable. My marriage has grown stronger through all of this in the last few years since my wife found out, and improves more everyday, cant complain at all about that. Slowly making a few changes as the days go by. Considereing facial laser hair removal, funny thing is its not really to be more passable, that will just be a bonus, but lately I have been having nasty rashes from my facial hair, and it isnt getting better only worse no matter what I try. In the end I would just like to be Erika more than I am now. I have thought about the transition thing, but its not for me at all. I am happy being me, and no way is anyone EVER going to get a knife near certain areas of my body.

[Pepper2783]

Well I understand what you're saying but... I don't get the question. My goal as a transvestite/CD have a sweet clothing collection,and a great woman in my life,and the dream career.

[Jennifer Marie P.]

My goal is almost complete to be Jennifer 24/7 and to be happy and the woman I want to be.

[Michelle-Leigh]

My goal is, by making any improvements I can, to render myself at least a little more convincing. I would like to lose this 40 lbs. and get a custom made Veronica II padded girdle, so that I would look really good in a skirt and blouse....

[Tina B.]

My goals are almost all met, A loving and understanding wife, (got one) The opportunity to dress almost daily. (have that) A Hugh wardrobe, (recently found a great bargain, and bought 15 new tops, pants and skirts). Oh yes I might be a closet CD, but I can dress with the best as far as wardrobe goes.
But as a goal I would love to get into those things in the back of the closet, that are to small for me right now, and I am working on that.
Tina B.

[Phyliss]

"What are your goals?" the obligatory question in every psych class I've ever taken, and to this day, I have trouble answering it.
As soon as I set a particular "goal" something in life comes along and totally disrupts the plan. I don't do "change" well.
I'll give this a try.
Presently I have a 5 yr plan that I'm working on. I'll be 70 and maxed out on social securtiy. Figure oin ritiring about then and simply work when I choose. House will be paid off around then. My developementally challenged grandson will be 21 and out of high school. I'm working on a transition plan for him to a group home for adults. This all means I'll be alone and able to do as I wish, when I wish. Me personally, I'm presently seeing a therapist with the idea of talking to a real shrink who can prescribe proper HRT for me. Yeah, I'm considering the possible thought of exploring some ideas of transition. Don't know if I'm gonna "go all the way" ... yet, but if I don't get some information, I'll never know if I could have done what I'm thinking about.

Call it a "goal" if you want, I prefer to say it's a plan of things to do.

[Jamie48]

As far as being a CD I don't really have a goal I just love who I am & what I am doing.

[Frédérique]

Kind of an open question, but I meet a lot of CDs and each one has their own agenda. Some of them don't seem to have a direction or a goal, just to be able to dress when they can.
Are you moving toward a distinct goal or just having as much fun as you can?

I’m not really moving towards anything – I’m comfortable in my closet, as if it’s a little nest I made for myself. I was lucky to find this spot, so I’ll be staying here as long as possible. I know my place, and I’m simply a MtF crossdresser, no more, no less. My only agenda is to survive and make it to the next hour, day, week, month, and year, hopefully having as much fun as I can along the way. So far, so good…:battingeyelashes:

[charlie]

Denise on the forum here got me thinking long ago about just being me. I used to dress and then act as feminine as I could. In drab I would act as a male. Now I think I have found a middle ground and try to be just, well, me. I have no goal to transition (it would end in divorce), to dress all the time or have hormones. Just dress and be free as often as I can.

[Mandy]

My goal is to get into size 14 skirt and actually go out :daydreaming:

[suchacutie]

I presume we are limiting our goals to those involving our transgendered selves, so:

My initial goal was to find out who this Tina person is! It seems obvious that it's somewhat obsessive to find out who this feminine person is who has been a part of my life forever without my recognizing that fact! I presume I'll never lose this goal.

However, as time goes on it's become clear that Tina is here to stay. I like her. Luckily my wife likes her too! I don't see anywhere's near enough of her, and since she's here to stay our goal is to be so comfortable with both my masculine and feminine selves that I can slip back and forth between them with ease and not miss a beat! I don't ever want to mix them. I love it as him or her, but not a mixture of the two, but when the day arrives that I can live as either and transform from one to the other as turning on a dime is when I think (hope?) that I will have come to understand the mixture of the genders within!

Us...

[SherriePall]

My goal is to go out more often and when I do go out, make sure that I represent the community well and not embarrass myself personally.
I would also like to do a few different things when I am out, but I am not going to push towards meeting those goals because I feel that some of them just have to happen.
Another goal is to look better each time I do go out. But time is against me already on that.

[Kaz]

Kimberly, my sentiment exactly. :worship:
I think collectively, if more people thought this way, the world WILL be a better place for us all. We are all snowflakes, meaning that every one of us is different, and that we should find the place in our lives that makes us most happy.

Yeah... I'll go with that!

[Susie Mae]

My goals have changed over the years. Through college, I could be taken to parties as a girl, flirting, and sometimes playing, with men. As I got older and heavier, I kept my girly side within the home. My present goal is to just have the pleasure of being dressed in my favorite undergarments all day. When at home, I have a wardrobe of tight femme clothes to wear, but I change into drabs when I go outside. I do leave a little lipstick and eye-shadow on, just to see if anyone notices.

[Kaz]

I presume we are limiting our goals to those involving our transgendered selves, so:

My initial goal was to find out who this Tina person is! It seems obvious that it's somewhat obsessive to find out who this feminine person is who has been a part of my life forever without my recognizing that fact! I presume I'll never lose this goal.

However, as time goes on it's become clear that Tina is here to stay. I like her. Luckily my wife likes her too! I don't see anywhere's near enough of her, and since she's here to stay our goal is to be so comfortable with both my masculine and feminine selves that I can slip back and forth between them with ease and not miss a beat! I don't ever want to mix them. I love it as him or her, but not a mixture of the two, but when the day arrives that I can live as either and transform from one to the other as turning on a dime is when I think (hope?) that I will have come to understand the mixture of the genders within!

Us...

This is very much where I am at too... I really like Kaz, but I don't want to be 24/7 (well maybe for a week or so...?)... There is something kinda funky about the switch... All day I have been waiting for this evening... that sense of anticipation is awesome!

:daydreaming:

[kimdl93]

This is very much where I am at too... I really like Kaz, but I don't want to be 24/7 (well maybe for a week or so...?)... There is something kinda funky about the switch... All day I have been waiting for this evening... that sense of anticipation is awesome!

:daydreaming:

I can relate. I don't think I can ever realistically enjoy 24/7 dressed - just toooo many complications with extended family, work, and so on, but I try to "be" the same person regardless of how I'm dressed. Still, when in en drab, I can't wait to get dressed again! If there's a goal - or progression I'd like to make, it would be finding the courage and confidence to go out en femme.

[t-girlxsophie]

My Immediate goal is to get back out and about and meet up with my friends again for a girlie night out,been so long

My ultimate goal I set,9 years ago was perhaps back then a forlorn wish,to find someone who would love me for who i am,and who would understand my other life,Im so glad It came to pass.I urge other girls never to give up,You never know whats around the corner

:hugs:

[lori m crawford]

for it not what mosted said it to be what i am in side not on the out side witch is a lie an to find that person that can love me for me not what the wont to be yes cding is not what women wont in man but i a lot of things that men dont wont in a women if have golds do it dont let no stop you i have pople stop me fore 40yrs i live ther life now it is my turn

[Tootsye]

Hey girlfriend. You are on your way! You took a little baby step last Saturday. Your goal of two days per week may come sooner than you expect! I just came off of four days in a row. I have been as high as sixteen. If one can live FT for sixteen days, she can do thirty and if she can do thirty, she can do forever!
Keep the faith sis!
Hugs,
Tootsye

[thechic]

My goal is just to be myself,express my feelings more and to act how i want to act without criticism.