GingerLeigh
03-20-2010, 09:03 AM
It's been a week since I've told my dad. He's had time to digest it, and came up with a few questions...
1) Will I tell my mom. (they're divorced)
no, she probably cannot handle it.
2) Is the secret stash secure enough my kids won't find it?
yes, buried under very heavy things in a dark area.
3) Is it worth risking everything for?
yes/no
4) Will I ever tell my wife
maybe, a little
He says he considers it a "fetish". I'm not really sure if that is what I'd call it, but if it makes it easier for him to understand, well whatever. I told him it's more than that. I told him if I abstain, I get miserable, depressed, anxious, etc...
He told me he has no more questions, and will not ask about it anymore unless I need to talk to him about it. He said it made us closer, and he doesn't see it as really a big deal. Odd yes, but nothing serious.
Ginger
1) Will I tell my mom. (they're divorced)
no, she probably cannot handle it.
2) Is the secret stash secure enough my kids won't find it?
yes, buried under very heavy things in a dark area.
3) Is it worth risking everything for?
yes/no
4) Will I ever tell my wife
maybe, a little
He says he considers it a "fetish". I'm not really sure if that is what I'd call it, but if it makes it easier for him to understand, well whatever. I told him it's more than that. I told him if I abstain, I get miserable, depressed, anxious, etc...
He told me he has no more questions, and will not ask about it anymore unless I need to talk to him about it. He said it made us closer, and he doesn't see it as really a big deal. Odd yes, but nothing serious.
Ginger