Finally came out

[Imeni]

I had secretly always loved wearing women's clothing, let it be panties, bras, nylons, lingrie or dresses, but ive always been so incredibly scared to say anything about it.

So, this morning, I finally gave in and talked to one of the girls i talk to about the most random stuff that i want to do it more, not so much out in public, as im very sure no one around here would understand, but i just like feeling i get when i dress up like that, and she's willing to help me if it makes me feel better about myself. She's willing to shop for anything i need, that i cant get. I have no credit card, and i can't simply walk into someplace like walmart, as im very much a gruff looking biker guy.

Im not really looking to put myself in the shoes of a woman, as many of you beautiful ladies do, but, im just glad i have found someone i can talk to about this. But im also very scared that, shes going to let it slip that i do, and it will tumble into something so big that im afraid ill have to move, get a new job and start over again. Am i just being paranoid?

[KayleeDahl]

Confiding your one of your closest held secrets can be both a liberating, and scary thing. I guess to know if your worries are justified, you have to look back at your relationship with the person that you confided in. Does she normally keep your secrets for you? or does she spread the smallest thing you say around the office? If she normally is good about your secrets, then I wouldn't worry at all.

Also, There are probably very few occupations that you would have to quit & relocate for if a "rumor" of your crossdressing got out. I'd make sure you keep everything in perspective, and enjoy the new freedom that you have!

Hugs
-Kaylee

[Sweeterica]

Hi i can understand your worries,only you can really know what your friend will do,sure if she has never told people about stuff before i guess you will be ok,i wouldnt think she would like to loose a friend.