Dateing service on internet ?

[Krystal Lee]

Alright girls have any of you tried meeting someone on those date services.

If you have how did it work out?

Were you up front and told them right away?

The reason I am asking is I regestered on one and have made a connection. Now I am wondering how much to tell up front. In this case we have seen each other and spent some time together but live over 100 miles apart.

Guess I don't want to start something and not be up front but am not sure about how and when.

Any feedback will be appriciated.

Hugs Krystal.

[Fallen Angel]

take it from me belive in half of what they say and only what you see every body tries to sell them self and make up all the half trueths if they really told the trueth they wouldnt be on there looking for some one becarefull for what you wish for xxx

[kysmet]

My last girlfriend I told in the first half hour of chatting with her online. Worked well for about a year and a half and then things got........well, weird. Let's just say that there is a chapter in my life I still wonder about. Anyway, I decided to give online dating a try again. I was up front in my bio's on about 7 different sites. Mostly alternative ones. After 8 months of no responses, I decided that no one wants to hear the truth on those things and shut down all of my ads. That doesn't mean that it won't work. Just didn't work for me.

Ericka Jean

[Natalie x]

In my opinion, there is no good purpose served by giving too much away about yourself too soon. You have no idea how long the relationship will last. If things start to look serious, you could then tell her.

[LaceLuvr's GG]

This one's a great story girls.....I should let you know all up front that I was a young single, straight girl looking for a guy...

About 4 months ago, I was tired of subscribing to all the internet personals sites. I hadn't had any luck with ANY of them... so I decided I would get into a local chat room and see what happens. I went into a couple.. with no luck but the usual "how big are your boobs?".. and "do you want to cyber?" I was getting pretty tired of it.. but I figured I'd try one more room. So, I went into the room and introduced myself. Straight away people started talking to me... but one stuck out above the rest. I checked his profile.. he was very cute.. and so we started talking. I was blown away by the fact that he actually wanted to have a conversation with me.. find out stuff about me.. it was great. I continued to go into the room every nite for a few nites.. and I finally invited the guy over to "hang out". We had lots of fun, and this continued for about a week. Nothing sexual happened between us, and to be completely honest I thought he was gay... as not once had he tried anything with me. I was ok with it.. and thought that I had made a great friend.... oh how wrong I was....then one nite I actually got a kiss goodbye from him and thought "ok, that was nice.. I guess I was wrong"

One nite we were chatting online together talking about each others deepest secrets when he told me that there was something about him that he wanted to tell me. That's when he revealved to me that he enjoyed partial crossdressing. I was blown away. Well... instead of going on and on with the intimate details... we're still together today. I had never been around anything like that before... and oh how I was missing out. I've never been happier... I've found the greatest guy in the world!!!!!

So... yes... internet dating can be great!!!!

Hope that helped ;)

[LaceLuvr's GG]

In my opinion, there is no good purpose served by giving too much away about yourself too soon. You have no idea how long the relationship will last. If things start to look serious, you could then tell her.


I agree that it may not be smart to publically announce to people what you do.. (if you don't want to).. especially if it's a local site that your on.. but I do believe that it is important to be open up front. You should be able to tell after a couple of meetings if that person would be ok with your secret. If you don't think she is... you should keep looking!!!! How it upsets me to read the posts on here about people that have been in relationships for so long and have never been able to tell your SO. If you're single and looking.. I would definately advise going straight for the gold. Find someone that's going to except everything about you. It worked for my CDSO. It may take a little time.. but it's worth it in the end.

[Natalie x]

That's a lovely story, LaceLuvr'sGG. It shows how a CD's feminine side can be attractive, and also shows how choosing the right time to tell can allow the friendship to develop.

(do you have an easier name we can call you, or could you invent one?)

[Krystal Lee]

Thank you all for you replys and input.

I know it's tough out there and just won't do the bar thing so am hopeing this will help.

It's not a local sight but lots of local responces. Have been suprised with that. Once I got a picture up the responces started comming in (Tristen thank you again for your help). Have weeded out many and replyed to a few resdondents just think I am somewhat out of my element.

Been so long and the dating game seems to have changed. I know that this time around she (whoever that turns out to be) will know in the beginning.

Guess I want reinforcement that I am taking the right approach.

Thank you all again. Hugs Krystal.

[JenniferPaul]

I have had some suggests with one online sight. On my Profile I have pictures of me as Jennifer. I have gotten many responses. Some negative but many positive. Have been able to carry many conversations. Many of the women I met I have not conversed with for awhile, but there are a few that I exchange emails or IM's regularly. This about everyone lives thousands of miles away, except one local person that I meet once for coffee. For some reason I get a lot of favorable responses from women from the Phillipines.

Jennifer