Hi all

[KatieEvans]

Heya.

I was here a few months back then had a complete relapse with accepting that i am a crossdresser, in the past 2 months i have come to terms with it now, and i have ordered my self a few things, just some underware first, next month im ordering my first heels wig and a skirt.. :)

xxx

[StacyCD]

Katie,

It took me a lot longer than two months to accept my crossdressing! I only wish I had come to the realization that this is a part of who I am and accepted that part of me because how can we expect others to accept us if we do not accept ourselves? Welcome!

[KatieEvans]

It's taken me a long time, im only young though so suppose i have accepted it quite early in my life.

What can i say i can't wait to see my self fully femme, :)

[jasmine57]

Now that you've accepted it, have fun and enjoy it.

[KatieEvans]

Now that you've accepted it, have fun and enjoy it.

Thank you :)

XXX

[CatAttack]

Good for you Katie! I'm glad to hear :)

[charlen]

i have be fighting the urge for 40yrs and still cant accept it . glad you could so young.

[AllThingsPretty]

Do yourself a favor. If you ever Purge. Don't throw it all out. Just put it in storage so it will be there when you accept yourself again.

I am talking from experience.

But on the other hand. Since your have come to terms with yourself. don't listen to me :D

[Freddy12]

Congratulations for coming to accept who you are. That's a GREAT step.

Freddy

[Elle1946]

You are who you are, becareful of the PINK FOG!!Enjoy!!

[KatieEvans]

Thanks all, give me a month or two and i will hopefully post pictures up, :D, need to learn how to do my make up though.. :o

[DonniDarkness]

Katie,

Heres your first girly gift

http://www.youtube.com/user/MakeupGeekTV

[charlie]

Hello Katie!
Accepting it is much better then hating yourself each time that you dress. As the rest of the people here have said, it is part of us, and it probably will not go away. That said, enjoy your new found acceptance and clothes that you will be buying. The wig is an important piece. Don't just skimp and buy a cheap one from eBay. Go to a wig store and try a few on. The lady that is there will make suggestions and show you one that she feels is best for you. Buy that one! I did it the other way and had a few bad looking wigs before getting it right.

[sherri52]

Katie; for most of the girls here acceptance of oneself was hard. To be diffenent in an unaccepting world is not a good thing to most, but most of us here have embraced our dressing and believe it has made us better people. With our fem side coming out our male side sees and feels more of what a woman goes through on a daily basis. This has made us more understanding of thier needs and makes us more sensitive to feelings. Take your time, understanding will come naturally.

[Samantha_Smile]

I spent over 14 years accepting myself.
Ive only really been self accepted since I admitted everything to my SO. Saying it out loud to her was saying it out loud to me too.
Thats when I felt better about... well, pretty much everything :)

[KatieEvans]

Thanks Smile, loving your pictures btw and that pink dress is extremley cute.

XXX

[Frédérique]

I was here a few months back then had a complete relapse with accepting that i am a crossdresser, in the past 2 months i have come to terms with it now, and i have ordered my self a few things, just some underware first, next month im ordering my first heels wig and a skirt...

Yeah, there’s nothing bad about being a crossdresser, at least in my way of looking at things. It’s a neat way to ‘be,” don’t you think? I’m not a fan of heels, but the underwear, wig and skirt are essential elements to your ensemble – I began with a skirt and went inwards, both physically and mentally. :battingeyelashes: Putting on a wig was one of those momentous moments in my life – I mean, I never thought I would do that in a million years, but it seemed logical when the time came. At that moment I stepped over the line, never to return. That was a long time ago, and I’m still thankful I made that first step. I suppose I had to embrace who I was at some point, but it was painless, since I already believed in myself. Luckily, I wasn’t full of guilt or foreboding about the meaning of my activity – I just did it, enjoyed doing it, and kept doing it, purely for the pleasure of it all…