Offensive? Fashion Advice From a Fox... Yes You.

[Ria]

If I go to a fetish night club dressed... Can I- not wear a "gaf" or tuck in any way... AND wear a short tight mini skirt or pencil skirt?

So what you've got... is a Very HOT crossdressing freek at a fetish nightclub that almost pulls-off "chick" if it wasn't for his junk being pressed up against his skirt........ (and his prominant jawline and adam's apple) but who cares about that...

I realize I could wear a ruffled skirt or a coarser-material type skirt that would hide the "piece"... But I really like the look of the tight pencil skirt.

IMHO I don't think it looks bad... in the mirror, I look like a lady with a lump... A lovely lady lump.

I'm almost okay with it considering it seems like a very libral fetish night club but... it's a jump.

SO... Lets hear it... what would you do ladies?

Fastchanger.:heehee:

[t-girlxsophie]

Reminds me of the joke picture message i recieved titled "when you know your skirt is too short" Im afraid I dont think the pic would be allowed on here though lol

Im 44 but my best feature is my legs,so other ppl have told me.So I still on occasion wear denim mini,with knee high boots very sexy look

[Vickie_CDTV]

If it is a fetish nightclub, and you are not trying to pass, you are probably ok as long as you have your bits and pieces properly covered.

[Rogina B]

Well Fast Changer,Duct tape will keep your "junk" flat and allow you to wear that tight skirt to the club...You may feel some discomfort if you forget to wear your gaffe under the tape!:D

[docrobbysherry]

I PICTURE is worth a thousand words! And, one could help us help u a LOT better, too!:)

[Stephenie S]

I think a fetish club is probably OK with anything you want to wear. Doesn't the name say it all?

I can remember the thrill of dressing like a sl*t. I did it myself 30 years ago. Hair piled high, tons of makeup, heels so high I got nosebleed, ridiculous outfits cut down to here and up to there. I didn't care. I WANTED to be noticed and I was.

I wouldn't DREAM of dressing like that today. But I'm no longer young and I'm no longer foolish. I'm lucky I didn't end up with HIV from that period. It didn't take much for me to stick my legs in the air back then.

Wear what ever you want dear, but please be careful. Life is ever so much more dangerous today.

Stephie

[charlie]

Hello Fastchanger!
I also love tight skirts and the new tight leggings with just a top. In both cases it is best to keep the "boys" out of sight. I don't want the "lump" look. What I do is buy shaper panties (pantys that have lots of elastic meant to hold in the tummy). They are very cheap at Big Lots. To these I sew in a pocket low in the crotch. With the pocket, everything gets held low and does not show, it is not as tight as a gaff so it is more comfortable and the fix is cheap!

[Fab Karen]

Never tuck ( the equipment isn't designed for that ), but have never worn anything tight enough that obviously shows.

[Nicole Erin]

Karen

No doubt, heck with that, tucking hurts like a mo-fo.

I would just wear a flaired skirt. tight skirts show off the hips that most TG's don't really have anyways

[sherri52]

try wearing a pair of tight panties to help keep it back at least a little.

[Deidra Cowen]

I think at a wild fetish club what the heck go for it if it floats your boat!

[Billie1]

The dance club that I go to frequently is usually such a sensory overload, that I find it difficult to think of what would be considered offensive. It's certainly not like going to Denny's on a senior citizens night.:eek: More than likely, a discrete bulge under a skirt would hardly be noticed. If you think it looks OK, go, and have some fun!

Be well,
Billie

[MarinaKirax]

Probably no one would care ( I've never been to a fetish club), but the issue is how you want to portray yourself, and how you want people to respond to you. Do you want to be approached, and flirted with as a woman? or a crossdressing fetishist? Is your 'club personna' woman, or she-male? I think you'll end up being approached by different people and having different conversations. But then maybe there will be no conversations at all :) like I said, I've never been to a fetish club!

[StarrOfDelite]

Try using a combination of the following:

1. This will require a bit of practice, but ice your package before you put on your panties. There really is something to the old joke about cold weather and ice water making the male essentials shrink.

2. Wear a pair of heavy elastic women's panties.

3. Use duct tape on the outside of the panties, from the front of the waist band all the way round to the back, and don't scrimp on the pressure you use to get the flat effect.

4. Don't have lascivious thoughts which will tend to cause the constricted parts to expand.

Also,you might want to consider the unfortunate true-ism which Nicole Erin mentioned, i.e. flared skirts look better than tight-fitting mini's anyways. Unless you are either one of the lucky ones whose hips and waist and shoulders have female type proportions, or you are wearing hip forms or padded panties, you don't want to emphasize your flat male buttocks if you are making an attempt to pass.

[Brenda Freeman]

I think it is fine,depends on what you are marketing! You are going their to have fun, be seen and present as you want to be crossdresser or trying to pass?, some gurls have lumps! Some hide them! No big secret their! and a fetish club never been to one but I am guessing their is quite a range of presentations marketed for everyones viewing pleasure conversation and whatever! Have fun!

[Tranny Tee]

I would guess that you will be showing something that they have all seen before. Yu might check the rules of the establishment you may be dressed too conservatively.

[Sarah Doepner]

What works at a fetish club is a social issue, I thought this was a fashion question. You can do what you think is best for you, but I think a tight skirt looks best if it is flat in front.

[Ria]

I want to be able to use the mens room and not have to worry about duct tape etc...

I'm going to pass on the tucking, thanks for the input.

My guess is, I'm not passing anyhow... Not up close.

[Billijo49504]

No duct tape here, mine likes to play turtle. It goes inside and hides. Now for the twins, a pair of control panties keeps them under control...BJ

[Karren H]

Personally I don't like the look... Lumps in the wrong place really ruin the lines of a pretty dress... I would no more do that and go out enfemme as I would go braless or not wear my corset enfemme.. But hey... You wear what you like, the way you want to wear it.. I'll wear what I like..