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beccy
04-18-2010, 01:34 PM
is it still right to consider myself ts even though the chance of transitioning a xery remote due to circumstances (ie a wife lol) or dose that make me more a cd? i know what i am i just want other ppls oppinion on this.

Ze
04-18-2010, 01:39 PM
Beccy, I'd personally say that it ultimately depends on what you feel in your heart, not necessarily the actions you can or cannot carry out.

I'm currently in a restrictive environment myself, and although I won't be able to start my transition until I move, I still consider myself an FtM transperson. :)

kellycan27
04-18-2010, 01:40 PM
It's what's in your head and heart that defines you.. all the other stuff is baically just cosmteic. So yes it's 100% possible to be TS without ever transitioning.

Kel

Katesback
04-18-2010, 03:18 PM
Most transsexual people dont transition for 1000 reasons. It takes a lot of resolve and courage to be you babe.

StaceyJane
04-18-2010, 03:43 PM
I'm not transitioning right now but I definitely consider myself TS. It is what's in my heart that counts.

CharleneT
04-18-2010, 03:50 PM
TS is who you are, transitioning is what you might do.

No worries :hugs:

Schatten Lupus
04-18-2010, 04:04 PM
It's what it is in your heart and soul that defines you. Physically, I am unable to transition, am very male with a beard at the moment, but I still consider myself to be a woman.

EnglishRose
04-18-2010, 04:34 PM
Definitely.

I'm out to my wife but not transitioning. Yet.

beccy
04-18-2010, 04:56 PM
Thankyou all for your kind words I too am out to a few ppl and in the years to come I may yet transition but while I maybe male on the outside my heart and soul are truly female.

crystalann
04-18-2010, 05:40 PM
If you would have asked me a few years ago this question, I would have said NO. In no way could I or would I ever be able to be myself! But there just came a time when I needed to move on and when and if it's right for you, only you can say. Best of luck:)

RylieCD
04-18-2010, 06:52 PM
I agree it is how you feel but what you may or may not do is up to you. I have things in my life that I am not willing to loose (the love of my life) there for where are the priorites.

Veronica_Jean
04-18-2010, 09:14 PM
Beccy,

I am on the same mind set as so many others.... Being TS is how we were born. What you chose to do is transitioning... or not.

No matter what you chose to do you are and always will be TS.

:2c:

Veronica

Elizabeth 66
04-19-2010, 03:53 AM
:iagree:

Its in you heart and mind that counts.. simple as that, i once heard someone say that a transsexual person is somebody born into the body of the opposing sex to their spiritual self, and i think that is very true.