what would I be if

[bredalee25]

I were born female?

I've often wondered if I were born a girl would I truely be happy with it. Would I still be a CD only ftm instead of an mtf.

Have any of you had the same questions in your mind?

If I were truely happy with being born female I'd see myself as the perfect wife and mother. I'd want my family to come first career second. I know thats not how alot of women do it but their priorities are all different.

[Jonianne]

I were born female?.....

If I were born female, I would want to be tomboyish and would not let society dictate how I should be. I would cherish being female, but also get involved in whatever guy dominate field I wanted.

As a guy, I don't let the same obstacles keep me from doing whatever it is that my heart yearns for.

[Staci G]

Thats easy, a lesbien hooker :eek: Just kidding I wuld want to work in an office so I could dress inheels skirt and hose, I am sure I would want to look nice to tease all the crossdressers and make them jeleous.

[gabimartini]

I don't think I'd crossdress had I been born a female. But it's really hard speculate on that. Professionally, I think I would've pursued a career in psychology, rather than business (which is what I do in real life).

[Amanda Stubbs]

If I'd been born a girl i'm sure I'd still want my independance to suit myself do as I please etc. I'd hope to be one of those beautiful girls who made me walk into street lights/signposts while 'transfixed' by them! I'd love to work as one of those beautiful women who model clothes on the shopping channel, or the beautiful Amanda Lamb who presented 'A Place In The Sun'.
Yes I've dreamt about it often! Yet when I wake I'm still happy to be me.

[JOJO44]

Yes, I have thought and dreamed about that.
The question is, if you had the same mind and was born female.
Being born female with different DNA, who knows where you would be.
Defineately a female, but what would your brain be saying or doing?
Who knows.

With the same brain:
I might marry some guy (must be good looking).
I might be a career person (defineately one where I would be allowed to (tease :battingeyelashes:) all the guys).
I defineately would be a clothes horse (at least two closets (one frilly and one with jeans, t-shirts, plain blouses and boots)).

Yes, I would probably (married or not) be the town flirt.
And yes, I would belong to one man only, if married.


:love: and :hugs:

Jo

[Karren H]

I would mind so much... As long I was pretty... Thin and richer than $*#@t.... Now what purse did I leave the keys to my Ferari??

[Toni_Lynn]

I've often wondered if I were born a girl would I truely be happy with it. Would I still be a CD only ftm instead of an mtf.

Oh yeah! I hope that if I was born female I'd be an ftm crossdresser. Something about the whole aspect of 'gender-play' just totally enthralls me.

As I've stated in other threads, one of the items on my bucket list is to get all femme'd out and then dressed in guys clothes and undies for a photoshoot. Wow! I'd love it!:daydreaming:

Huggles

Toni-Lynn

[Nicole Brown]

Well, If I had been born female I don't think that I would be asking for anything as I would already be what I have dreamed of being all of my life. Nope, wouldn't ask for a single thing, except to be beautiful, graceful, intelligent, sexy and very loved by my husband and children.

[suzy1]

1 know this is a bit shocking to some but if I was really hot I would be a high class call girl. $500 an hour, $2,500 a weekend.

[Tranny Tee]

I get out dressed en femme at least once or twice a month. That is once or twice more than most of the women around here get dressed up. If I had been born female I would probably spend less time in a dress than I do now. Happily I was born male so I can spend more time expressing my female side.

[thechic]

If i were born female ,I would be not so confused. and would not be on this forum.

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[NV Susan]

Geneva, if you were born female would you still have that drinking problem???:drink::drink::drink::drink::drink: Just kidding,
If born female I would like to be a saloon girl in the 1850's.......

[Kayla Shadows]

If I was born female Id probably be just as unruly.

I have my moods with things.Sometimes dressed up,sometimes dressed down..Depends on what I might be feeling that day or whatever the plans are.

[Mistybtm]

If I was born female I would want to be a busty porn star :dom:

[Nicole Erin]

Man if was born female, I hate to say but my life would probably be screwed up as it is now.

I would probably be some single mother with an a-hole of an ex not wanting to help pay for the kid or something.

[Angiemead12]

I guess I would not be on this site if I was born female!

[RockerTerri]

Id be me, only with narrower shoulders and wider hips. Ive become pretty convinced that our emotions, our likes and dislikes (in a broad sense) are pretty much set, and thats what defines who we are.

I would still love music.
I would still despise intolerance.
I would still be enjoying college.
I would still worry about the economy, and its impact on my hometown.
I would still probably dress and act relatively similar to the way I do now.
I would still be one of the moodiest people on the planet.

And etc, etc. At least if I understood the question right?

Terri

[bredalee25]

WOW!!!

You all have alot of different answers. In my case I'd be happy just being on this earth. If I were female it would be interesting to experience life growing up. When I think back as to how it was during my male childhood I wonder if I'd been outside playing in the dirt with all my tonka trucks or in the house playing with barbie dolls. I'll just have to keep wondering what if there are no do overs in life as a different sex.

[Kate Simmons]

Women don't have the same issues we do Bren. They just go with the flow. There is a lot to learn from that really.:)

[adrienner99]

A princess.

[AlexisWest]

I sure wouldn't worry about passing anymore. It's the same unfairness we live with everyday. I could dress in a t-shirt and jeans, just like the guys and still do all kinds of guys things. But would always be able to do all the frilly girly things too.

[sandra-leigh]

I read something today that is was vague enough to possibly be applicable to me, which suggested that I might perhaps have been born with an extra X chromosome. Well, that would perhaps explain some things :straightface:

I do not think much about if I had been born XX; I guess if I had, I would probably have ended up as something like a legal assistant. Hard to say, though, as even back then women were getting in to the professional field I entered, so there would not have been any obvious barrier to becoming what I did.

I think more often about what if I had been born in the Middle Ages.

[sometimes_miss]

In the era when I was born, there was a transition going on from stay at home wife and subservient mate to the independent, 'liberated' female. I see in my sister the results of that confusion; growing up, not quite knowing what you were supposed to be (gee, that sounds familiar). Assuming my early childhood being pretty much the same, other than the abuse that caused all this, I probably would have been a little less screwed up and so managed to become the doctor I wanted to be. Happy? I'm generally so-so happy, so yeah, probably. Who knows, though. Sis and I were both tall and slim, with good facial bone structure; if I didn't have the birthmark, maybe I would have been a model.

[Karen564]

Well, I'd just hope for the correct organs & genitalia, because after this last time, something went very, very wrong !..:sad:


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[kellycan27]

I sure wouldn't worry about passing anymore. It's the same unfairness we live with everyday. I could dress in a t-shirt and jeans, just like the guys and still do all kinds of guys things. But would always be able to do all the frilly girly things too.

What unfairness might that be?

[MrKunk]

If I were born female, a model and photographer, maybe a nurse.

[Jane G]

My life would definitely have been different, but maybe not as different as you might think.

I would still have been a adrenalin junky, I would most likely have been into girls, as I find them far more attractive that men or is that hormones?, don't know. I'd still have been a slightly laid back anarchy’s. As for the rest who knows, a jobs a job.

I'm pretty sure I would have enjoyed life just as much as I do now. Just a different life.

[suzy]

Had I been born a female rather than a male, I would be the person that I have always wanted to be! I would wear feminine clothes the vast majority of the time and do all of the "girly" things but then have the option to dress as masculine as I wanted because society accepts that as well! Ahhh...the best of both worlds.... I'd be all the woman I want to be!! Man....I feel like a woman!!:love: Pierced ears....painted toe and fingernails on a regular basis, jewelry....heels... what a wonderful place it would be!:hugs:

[Deborah Jane]

I'd still be the same person as I am now with the same passions and hobbies, I just wouldn't be a crossdresser :)