Kate Simmons
04-25-2010, 02:47 PM
I felt I should offer an explanation to my friends here about my current situation. I had left some possibly confusing posts on my profile page about not CDing presently. While this is true, I realized that we are kind of like a family here and just because I'm not currently dressing doesn't mean I can't be a part of things. The thing is I've pretty much developed my femme self over the years but never fully developed my homme self, so this is basically a new endeavor for me.
I will still offer comments and suggestions as I care for all of my friends here and other than being "this, that or the other thing", we are all people in the end and it's really about life and our outlook on it. One thing I found particularly interesting recently was the thread Sarah started about admirers. This is one phenomenon I intend to study while I'm discovering my guy self. Like many other things, I'm not sure it's as cut and dried as we may think and really depends on the individuals involved.
The thing is is that I was actually away from dressing for about a year then retured to it for about three months and it was like nothing ever happened. Like learning to ride a bike you never forget. It's too easy for me really. The challenge is to see if I can become more of a full spectrum person now that the CDing is a total choice for myself rather than a compulsion and the goal is to always be myself in either mode. Will it work? That is what my particular adventure is all about I guess.Never a dull moment in any case.;):battingeyelashes::)
I will still offer comments and suggestions as I care for all of my friends here and other than being "this, that or the other thing", we are all people in the end and it's really about life and our outlook on it. One thing I found particularly interesting recently was the thread Sarah started about admirers. This is one phenomenon I intend to study while I'm discovering my guy self. Like many other things, I'm not sure it's as cut and dried as we may think and really depends on the individuals involved.
The thing is is that I was actually away from dressing for about a year then retured to it for about three months and it was like nothing ever happened. Like learning to ride a bike you never forget. It's too easy for me really. The challenge is to see if I can become more of a full spectrum person now that the CDing is a total choice for myself rather than a compulsion and the goal is to always be myself in either mode. Will it work? That is what my particular adventure is all about I guess.Never a dull moment in any case.;):battingeyelashes::)