Stepping Out

[sleeplessone4u]

Well, ladies, I have to share with you that I had my first real experience stepping out en femme a few weeks back. My s/o and I had been planning on going out together for a weekend away in DC to the cherry blossom festival. We wanted a weekend where we could get a hotel, kick back, relax, and enjoy each other and allowing my feminine side out. Up to this point, we have done a lot of talking and playing behind closed doors. But, this time, new experiences were what we were seeking. It would be just two days, but was it ever great.

Before we left the house on our first day away, she asked me to hop into the shower and shave myself smooth... which wasn't something difficult since I've been keeping my chest and legs smooth for weeks now. Just needed to over things once more and apply lotion to keep me smooth is what she wanted.

We left our home early in the morning and headed down to Alexandria to a nail salon that my wife has used when visiting the area in the past. She wanted to get a manicure and pedicure and I wanted to get a pedi. (I wasn't comfortable being in male form and getting a manicure, even though I wanted it badly.) We sat back and enjoyed a relaxing a few hours at the salon as they worked over, massaged, and made our feet looks sooooo sexy. As my wife got her manicure, I was asked if I wanted to get my brows waxed. I said sure. After a few minutes of pain doing something I've never done before, I looked in the mirror and saw my eyes looking incredible as the bushes were trimmed back. The salon girl said lay back one more time. She wanted to do some additional trimming. When done, she had trimmed them down thin and arched them. I walked out feeling so much more relaxed and ready to take the next steps in my feminization.

We left the salon feeling on top of the world at this point. She loved what had been done to me and was ready for more. Next, we went out shopping at Torrid, Dots, Marshall's and Sears looking for some cute clothing. We found a lot of things, but just not in my size, or too expensive. But, we did find some great stockings at Sears. Incredible quality and great price. As were heading to the hotel to get checked in, my wife tells me that she has a huge surprise for me tonight, but can't tell me what it is.

After checking into the hotel, we spent some time cuddling and being intimate, but wanted to finished getting made over before going any further. So, we started transformation process. I began working on my makeup as she worked on hers. I went for a natural look with my makeup, only adding some dark shadowy highlights to the eyes so that they would pop with my freshly waxed brows. My wife then helped me get my dark reddish brown shoulder length wig on and I followed that up with putting on some large gold hoop earrings. I finished off my transformation with putting on my sexy nude stockings, black corset, panties, bra, and 3 1/2 ankle strap heels. My wife hands me a long flowing black nightie to wear.

Once completed, we check ourselves out in the mirror and make a few adjustments and head off to the bedroom and play. For the next couple of hours, we play together in sensual ways that we love and enjoy greatly. After playing, she looks at me and tells me to go straighten myself up because the surprise was coming. I go in and cleanup, touching up my makeup, and then hear a knock at the door.

My heart races, I become flush in the face, and wonder what is happening... we didn't order room service. My wife says, answer the door, the surprise is here. I reluctantly go to the door and look at the peep hole and see this good looking guy at the door, well dressed, and look back at my wife. She says, go ahead, answer the door its the surprise. I open it up slowly and he says, "Kari?" I say yes. He responds back, "Can I come in? I'm your surprise for the night." I smile at my wife and ask what is going on... She says, "just let him and we'll see what it is."

I open the door and let him in. He introduces himself as Joe as he walks by me. I shut the door and he stands there behind me. As I turn around, I can't help but notice his features and see what a good looking guy he is. I walk him into the room and he sits down on the couch between my wife and I. I then ask her what the surprise is... she looks, smiles, and then Joe moves in to give me a kiss. I struggle a bit, but before I knew it, I relaxed and gave into him. I come up for air and smile at my wife. She says tonight we are taking you to the next level of being a woman. I hope you enjoy.

Ok, I know, I know, I'm not allowed to get into all the juicy details. But, this was the most awesome night of our lives and really something totally new for me. If you would like to hear the sorted details, pm me and I'll go from there.

The rest of our trip away was quiet and between the two of us. But, we are planning on future trips like this and hope to start going out to some tg friendly places. Any ladies know of good, safe places in the DC area? Or a good transformation salon in the area?

[Mackenzie]

Well, that must have been some experience, and no doubt a surprise!

I sure enjoy dressing en femme from time to time, only as my precious wife Ms Susie would approve. But to have a man kiss me... I'd revert to male mode real quick and clean his clock. Then I'd straighten my wig, refresh my makeup, re-adjust my breast forms, change any ripped stockings and clean off his blood (because I didn't shed any) and go out for a fun evening.

Mackenzie

[sleeplessone4u]

Mackenzie...

Oddly enough, I thought I would do the same thing when he moved in to kiss me. But, it felt strangely natural. I didn't feel like a guy at all up to this point, that side of me was gone, and as it happened, I turned to mush. My wife and I have talked about my feelings and emotions to see if there was anything about my dressing that was sexual. I have had some thoughts when dressed, but never in my mind thought that it would become reality, let alone that I would succumb to that side.

Kari

[sherri52]

That was one heck of a surprise

[Kathi Lake]

Wow, don't know where to begin.

[Jackie_Thomas]

That is an interesting surprise from your wife.

[sleeplessone4u]

Well, trust me it was a huge surprise... in more ways than one... if you know what I mean. I didn't know what to think or what to do. But, it has been a liberating experience for me and my wife. Our relationship is so much stronger now and she is so much more relaxed with my female side. Our relationship is stronger now than it has been in the previous 17 years of marriage... which is definitely an improvement.

[Karren H]

A.. ma... zing.... Just like in the movies!

[sleeplessone4u]

Amazing indeed! Just like the movies? Well, I have to say that I felt like I was in a porno flick, that is for sure. I'm not complaining one bit though. :-)

[Cindi]

I can't say what I am thinking.

[sleeplessone4u]

Cindy, I have a feeling I know what you're thinking and why you put Ugh on the topic line. This type of surprise is not for everyone, very true. I used to feel the very same way.

[Abbyru1]

I find it hard to believe that your wife would want to share you with another of either
sex! Bedroom antics are one thing but ----- I'm not real sure I'd be delighted in this
case. Your wife must be one in a billion.

[sleeplessone4u]

My wife is truly a one in a billion. That is why I love her so much. She is adventurous, caring, kind, considerate, explorative, and a tremendous supporter of the trangendered.

[Kathi Lake]

Cindy, I have a feeling I know what you're thinking and why you put Ugh on the topic line. This type of surprise is not for everyone, very true. I used to feel the very same way.


My wife is truly a one in a billion. That is why I love her so much. She is adventurous, caring, kind, considerate, explorative, and a tremendous supporter of the trangendered.

So, your wife is fine with you essentially being raped (until you "stopped struggling and gave into him") by a man, destroying your marriage vows, and who knows what else (since you thankfully didn't go into all the "juicy details")? Yeah. She is definitely one in a billion.

This is why I do not want my wife to know this site exists. This is what she, and countless other people believe true of all of us! Am I saying what you did was wrong? No. Not for you, apparently. What I'm saying is, did we really need to hear about it? There are other sites where sexual stories like this are much more appropriate.

Will I take heat for comments like this? No doubt. Should I have even responded? Probably not. However, I've never quite gotten the hang of shutting up, it seems.

Kathi

[Sarah_GG]

I just had to break my self-imposed ban (due to needing to work) from this forum to say... this sounds like complete fantasy! A case of 'in your dreams'...

I could, of course, be wrong! :D

[Mea GG]

So, your wife is fine with you essentially being raped (until you "stopped struggling and gave into him") by a man, destroying your marriage vows, and who knows what else (since you thankfully didn't go into all the "juicy details")? Yeah. She is definitely one in a billion.

This is why I do not want my wife to know this site exists. This is what she, and countless other people believe true of all of us!
Kathi

Thanks Kathi,

Yes, it is so important to have a site that does not primarily feature this type of thing. It does sound like a fantasy porno story.

And it is nice to have someone speak up.

I'm just not sure what to call you in this instance but yes, you are being a gentleman here, and thanks!

[Sheila]

This is why I do not want my wife to know this site exists. This is what she, and countless other people believe true of all of us!

And this is one of the gentler, better moderated ones


What I'm saying is, did we really need to hear about it? There are other sites where sexual stories like this are much more appropriate.

or it could have gone into the GM section ......... I am not keen on hiding things, but at the end of the day children can view this area of the forum as guests, protect them as we try to the little devils will find ways round it :Angry3::Angry3:



Will I take heat for comments like this? No doubt. Should I have even responded? Probably not. However, I've never quite gotten the hang of shutting up, it seems.

Kathi, you will get no heat from me for your post, instead my full support ......... I would not dream of coming oin here and giving you all the details of how debs and I do, and i am sure you all don't wanna hear them ........

one wonders if :BS: is being shovelled on here

[AKAMichelle]

I have to admit that I wasn't going to respond until I saw Kathi Lake's response and knew I too must respond.

I hate it that you even posted this on the forum. There are many of us who struggle to convince our SO's that we aren't gay or bisexual. That we are still the guy that they thought they married (only interested in them). Then this type of post comes along and immediately they would think that we are all like that and we aren't. Secretly wishing to be with a man while dressed. :naughty

Then the other problem to me about this post is that you are having an open marriage and many of us don't believe in it. Me included.

This is not for ME!!!!!!

[Kathi Lake]

And this is one of the gentler, better moderated onesI know, and we thank you guys soooo much for not letting it "devolve" into one of "those"sites. Like you said, kids can see this portion of the site. My kid can, as he knows it is here and that I get on it. Arrgh!

Thanks for your support, Sheila.

Kathi

[sleeplessone4u]

Well, let me make a few final comments regarding my thread that I started here yesterday, which will be my final ones on this site entirely.

When I first came to this site last year, I had been an on again - off again cd for years. Just like many of you on this site. I came seeking support, answers, acceptance, and openness to all issues related to my dressing. I have found solace and friendship from many ladies here and have really discovered myself. It's in times like this, though, that I find myself retreating back off into the corner because of comments made, not just in this thread but also to me in e-mail. In fact, some of the comments shared to my e-mail were not just rude, but offensive. So, I will say my peace on this subject and ride off into the sunset.

First of all, none of what was shared was garbage in my posting. I'm sorry if you felt that it was. No, I'm not some cheap porno girl, someone who writes that type of stuff, or goes looking for cheap thrills. It was entirely real and I kept out the full details of what did/didn't happen because of my respect for this site. I know there are clear guidelines of what can/cannot be written and I also know that it would be moderated accordingly.

I did write what happened because I know there are other ladies on this site who are struggling with similar issues and events in their life because I've talked with some of them. (Whether you want to believe it or not.)

I shared this information because I wanted to hear people's comments (good and bad) to help understand myself better, the direction that my/our lives have taken and see if others have been through similar types of experiences with/without their SO. And, from reading the PM's received and some wonderful e-mails, I have discovered others just like myself.

You may not like that I brought up the subject because our SO's might see it. Well, the truth of the matter is that many of us on this site not only struggle with our gender identity, but have also at some point struggled with our sexual identity. It doesn't mean that all cd's do and our SO's who come to this site should understand that each one of us are unique in our struggle to discover ourselves.

My SO has read many of the postings here alongside of me. Not once has she pre-judged someones sexuality or gender identity because she knows that all of us are struggling with these issues and that each one of us are unique. I guess that is one of the reasons my wife is a one in a billion kind of girl.

For those of you who say that you don't want, or believe, in an open marriage, I congratulate you. In fact, I applaud you. That is wonderful. I have never believed in an open marriage. But, the fact remains, too many people here are also hiding real and true facts of who they are from their SO's, even themselves, which is just as destructive as an open marriage concept.

I am sorry if you have found this thread offensive, or to have been posted in the wrong area of this site. I'm sure that it could have been moved easily. I do appreciate the comments (good, bad, indifferent), support and for the past several months of banter back and forth on topics, pm's and through e-mail. I just do not appreciate the rude, destructive, hurtful and harmful comments written to me overnight and this morning to my e-mail.

I wish you all the best.

Kari

[kimdl93]

I don't want to add to the heat of the rhetoric. I understand the conccerns expresed by the many CDers who are monogamous and heterosexual. Also I realize that many SOs of CDers have fears that their CDing partner may be secretly gay or bi, or may at some point chose to go outside thier monogamous relationship to explore their sexuality. These are legitimate concerns.

Also, I think there's a legitimate concern that this not become an erotic forum - some place where CDers or posers come to share thier fantasies. There are other more appropriate venues.

I'm willing to take your posting at face value, and willing to assume the best of intentions in posting. (I have to admit a degree of skepticism) But at the same time, I also want to acknowledge that some of us are bi or bi curious. I do not think that CDing and sexual preference are linked. Most CDers are entierly monogamous and heterosexual.

I am not sure how this experience might have been retold w/o the overtly sexual elements...maybe there needs to be a separate place for it.

[Sheila]

I know, and we thank you guys soooo much for not letting it "devolve" into one of "those"sites. Like you said, kids can see this portion of the site. My kid can, as he knows it is here and that I get on it. Arrgh!

Thanks for your support, Sheila.

Kathi

Kathi I am not one of the Guys or Girls that moderate here :heehee::heehee:, but yeah they do a pretty good job :)

and you are more than welcome :hugs:

To the OP, I am sorry you feel that way & I hope you reconsider, but like I said perhaps the GM forum would have been a better place to post this, as kids can see in here despite some parents attempts to keep em safe

[AKAMichelle]

You may not like that I brought up the subject because our SO's might see it. Well, the truth of the matter is that many of us on this site not only struggle with our gender identity, but have also at some point struggled with our sexual identity. It doesn't mean that all cd's do and our SO's who come to this site should understand that each one of us are unique in our struggle to discover ourselves.

My SO has read many of the postings here alongside of me. Not once has she pre-judged someones sexuality or gender identity because she knows that all of us are struggling with these issues and that each one of us are unique. I guess that is one of the reasons my wife is a one in a billion kind of girl.

For those of you who say that you don't want, or believe, in an open marriage, I congratulate you. In fact, I applaud you. That is wonderful. I have never believed in an open marriage. But, the fact remains, too many people here are also hiding real and true facts of who they are from their SO's, even themselves, which is just as destructive as an open marriage concept.

I wish that you would stay. I also wish that this had been posted in the GM forum part. That way everyone wouldn't have been so threatened by your post. You have ever right being here, but you need to understand how things like this can cause problems for struggling SO's to find acceptance of cd'ers. Your wife is not representative of most SO's. As you said she is one in a billion. That explains why this subject does cause issues for other SO's struggling to accept. My wife always told me that she read something similar on the web about how cd'ers fantasize that they are the female during sex. I never was able to convince her. Now it doesn't matter since we are heading for divorce.

I don't think that anybody's post should be worded in such a way as to harm other members, but these things happen. As for your open marriage response, you are right that hiding cd'ing from your wife is just as destructive to the trust and value of marriage.

I repeat that I wish you would stay. I didn't mean for my comments to cause you to run off. There were only meant to cause you to understand the other end of the TG spectrum as well.

[Daenna Paz]

I'm willing to take your posting at face value, and willing to assume the best of intentions in posting. (I have to admit a degree of skepticism) But at the same time, I also want to acknowledge that some of us are bi or bi curious. I do not think that CDing and sexual preference are linked. Most CDers are entierly monogamous and heterosexual.

I am not sure how this experience might have been retold w/o the overtly sexual elements...maybe there needs to be a separate place for it.[/QUOTE]

What Kim said ... I didn't see an overt attempt at lasciviousness here, rather a bit of TMI, may-haps??
I live in a glass house, and am slow to pick up rocks these days ;^)


Please understand where I'm at here - don't want to stir the pot ...:shutup:

[Freddy12]

I agree with aka Michelle. She said what I think far more eloquently than I could have.

It is important to have different viewpoints. There are times those differences will make some uncomfortable, but one only grows when they try to tiptoe outside their areas of comfort.

[KrazyKat]

This thread is closed. Enough.