Confession

[Mandy]

I finaly confessed to my SO this eve (and last night in a txt) I have been gagging to do so for ages, she says that she might have some stuff to help me ;)

Am so happy of the outcome :)

[Deborah Jane]

That's great Mandy, it sounds like it's gone well :)

[DonniDarkness]

So how did she take it? Such a very short post for such a big step!!! Details chica!!!

[DonnaT]

Cool!

Don't take her along for the ride too fast.

[Sandra]

Whilst this is good news, please take things easy with her.

Don't go mad and rush into doing things all the time..take it at her pace. Don't expect her to be ok with it all everyday, she has a lot to take in and think about. Keeping the lines of communication open is a good way forward....and should she want to chat with other wives/partners then tell her about the FAB forum we have here.

[Sheila]

Mandy as Sandra says easy with her :) . & also we have a GG only section here, where she could come and talk with other GG SOs if she would like :)

[Edwina]

" she says that she might have some stuff to help me ;)"



I would say depends what the "stuff" is. For my part I would avoid eating mushrooms or strange tasting drinks for a while :devil:

Seriously, I hope it works out well for you.

:hugs:
Edwina

[Angiemead12]

Congratulations on your honesty! My SO has known for a few years and its got its ups and downs, just make sure to always reassure her of your love for her and always be honest with what your thinking.

[BRANDYJ]

I am happy for you! But please...listen to what Sandra said. Go slow and don't push it. You could turn her off to it as fast as she accepted it. Good luck to you Mandy.

[Freddy12]

Fantastic news! I surely hope all goes well. Having your significant other on board will make your life much easier!

[Adele]

Well done to find the courage to tell you S.O. I too told mine a few years back and the sense of relief was huge.

However do not expect all your dreams to come true. Although I can dress, shave, make up buy clothes etc, I respect my wife's wishes and do not push my cross dressing upon her.

[Raychel]

That is a huge step, I hope everything goes well for you.

[Amanda Stubbs]

Hi Mandy I'm so pleased for you, I hope it all goes well and look after your SO !

[joannemarie barker]

well done mandy,you're a brave girl :) x

[MissKara]

That is a great thing what you have done :) Outing ones self to someone else who you care about is one of the hardest things to do :)

I hope all goes well and I hope that everything works out for you :)

Lots of Love,
Miss Kara

[erika130]

yay! Great, always nice to hear of an accepting SO ;)

[sherri52]

That's great Mandy. Now think of all of the things she has thrown out before that you may have gotten. Just to keep you thinking. Congrats

[xd-tigger]

Congratulations on fessing up, sounds like you got an awesome GG. As said earlier, don't go crazy, take it at her pace.

[Ann D Bluebird]

Glad to hear that you have shared this part for yourself with your wife. I hope things continue to move forward well for you. Take it gently!

[Kaz]

Mandy, well done... this is a big step!

Just take it at her pace?

Love Kaz xx

[maryannnite]

happy for both of you ,are you two the same size ?:battingeyelashes:

[Lover girl]

I don't have a S.O. but what I read so far is great advice!!! Let her take it in a bit at a time and at her rate. Too much too fast could hurt the relationship. I'm happy for you and I wish all happiness to come!!!!! You go girl!!!

[Tina B.]

It's true, when I came out to my wife she was very excepting, I was in heaven, but I pushed to much on her to fast, spent to much time and money on myself, and it scared her big time. we fought, I wised up, she gave me a restart, and I took a much more sensible approach to it all, and it worked out fine.
After all these years I pretty much wear what I want when I want, with no problems. Let her know you are still her guy, and let her she him more than "her", your off to a great start. There is a lot of freedom that comes with the truth, but freedom should never be abused.
Tina B.

[Jonianne]

:iagree:

Maybe not at this moment, but as soon as possible, talk to her about working out boundries and groundrules that she would be comfortable with, so that both of you will have a safe place to operate/play out of. They can be modified later as she becomes more comfortable.

I'm happy for you that things have gone well.

[Mandy]

Sorry for the delay'd reply.

I'd Had enough of sneaking around and thought it was time to come clean, as this seemed the best thing to do as I was nearly caught with my skirt on, before we came away:o

She even wants to buy me a bra & some chicken fillets, as we were out yesterday & she was hovering around the lingerie looking at Bra's in asda.

I have taken notice of what has been said in the post's & I deem to take this very slowly & not "push" Mandy down her throat.

[Gillian]

Goodness me Mandy what a wonderful outcome for you, mine has been totally different as I told you, having been almost caught by leaving a tiny piece of evidence I had a rough ride and the outcome was not that pleasant.

I am so happy for you as for Gillian, well I remain even deeper undercover now!

[AKAMichelle]

glad it worked out for you. I know how hard that was for you. Stay Strong and be patient. It will take time to figure out exactly how things will turn out.

[Mandy]

Since coming clean back in May, for some stupid reason I have left myself open to some stupid things;

I came home from work & changed into some Pink panties & put drab shorts on over top, unfortunate for me my SO saw the ticket poking up & tugged it:eek::heehee::D & my cover was blown, I was in the dog house all that weekend.

Last weekend when i got home from horse riding, she had emptied all her wardrobe out, threw all her skirts away (amongst other things) :drink: because some dummy had left there mobile phone to auto log in to this site:heehee:
All the skirts have not gone to waste, I have kept 2 that will fit in time, just need to loose another 2" YAY size 16:tongueout

Whilst we were away at the caravan, on our way back she said that she dosent mind me dressing in front of her, but she wont speak to me as a woman:sad:

I feel this is a slight step forward, but I think it might be wise to wait a bit longer to dress in front of her:daydreaming:

Any advise appreciated:hugs:

[joannemarie barker]

I haven't got any advice really but I guess people are more prone to slip ups when they've just come out,relax and see where it goes :)

[JulieC]

[FONT="Comic Sans MS"][SIZE="3"][COLOR="Magenta"]I came home from work & changed into some Pink panties & put drab shorts on over top, unfortunate for me my SO saw the ticket poking up & tugged it:eek::heehee::D & my cover was blown, I was in the dog house all that weekend.

Why? If she knows about your crossdressing, why did this put you in the doghouse?

[boardpuppy]

Hi Mandy,
I would guess that the old adage "two steps forward, one step back" applies here. She didn't yell and scream so slow down and let your SO catch up to you. Make sure she knows that man she married is still there anytime she wants him.

Hugs,
Alice

[Shelly67]

Golly , this bringsback memories ..... Some simple advise , keep it fun in this delicate "new" time . Go slow , but make it a pleasant time for you both in each others company dressed . Perhaps watch a movie together , we played old board games to ease the tension . In respect of how far you've already come and have been accepted be ready for some serious hearts to hearts .
Other than that , I most certainly recommend every time you buy an item of clothing , make up ect make sure youre lovely lady also gets something too .
Now go enjoy youre new found freedom - together .:hugs:

[Teresa Ann]

Hi Mandy; Let your SO take the lead on this, you are gaining so much more now than you had before. Small steps without stumbling will get you there faster with a loving wife than with a adversary. Good luck

[newby]

congradulation!!!!!!!!! You are very brave and hope the best for you and your so:)