it has changed

[Vera]

i remember earlier days when dressing up was a purely sexually release....i couldn't get enough...now it more for the ability to express my feminine side,the comfort,feeling who i should be.it gives me peace of mind..but it still is a lonely world of make believe

[Emily Ann Brown]

Was there six months ago dear. Go find yourself a sister to be best friends with and watch how things change again. Worked for me.


Emily Ann

[racquel]

quote"but it still is a lonely world of make believe"
true it will always be make-believe but you can share and be happy. :thumbsup:

[urban gypsy]

time and a good companion makes things better.

[Vera]

i'm from a small town... the nearest people are 3 hours away...and i can't do that without causing an alarm

[Jamie M]

i hope this place makes you a little bit less lonely anyway . I know it's not the same as sharing it with someone properly but it certainly has helped me anyway . You're always amongst freinds here :)

I do know what you're saying about the whole concept of dressing as having chnaged , i would venture a guess that this has happened to many of us at some point . I too can remember during my teenage years it just being about the undies and, ahem, shall we just say enjoying myself ( trying to be discreet ) but for me too it moved on from that to something more

[Julie York]

It's the normal course of events. I am pretty sure we've all been there or are at various stages.

[Rachael Warren]

Vem, it may be a world of make believe, but it is your world!

Share it with the rest of us and it becomes our world!

Unite and it becomes real world!

I don't know where I would be right now if I hadn't stumbled into this forum.

I don't do this for sexual reasons anymore either, havn't for many years, but my need to do it just keeps getting stronger.

What is happening here is absolutely beautiful, lets all blossom as sisters together, without shame.

Lots of love, Rachael. :)

[Wendy me]

in the begining who realy understood this??? i shurly did not so it only goes without saying we do evolve in time as we get more in tune with our cding...

[Melissa Ryan]

Hellooo!! I think you are all right! It has made so much of a difference for both Lyn and myself, to be able to come here and be with others who see things in a similar way. just being able to talk or listen to what is on here, has made things easier for both of us. This is a possitive thing. It doesnt matter what you wear,(nearly went into a song then!) You still fall into the vibe of this community. I have no idea whats left in store for the future, but the here and now is pretty good!!! :)

..............Melissa.............

[Holly]

And it gets better! Vem, what is happening to you is a fairly common occurance with us gurlz. We know early on that the urge is there but it takes a while to begin to understand WHY it's there. Truth is, though, the journey is exciting. We get to explore places that most GM's don't even know exist. Enjoy!

[gennee]

Vem:

Dressing up make me a complete person. You couln't have said it any better.

gennee :)

[mand]

Hello Vem :) It's all part of the evolution process love, don't worry about it ................it's perfectly normal :)

I always say that but it is true. We all seem to go though the various stages of the TG spectrum. Some find their right balance for them at any stage along the road and are happy with were they are at. Others (myself included) are determined to go as far as humanly possible , we have no real choice it's simply who we are.
Just be true to yourself Vem, follow you're heart and you're feelings thats all you can do :)


love mand xxx

[paulaN]

wow did this thread sturr up some things inside of me. I too have evoled in many ways and I also have gone through many of the things you gals have talked about. I have kept my legs shaved all summer.that sure as he## is new. I think I have changed just a little. Thanks to all the girls for beeing here too. HUGS.

[Vera]

thanks for being here... its the next best thing to being there...you girls are the best

[kristi cd]

I too can remember during my teenage years it just being about the undies and, ahem, shall we just say enjoying myself ( trying to be discreet ) but for me too it moved on from that to something more
I too started out largely that :rolleyes: way but I've since moved on, and it's like night and day. I'm sure we all have slightly different motivations for continuing this, but it's definitely the journey that's the fun part, not the end result, if there in fact even is an end. ;)