So my boss comes walking in.........

[karynspanties]

I had the weekend to myself. My wife went to her parents for the weekend. My wife and her mom had a big craft show shopping weekend planned, so I was all alone to do as I please. So I was totally enfemme from 6pm Friday until she came home last night. I went to a gay bar Saturday evening to be with some other gurls when all of a sudden i see this guy walk in. Now it's kind of dark in there, but sure enough......it was my supervisor!! HOLY SMOKES!!!! :eek:I just kind of stayed back and watched him. He was chatting up (and feeling up) some of the gurls!!!! :eek: So I watch him for off to the side, he is copping feels all over the place. I had to use the ladies room so I went off to take care of business and when I came back I could not see him, so I figured he took off. About an hour later I hear " Can I buy you a drink?" I turn to look and yup you guessed it, it was him. Oh crap......he kind of looks at me smiling, then gets straight faced, then shocked......well let's just say the rest of the evening was quite interesting.
Today was'nt much better.

[Mea GG]

gosh, I sure want to hear more now!

Was it sorta like that moment in ET when Gertie and ET see each other and stare for a second then just start screaming outloud...

except it wasn't outloud?

I sure hope this does not have bad repercussions for you at work.

[Andy66]

OMG! :eek:

[RADER]

You got to admit, It is a small world. Rader :)

[karynspanties]

He basically said Are you who I think you are?" I said, "Yup, funny meeting you in a this type of a bar. Where's your wife?" We talked for a bit, I told him I saw what was going on with the other gurls. He put his hand on my knee with his fingers on my inner thigh and said that he would not say a word if I did'nt. We get along real good at work so I do not expect any problems. Things did progress farther. Which made things a bit awkward today, but things smoothed out. We both acted as if nothing happened.

[BRANDYJ]

And we thought this could never happen! I bet you were shocked and perhaps very worried. But then again, you were in a gay club, he was in a gay club. He was groping other girls, so he obviously likes TG's, right? So I would think after the initial mutual embarrassment, things might even get better between you and your supervisor. You now have a common interest of sorts. Maybe even a promotion! Hopefully at least more job security!

Now tell me if the supervisor is hiring! My So lives within 32 miles of Brighton. If I found work there, I'd be moving in a heartbeat!

I hope all goes well for you... I bet it does.

[Mea GG]

Oh, whew, I thought it was worse.:doh: I'm relieved...

well, I think you both have good incentive to keep your mouths shut, but it doesn't hurt to have a supervisor with an extra reason to like you!

[Jenna Stunned]

Wow. That's a pretty scary moment, but it sounds like you will be alight. Small world I guess.

[ReineD]

I don't know what you mean by saying that things progressed farther.

Not to rain on any parades, but I wonder how the wives would feel if they found out.

[Mirani]

I don't know what you mean by saying that things progressed farther.

Not to rain on any parades, but I wonder how the wives would feel if they found out.

:thumbsup:
Thanks for making that point.

[Stephanie Anne]

So you get a raise or what?

[Abbey Lane]

Good response Viktoriya. But wow what was he doing there. Pretty freaking weird huh. Small world.. What an akward position. I hope it won't effect your career.

[Kelly DeWinter]

Karyn,

I've got to agree with a few of the posts here, you are heading down a path that could lead to serious repercussions in your marriage. Think of what your spouse would say if she read what you posted ?

Kelly

[NV Susan]

Karyn, what a scary position for you to be in at the bar. Sounds like all turned out well for you but like others have said, I think you better step back and be careful not to mess up your job or marriage. Best of luck.... :hugs:

[BRANDYJ]

When I first read and responded to this post, I never gave it a thought about whether or not Karyn was married. Not sure how I missed that line about, "where's your wife" So I did not give it a thought when Karyn said things progressed. This puts a whole new slant on things for me. See, I was once a cheater. I had the most wonderful, loving wife in the world that did not deserve the pain I saw in her eyes when she caught me. It was with a married GG to boot. I can't begin to express to anyone how the pain I caused my then wife hurt me. Maybe not as much as I hurt her, but believe me when I tell you that it changed me forever. Just to know I hurt someone that I did love and loved me was enough to end my cheating ways forever. We divorced. Not just because of the cheating. And since she was very accepting of my crossdressing, it had nothing to do with that either. I only wish I had never been selfish enough to cheat and hurt someone so dear to me. Today, some 6 years later, we are friends and do care about each other. Today I'm in a very good loving relationship and count my blessings that we found each other. In no way shape or form would I ever cheat on her. The price I paid with deep regret for my foolish fling lingers as a reminder of how my actions can hurt someone that deserves better of me.
It as hard for me to admit this here. I am ashamed and not proud of my past. But perhaps worth it if it makes one CD'er think if what he can do to a loving wife. I feel blessed that my ex-wife even speaks to me today, and she does stay in touch as I do with her. We at least gained back mutual respect and care for each other, but ruined a 19 year marriage. Karyn, please think for your wife's sake and the sake of your marriage. I do not judge you, I care about you as a person and don't like seeing anyone go through what I did emotionally....and for what, a night out on the town?

[Paula W]

Yikes is all that really comes to mind. I have a coworker who I suspect to be a "sister" based on a few things but don't really have any definitive proof and I am pretty sure he knows nothing about Paula but man, I can't imagine running into someone from work while dressed.

[Sophie_C]

Well, it sounds like both of you know a secret about each other and that it all worked itself out. That's probably the last place you thought you'd see your boss at, isn't it? ;)

[erika130]

Yikes! At least it turned out much better than it could have... I mean how many of us have thought of something similar happening, I know I have!


I don't know what you mean by saying that things progressed farther.
Not to rain on any parades, but I wonder how the wives would feel if they found out.

My thoughts also, let's pretend I'm narrow-minded & can't think of any appropriate situations, considering there are SOs.. so just curious, what does that mean "progressed farther" ?

[StaceyJane]

Well, it looks like it finally happened.

Check out this thread.

http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?t=52351

P.S. I'm calling BS on this one.

[Maria in heels]

Karyn...it is very intriquing as well as very dangerous..especially with working together. Things can be great, but it can get "very ugly" very fast if you are not careful. The two of you may be having a great time just talking or ? but its not like building a friendship with a stranger. He can become very "dangerous" to you...dangerous is not the right word, but I hope that you are getting the idea that I am trying to put across. Just like blackmail, but on a working level...if he starts to demand, and since he is your supervisor, there isn't much you can do...are you going to "out" yourself to everyone around you? Experiments can be fun I'm sure, but also your wife..that is another thing...is she aware that you go to clubs, and what are "her boundaries" that you need to respect....

Please don't take all of these words as very harsh..I'm just trying to point out a few things..sometimes, our judgement can become very cloudy and we need some clarity...

[jenna_woods]

we've got to here more hun.

[Angiemead12]

haha that sounds like a fun shocking time!

[Veronica Nowakowski]

Am I the only one that got the innuendo that she cheated on her wife?

[StaceyJane]

He basically said Are you who I think you are?" I said, "Yup, funny meeting you in a this type of a bar. Where's your wife?" We talked for a bit, I told him I saw what was going on with the other gurls. He put his hand on my knee with his fingers on my inner thigh and said that he would not say a word if I did'nt. We get along real good at work so I do not expect any problems. Things did progress farther. Which made things a bit awkward today, but things smoothed out. We both acted as if nothing happened.

Give me a break.....

There are plenty of sites for TG fiction online.
Why don't you finish your story and just provide us with a lnk.

[Angie G]

He should keep hush you do have something on him also.Just be careful Karyn.:hugs:
Angie

[StaceyJane]

Or better yet maybe I can finish it for you......

The next day at work was very awkward indeed. We tried to stay away from each other and my boss spent most of the day hiding in his office. There was a time when he needed to come out of the office to ask me about the monthly sales report. I started to wonder if he could tell I was wearing a bra and lace panties.*
When he asked me about the report I just smiled and answered quietly. He seemed satisfied and went back to his office.
Finally the day was done and I could get out of there. It was the weekend I had some plans. However just when I was about to grab my stuff and go I got text. "Karyn, I need to see you in my office"

Oh oh............

to be continued

*Previous post indicated that you do underdress at work.

[Veronica Nowakowski]

actually, it's not too unbelievable. Myself, I went to see my first drag show this weekend, saw the hair stylist that cut off all my hair earlier in the week, and I was getting broke so I had to pay with a LOT of change and tip poorly because they wouldn't take checks... Well, he was flamboyant so it wasn't a surprise. Got to give him the rest of the tip.

You can run into a lot of people at a joint like that.

[NancyTO]

Hmm, a Mutual Assured Distruction pact. Very interesting.

Did you get that drink he offered?

[Jeannie]

I would have slinked out the door at the first sight of him. With all the fear I have about being outed it would just be my luck to have a similar experience. I hope everything goes better for you and that it dies a quiet death.


Jeannie

[karynspanties]

Stacey Jane, I do not know what your problem is or what I did to you, but back off. i guess some poeple have nothing better to do than stir poop. As far as my wife....she knows I am bi, she knows I went to the bar and she knows what happened. She laughed at first, then was a little worried how it would affect my job. He did try and slide his hand up farther, but he was stopped. He had a bit too much too drink and I am not attracted to him. We talked at work about it. He appologized for the groping and everything is cool. It could have went bad, but luckily it did'nt. I was not there for sex. I was there to mingle with other gurls and have a good time. That's it. Period.

[BRANDYJ]

Stacey Jane, I do not know what your problem is or what I did to you, but back off. i guess some poeple have nothing better to do than stir poop. As far as my wife....she knows I am bi, she knows I went to the bar and she knows what happened. She laughed at first, then was a little worried how it would affect my job. He did try and slide his hand up farther, but he was stopped. He had a bit too much too drink and I am not attracted to him. We talked at work about it. He appologized for the groping and everything is cool. It could have went bad, but luckily it did'nt. I was not there for sex. I was there to mingle with other gurls and have a good time. That's it. Period.

Karyn, I for one believe you on all accounts. I am so glad to hear that your wife is aware of your actions. If your wife is accepting and knowing, then who am I to question your actions. I do hope things continue to be OK at work for you. As open as you seem to be with your wife, I'm sure that is not an issue. Thank you for the update.

[StaceyJane]

I just think its funny that you wrote a post in the past about a co worker finding out and now it has happened.


P.S. The TG fiction stories aren't real and any post like reads like one I don't believe.

Also Let me quote "Things did procede farther"

But you just said he was stopped.

[Loveday]

Yikes!, I have been trying to work up the courage to go to the bar or club around here. When I read something like this it gives me alot to think about.

[Kelly DeWinter]

Now now Karen,

I read her reponse as a bit of 'tounge-in-cheek' humor. Not as anything hostile. If you post something the way this thread reads, you have to expect some good natured ribbing. After all your previous post indicated that something 'more' happened. We don't allways know who is in a monogomus releationship, or in an open relationship. If you post on this site long enough, you will recive a small zinger every now and then.

It took me some time to understand that some people are married and still date as well as play the field. Most spouses male or female would not put with some one who goes out for 'fun', drinking with someone else and playing touch feely.

How about we air kiss and make up ?

Kelly



Stacey Jane, I do not know what your problem is or what I did to you, but back off. i guess some poeple have nothing better to do than stir poop. As far as my wife....she knows I am bi, she knows I went to the bar and she knows what happened. She laughed at first, then was a little worried how it would affect my job. He did try and slide his hand up farther, but he was stopped. He had a bit too much too drink and I am not attracted to him. We talked at work about it. He appologized for the groping and everything is cool. It could have went bad, but luckily it did'nt. I was not there for sex. I was there to mingle with other gurls and have a good time. That's it. Period.

[Cherry Lynn]

Now now Karen,

I read her reponse as a bit of 'tounge-in-cheek' humor. Not as anything hostile. If you post something the way this thread reads, you have to expect some good natured ribbing. After all your previous post indicated that something 'more' happened. We don't allways know who is in a monogomus releationship, or in an open relationship. If you post on this site long enough, you will recive a small zinger every now and then.

It took me some time to understand that some people are married and still date as well as play the field. Most spouses male or female would not put with some one who goes out for 'fun', drinking with someone else and playing touch feely.

How about we air kiss and make up ?

Kelly

The ladylike thing to do.

[Niya W]

Well you're not the only one whos had some thing like that happen to them. I have a friend that met a coworker at a tranny bar. Both were dressed enfeme and she was the boss. Oh she works in law enforcement .

[karynspanties]

Stacey Jane has since appologized. Accepted. As I wrote in a previous post a coworker did find me out. This was at the company I was working that went out of business at the beginning of the recession. I underdressed daily. Still do. If you underdress 24/7/365 as I do.....your gonna get caught sooner or later, but I do not worry about it. Now what happened at the bar....if it happened to me, it can happen to you also. I wrote that post as a warning to be careful. Hind sight what it is, I should have left when I went to the ladies room. Although, I have just as much of a right to be there as he did. We talked about it Monday, he said he was sorry for the groping and it's over. He has something on me and I have something on him. It's all good.

[t-girlxsophie]

As far as I can see,If you meet another "girl" in a gay bar,then they are there for similar reasons and nothing would be gained from either party spilling the beans.It may seem strange to a lot of us,but there is Many open marriages,who are we to judge what works for other relationships
On a lighter note,your Boss may be good for a raise,after all he must know how much a Girl needs to socialise and look her best:heehee:

[shedevilcd]

would love to hear more about what happened next. its souns so exciting and i have to confess did he treat you like a woman or just another guy? you at least need to let us know if he was a gentleman or a tramp...so to speak..:devil:

[Rachael Ray]

Well, it looks like it finally happened.

Check out this thread.

http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?t=52351

P.S. I'm calling BS on this one.


Count me in!

[NicoleScott]

So you get a raise or what?

Doubtful, but apparently the boss did.

[Lexine]

Risque! Either way, we're glad you shared your story especially for the ones who have never been in that situation before ^^;;!

[flatlander_48]

Stacey Jane has since appologized. Accepted. As I wrote in a previous post a coworker did find me out. This was at the company I was working that went out of business at the beginning of the recession. I underdressed daily. Still do. If you underdress 24/7/365 as I do.....your gonna get caught sooner or later, but I do not worry about it. Now what happened at the bar....if it happened to me, it can happen to you also. I wrote that post as a warning to be careful. Hind sight what it is, I should have left when I went to the ladies room. Although, I have just as much of a right to be there as he did. We talked about it Monday, he said he was sorry for the groping and it's over. He has something on me and I have something on him. It's all good.

Also known as Mutual Assured Destruction (MAD). I'm not sure if it's all good, but it'll work...