Too funny rejected on myspace

[SamanthaStMichaels]

Minding my own business as I am hanging out on myspace while working on my MP3's. Then I get a IM for some guy. Well I know what he wants, of course I'm not wrong.

So I let him babble on, until he starts talking genetalia. That's when I realize, he things I am a GG. Of course I asked him if he knew I was transgended. His reply was "no..." Needless to say I must have ruined the excitement. Next message I told him I don't have one of those... YET! But alas he was no longer online. LOL

I might feel bad about it but...

A. My profile says I am a transwoman, more than once.

B. It feels real good knowing I was mistaken for GG based on looks.

So I am both amused and flattered.

Has anyone else had to deal with men online and how do you deal with it?

I myself can get cruel depending on how vulgar and obnoxious they are.

[maryannnite]

been there . i dont think i pass vary well but theres always some guy out there on line that must think i pass well . they must not look at my profiles vary well or they need glasses

[SamanthaStMichaels]

I have always thought passing has to deal somewhat with your attitude and confidence. As far as I am concerned you look good. I've seen some very masculine looking GG women, who I thought were men. But based upon their presentation of attitude. I had to assume they were GG's.

Looks are part 1 of the formula, confidence is the key.

[FemmeElastique]

LOL!
I've had similar experiences online. I also have a Myspace page with me as a CD on it. I put in the about me section that I'm a CD and even spell out crossdresser but some just don't get it.

[kym]

after seeing your profile pic on face book I can see where he would think that you are a GG. You are cute. I find it amusing when men hit on me online and in real life, very flattering and as passable as I'm not its almost sad.

[Nicole Erin]

I either play around with it, if I am in the mood, or I just kind of blow it off.
Men can get pretty crude.

[Mariah]

o ya I get it all the time. I like it, but atlass there's some just to creepy to mess with >.<. but still. ;)

Mariah

[SamanthaStMichaels]

It's like if you don't get hit on you think. "Well what the hell is wrong with me?" But when you do get hit on your like. "What the hell am I here for your pleasure, leave me alone." :D

I'm a woman and I am allowed to be fickle. :tongueout

[Chickhe]

I just don't understand...do guys actually have any success talking such garbage to girls? I would have said something to bring his ego down to size.

[Jason+]

Even the smallest of effort on someone's part will quickly reveal who and what I am since this and the other site I visit both have profiles with pictures.

Yet inevitably I'll get either "a/s/l" or "hey baby." Sometimes like one of the other girls mentioned I'll let them go on a bit and then once the the genitals come up invite them to go look at the profile so they can realize "baby" is closer to an ex linebacker and that they are barking up the wrong tree. :D

[SamanthaStMichaels]

I hate to say it, but I have had a few GG's which were just as bad when they hit on ya. I was and have been getting hit on a bisexual woman since last week. Almost the same conversation as the guys with a little bit different decription on the body parts. LOL If a person is aggressive and sexual by nature I think the erotic chatter comes to surface.

Oh and I did tell her I was a transsexual woman. She said if you don't mind I don't. If I only had interest in woman. :D

I am wondering however if it is a dude.

I'm thinking the first thing I should reply when someone IM's me is I am a transsexual. Maybe I should start wearing a "I am a transwoman" T-shirt full time :lol2:

[EnglishRose]

I play a lot of online games. A lot of people there tend to be immature AHs who when they're not throwing around racist epithets will hit on and deluge with messages anyone who seems remotely female. Of course, their numbers are almost matched by those misogynists who say things like "girls don't play video games" or "make me a sandwich". Sheesh.

[kellycan27]

Being hit on can be fun, but after awhile it can also be annoying. Just yesterday I was leaving an office building and parked next to my car was a pick up with two older guys sitting inside. As I unlocked my car the driver said.. Hey beautiful! Where have you been all of my life? I looked over the roof of my car and said.. Are you serious? He said yeah. I said well.. I guess that for the first 3/4's of your life I was yet to be born, and as for the last 1/4..I guess I just got lucky. He said OUCH! and his friend started to laugh, then said, NOTE TO SELF.. Don't use the where have you been all of my life line. I smiled and said... have a nice day guys! :battingeyelashes:

[Kaz]

It is really interesting to see this aspect of male behaviour from the girl context?

Like others I find it often is at best amusing, at others down right scary! It has opened my eyes to what women encounter, and I don't feel too good about being a genetic male! Okay blokes aren't all like that... but there in lies the paradox... the more girly we feel/get as "who we are"... the more we find strong male stuff attractive...

And not!

Guess this is how GGs feel, and why as guys we could never ever "win"? How could any male be all we would demand/expect of him?

As a bloke, I would pass this off as unreasonable...

As Kaz... I want my knight in shining armour... or at least I can understand where that thinking comes from?

Kaz xx

[Fab Karen]

You just stop wasting time even replying, you can smell these "w*nkers" ( as the Brits call them ) coming a mile away. Instant delete on such emails.

[kellycan27]

You just stop wasting time even replying, you can smell these "w*nkers" ( as the Brits call them ) coming a mile away. Instant delete on such emails.

Karen, maybe it's a case of curiosity getting the cat? :heehee:

[SamanthaStMichaels]

LMAO I just found the perfect response to all the males I find being vulgar.

You Are... (http://serghei.net/humor/swf/youare.swf)

You all might wanna bookmark this for future use against them. :lol2:

[karen68]

Yes they are a pain and can't seem to read I get them too even when I have stated in capital's no men. And have T-GIRL in the profile name.:strugglin

[Melissa A.]

My profile on TS dating...

Hi. I'm Melissa. Been transitioning now seriously for just over a year. I've been a member here for quite some time, but have only recently gotten to a point where companionship and romance might begin to become somewhat of a priority for me again. I suppose this is just one possible tool to that end. No one has ever accused me of being unfriendly, or any more bitchy than your average woman, but after a short amount of time meeting guys here, lemme get all this outta the way: Your uncovered crotch, on a computer screen, is about the most unimpressive thing I could be unfortunate enough to be subjected to. One's need to do that says alot about them, and to me, very little of it is good. Likewise, if you're seeking "the best of both worlds" sexually, or like "chicks with d*cks", please move on. If you think any true TS is about that, you haven't done your homework, and it isn't my job to un-ignoramus you. If you think it's appropriate to refer to a transsexual woman as a "*******", see above. And if you're M.O. is to talk to women like myself online, say lots of nice things, fullfill some online fantasy of yours, then completely dissapear, please don't waste my time.

However, if you would like to spend time with an intelligent woman who enjoys her femininity without being too foo-foo, who is spontaneous, loyal, thoughtful, listens to people, and takes care to show the people in her life what they mean to her, If you are a man who is serious, with fun, silly, and sensitive sides to him, and really wants to meet a nice woman with the courage and strength to be who she is, without giving up the sweetness and vulnerability that make her a girl, by all means, send me a message. If you're the right guy for me, I'll do my best to make sure you're glad you did. Please, be an adult, and a gentleman. I'm not sure where some men get the idea they can say things to transsexual women that they wouldn't dream of saying to a born woman, I really don't. If you're truly enough of a man, which is alot more than macho bullspit, to handle a woman like myself, send me a message, I look forward to hearing from you. :)

...And still, some genius sends me a lovely profile shot of his equipment yesterday!(I have never understood why they are so proud of it) I did call him an idiot, but I could have used that link, Samantha! Funny.

Hugs,

Melissa:)

[Empress Lainie]

It has always amazed me, this 75yr old transwoman, that so many 20-30 yr old males AFTER seeing my pictures hit on me online.
Some of them didn't read my posts or profile so don't know I am trans.

When I tell them they have all said: "I don't care."

So I was IM with a Brazilian lifeguard 20 the other day for a few minutes and I asked him why the above. His answer was:
a. You are cute. (I'm disappointed, I used to be told I was beautiful!)
b. They want someone to talk to.

Actually I have become online friends with a few of them who turned out to be pretty nice guys.

[Kayla Shadows]

LMAO I just found the perfect response to all the males I find being vulgar.

You Are... (http://serghei.net/humor/swf/youare.swf)

You all might wanna bookmark this for future use against them. :lol2:

lol that was funny

Yep.Some guys can be so gross.They just get ignored or blocked..or messed with if Im in the mood :heehee: Ive heard all kinds of everything.I have no idea where some men get that its ok to be a disgusting pig.A lot dont even bother to read a profile