What's the worst mistake you ever made in a pink fog ?

[Kristy 56]

Just wondering how many of us make bad decisions while amidst the " Pink Fog " ,and perhaps prevent others from making similar ones.
Mine was made about 2 months ago when I answered a C L post for a woman looking for a CD er to play with. Wow, I thought, a dream come true. After 3 days of back & forth adult talk I wound up receiving & sending a few pictures of myself. I don't even post my pic here,so what does that tell you about my judgement that day.Anyway,long story short,after 3 days I did an email search & found out it was a guy living 10 mins away !! I dumped the email acct. felt like the biggest moron around. Thankfully, I never shared my name,or phone #. Still,reality can hurt.
Fortunately,one of the girls on this site who I've met before gave me great comfort,insight & food for thought. Still 2 months later I sometimes wonder what was I thinking ?

[Cassandra Lynn]

The same mistake i continue to make over and over; buying stuff i can't afford. I'm in a real pit financially speaking, but when the fog get's a hold of me i end up in overdraft by buying things like make-up, tanning sessions, etc.
Last payday i went way overboard buying bath stuff, body scrubs, bath oils and gels, razors, lotions & potions.
Here i sit right now, out of gas to go anywhere, with 6 days till payday and just a few dollars in my account. :sad: mj (Cassie) :sad:

[Danielle Gee]

My biggest mistake is failing to "read" my Sweeties moods. Even though she is very accepting for the most part, there are times she wants to be with her "Man" . Woe is me if I misread these moods and my Fem-Self shows up!!!

But mostly I gotta say my "Pink-Fog" days are behind me. Even though I intensly enjoy CDing, the fact is I've did it so much in my life the thrill (to quote BB King) is gone. Nowdays when I dress it seems so natural, that it barely raises my pulse-rate.

Danielle:hugs:

[SusanCACD]

I wish I could tell the difference, I would really love to find a sister near me that I an confide in, maybe even go out, take those chances.....If there are any girls like me in Concord, I promise I will never tell about you, Never ever ever ever....Honest, It really is tough to trust isn't it?

Susan

[abigail43]

Not taking earings out when I just go them pierced.And spending money that I can't really afford.and hooking up with guys something i usually wouldn't do in drab

[joannemarie barker]

Not taking earings out when I just go them pierced.And spending money that I can't really afford.and hooking up with guys something i usually wouldn't do in drab

do you regret hooking up with guys? cos thats something i so wanna do

[Sarah Doepner]

I can't count the number of times while enjoying the pink fog I lost track of the time and either missed something important or almost let this cat out of the bag.

My wife found me out when I let the pink fog tell me I had plenty of time and privacy, when in fact it lied to me. In the long run it was a good thing but at the moment things were pretty stressful.

[carolinoakland]

My first night out fully dressed I almost got raped. Pink fog and alcohol do NOT mix!

[GBNatarii]

Shortly after having brain surgery, I started coming out to my friends, telling of both my bisexuality, and my desire to be a female. I guess I have a slight excuse, what with having surgery... On... MY BRAIN, but, eh, what can ya do.

I've learned now not to make friends with liberals.

[Kate Simmons]

I don't make mistakes Hon, "pink fog" notwithstanding. I have events and learning experiences.:battingeyelashes::)

[Loni]

i just do a triple check for makeup when it is time for me to go to work.
and that i do not have the wrong shoes on when going places.
heels in drab...just not cool.

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[Karen__Starr]

It only takes once but did it twice. Went to an adult club without an escort which I usually do to protect me. I am leaving the details out as they are not things discussed here. Just safe to say it will not happen again

[cousinguido]

In a pink fog I tend to buy clothes that a really cheap and not worth wearing or too expensive that I shouldn't have bought since I am closeted and seem to be wasting money. Of coarse I can never bring myself to returning them so I am stuck with them or end up throwing the cheap garment out.

[Daenna Paz]

Pink fog and alcohol do NOT mix![/QUOTE]


So true ... If you drink and go out un-escorted, things can go horribly wrong rather quickly. :eek:

[missynicole]

susan, i am looking for the same type thing where i live and can't seem to find another girl.....if only we both could find someone......
missy nicole

I wish I could tell the difference, I would really love to find a sister near me that I an confide in, maybe even go out, take those chances.....If there are any girls like me in Concord, I promise I will never tell about you, Never ever ever ever....Honest, It really is tough to trust isn't it?

Susan

[SarahLynn]

I was wearing makeup and clipon earrings. went into a males restroom at a rest area in Texas. Couple of bull haulers came in and I got caught. They just made fun and didn't do any harm (except to my pride).

Before that I was fully dressed and got stopped by the CHP (California State Police) for speeding. He didn't say it but the look i got said, to me anyway, "Now i've seen it all.".

SarahLynn

[sometimes_miss]

I can't count the number of times while enjoying the pink fog I lost track of the time and either missed something important or almost let this cat out of the bag.
Same here. Or I do something like nair myself so I can enjoy the smoothness of skin against the silky clothes, forgetting that I'm supposed to go to a pool party or something like that. Most recent? When ordering some jewelry, I took up the free subscription to Seventeen magazine. Don't know how I'm going to explain that to the landlord if they wind up picking up the mail before I get to it; but I love immersing myself into the pastimes of an adolescent female.

[kimdl93]

I wish I could blame the pink fog for my worst mistakes. My worst mistake - having an affair with a co-worker. Second worst mistake - telling my x wife about the affair.

[Shelly67]

My mistake ? Spilt me guts on here , venting spleen on a very personal matter . Thank goodness when the clarity returned the moderators removed the thread on my asking . Theres a time and a place for everything ....but only if the assumption is correct . Mine wasn't . I look back on those troubled moments with a pang of sadness and embarressment and regret . I am however so grateful for having a place of like minded people who supported me ...even in my error .
Sometimes we are unconfident , hurting , and feeling very alone .........

[BRANDYJ]

Shelly, I think I know how you feel. It was not in a pink fog, but the worst thing I ever did was tell my brother about my crossdressing. That was a bad time in my life. Lost my job, lost my girlfriend and it seemed the world was coming to an end. So I was weak and thought it would help if my brother knew some facts about me.
The good Christian he claims to be would not allow him to accept this about me. He gave me the typical forked tongue reply like so many so called Christians do. I love you, you are my brother, but I can't have you in my life anymore. I have not heard form him in over 2 years and we live less then 10 miles apart. All that I learned from that experience is to confirm my belief that all organized religions twist the meaning of the bible and what God intended us to follow. So much for brotherly love.

[Heidi_slave]

Oh, this thread has terrific comic potential.

I'm closeted you see...When I dress I get aroused, and when I'm aroused and dressed, I have that crazy urge to go out in public. I often tempt discovery when I'm in The Fog - and I'm not always exactly passable. One night, at about 3:00 AM, I walked down the street dressed like the cheap **** that I am, and was sitting on the swing set in the park, and watching the wind blow my skirt up over the tops of my stockings. You're kind of stuck in that situation, so when the neighbours drove home, and their car headlights lit me up, I had nowhere to go...except for back and forth on the swing. The couple got out of their car and walked into the house. The wife went inside. The husband stood on the porch for a long time just watching me until a sharp voice brought him to his senses and he went inside too.

Yup, the Pink Fog is a strong drug. I walked home feeling very embarassed, no less aroused and not even a wee bit wiser.

Heidi :o

[Billijo49504]

I was in a very bad pink fog when I opened a charge acount at Lane bryant and Avenue, on the same day. With in 13 months I was platenium at both places. Then I had to work my @ss off to get them paid. Now I have to watch it. I'm on a fixed income....BJ

[Jennifer in CO]

are we talking about making a mistake that led to a Pink fog...or a pink fog that led to a mistake....could go both ways!!

Jenn

[Malori Cross]

In a pink fog I tend to buy clothes that a really cheap and not worth wearing or too expensive that I shouldn't have bought since I am closeted and seem to be wasting money. Of coarse I can never bring myself to returning them so I am stuck with them or end up throwing the cheap garment out.

Ditto!

[Michaella]

Completely shaved off my eyebrows. Had some 'splainin' to do.

Michaella

[Daintre]

I was in an upscale lingerie shop in Calgary. OMG when I entered my eyes grew so big. With the help of a very supportive SA, I ran up a total of $850 in all sorts of lingerie. I was in heaven all the way back to Edmonton and then the realization :eek: what did I do.

[DonnaT]

We were going on a trip to Vegas for my birthday, and my wife agreed to a fem night out to La Cage. I bought a pair of glasses that looked more suited for my fem mode. I wanted to surprise my wife with the new look.

She was very upset that I kept it secret until time to go to the show.

[Kathi Lake]

Well, there was this one time, . . .

OK, maybe not that one. :)

Hmmmm, Oh, I know! My biggest mistake while in the pink fog was probably buying a top that I had no business buying. It was much too young for me.

:)

Kathi

[mykhelee]

I had a weekend at the Hotel and met a "friend" at the bar downstairs...I still had my mascara and nail polish on...led to nothing...but oh well.

[ErikaLeigh]

First time out, I went to a nail salon and had a pedi and a mani. I didnt know to ask for acrylics instead of gels. So when it was time to take the nails off before I went home !!SURPRISE!! the nails didnt soak off with acetone. :D So after cutting and filing, and filing, and filing, (trust me this part went on for HOURS), and more filing, I had learned the hard way to be carefull on what you ask for. Now days the Kiss press ons look good enough for me and they pop off in seconds.

[Joanne f]

Joining here :lol::laughing::lol2: ( just joking) or am i :devil:

[docrobbysherry]

after joining this, and other CD sites nearly 3 years ago, I developed a Pink Fog compulsive desire to TELL SOMEONE!:eek:

Finally, I DID tell ONE PERSON! And, THAT turned out to be a big mistake!:doh:

Fortunately, that desire, along with having real breasts and becoming a female, has PASSED!:brolleyes:

[kellgrl66]

Probably giving out my address and phone number to someone I really didnt know and having to change phone numbers weeks later.