Does it ever stop?

[JainaCarpaccio]

I'm just wondering if you started crossdressing as a fetish, does it get to a point where it isn't anymore? I'm finding that even though I've decided to start underdressing regularly cause it feels right, I can't get into a pair of panties without getting excited.

Don't know if this is considered a problem normally, but it seems that Even if i wait a good 20 minutes i don't relax unless i take it the whole way. Does anyone know if this is permanent because of the way I got into CD, or if it will stop eventually?

[Joyously 27]

I think it happens when you are young. I started to CD in my seventies and never became
an exciting issue. Now in my early 80's it's just complete satisfaction of wearing panties.:love:

[Gerrijerry]

I started as a pre teen. and in the early years it was exciting. later it became something more I didn't know what. Now it is who I am it just feels correct for me to be a woman. that only took me about 50 years. LOL

[Amber Chen]

The extra "excitement" eventually goes away...especially when you get used to wearing the same set of panties day after day. They become your "usual" underwear, and so, you'll pay very little attention to them.
However, if/when you do get NEW panties, some of the excitement will return until they, too, become routine.

[joannemarie barker]

As a teen I used to dress up and let's say over excite myself all too quickly but yes it passed for me and I enjoy it much more now :)

[AlisonRenee]

It isn't a fetish for me... I haven't been aroused by the act of dressing in a very long time and it was always deeper than that, anyway. Your mileage may vary.

[Kate Simmons]

It always had to do with part of my identity. Whether you can stop or not depends on you and how well you amalgate the deep feelings which actually drive the process.:)

[kimdl93]

I think almost anything can excite a young GM. That's ok - its just life. As you mature, you can CD without that happening - at least less often :)

[AlsoSamantha]

When I started dressing, it was a big sexual turn on for me. Now it's just more comfortable. I always underdress, but had to wear some "boy underwear" the other day. It felt kind of kinky. Funny how your mind works!!

[AKAMichelle]

anything short of hormones won't help. The sure answer is time. But it happened for all of us too.

[tammygirl79]

I'm sure it is different for everyone, and i can only speak on my behalf and give an opinion on what I think it is for the average CD. Like many ladies have allready said, if you start out doing it at a young age....around the puberty years or shortly there after, you usualy do it for the sexual satisfaction. As you get older, and especialy if you are crossdressing because you truely feel like you were meant to be a woman, the sexual gratification aspect of it goes away and you end up doing it because it feels normal and right.....not because it feels sexually stimulating. I have been cross dressing since i was a young teen and at first (as far as I knew at the time) I did it out of sexual curiosity. The older I got, the more I realized that it just felt both normal and right to dress as a woman because in a lot of ways, my personality was female. It had nothing to do with "getting my rocks off" - so to speak...lol. Now I don't get excited (sexually) from wearing womens clothing, it just seems natural to me. I always underdress when I am in drab...always wearing panties and sometimes a bra. Of course when i can, I am totaly dressed as a woman as well. But I don't get sexually aroused from it any more. Now, depending on the reason you crossdress, I'm sure will determine whether or not this continues for you or not! :)

[Rebeccarabbit]

I would agree with Tammy.........

Personally the excitement of wearing panties will wear off, as dressing as a woman becomes an acceptable routine.

I still get a buzz when shopping for lingerie with my SO.....that will never change......but excitement recedes with time, but there are gladly many more aspects to replace it

[Miley]

That excitement does die down after a while. When I was young I felt the same, I got so excited every time but after I started to dress almost every day I began to just feel this is who I am as I started to feel more normal as a girl. I am always joyous when I am en femme but it’s not sexual, its about being the girl I am and have been always on the inside and thats what makes me happy. But when I do buy some thing new there is always a new excitement.

[JainaCarpaccio]

Thanks for the help guys/gals(never sure which to use). Good to know it'll fade out eventually for the most part.

[Loni]

you are still young, not to worry as you get older the thrill never goes away...but you just do not get as exited as easily.


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[Miley]

hehe gals(girls) is always a compliment. :)

[eluuzion]

yes, it stops when you get older.

There, now you have the answer you were looking for. Unfortunately, this is not a fairy tale story I am reading to you at bedtime, so I was lying, :battingeyelashes:

Ok, now I will give you the truth. At least the truth in my case, which is all anybody can really provide.

I started CD in 1980. It was an initial "rush" each time I started dressing, and it still is today. It is not an out of body experience or roller coaster high the whole time I am dressed every time of course. But there is an element present each time. I have only given it 30 years to fade away...lol...so maybe I need to give it some more time. I am pretty sure it will subside by this Friday, just like getting over a cold or flu. But then again, I have made that prediction every week for the last 30 years...:tongueout

It may be influenced by my naturally overzealous energy level and above average interest in sexual pursuits. But I can tell you that it is something I have never viewed as a "problem". I have always considered "sex" in the same manner as having a driver's license...It is a priviledge, not a right...hehehehe.

hey, if you had to have a "health affliction", there are worse curses in life, right?

[CourtneyBleu]

I have that same exact problem. I'm hoping it passes as well...

[victoriamwilliams1]

In my youth I had that and now when I dress I feel relaxed and the only real change is the way I think.

[Rachel05]

I always get excited when I put my female clothes on and I under-dress on a very regular occasion, however it is not sexually excited that I get now (it did used to be that way), it is just excited because I love to wear them and when I buy new things, I am really excited to be able to try them on when I get home

[Alice B]

I hope not. I enjoy it too much.

[charlie]

Hello Jaina!
When I first started dressing I never got past the lingerie part. I would just start putting on the panties and nylons and it was all over. Then it was only sexual. As I started getting into makeup, dresses and outfits , the sexual gratification of dressing went away. I just wanted to be the best looking, most passing girl I could be. That is where I am today.

[Vickie_CDTV]

Most say the excitement diminishes with age (but have known people to whom this did not happen and it was always a turn on, I suspect this is not a politically correct thing to admit to in the TG community.)

Maybe it is because I am too "male" in my thinking, but why do you see this is being a problem? If it is exciting for you (and it is not harmful), why do you want it not to be exciting? What is the negative side to it?

[JainaCarpaccio]

If it is exciting for you (and it is not harmful), why do you want it not to be exciting? What is the negative side to it?

It's not so much that I don't want it to be exciting, so much as when i finally get my own place, I want to be able to slip into something, and be able to pass if I want to go out for the evening.

[kimdl93]

If that's the main concern, take care of business, so to speak, then get dressed and go out to have a good time.