Paula_56
06-17-2010, 05:17 AM
This is from Denae Doyles Feem Image page, I just love this quote and wanted to share it
I have seen that by integrating your female side with your male one, you can begin to know and love the person you truly are. You become a unique whole individual with personalities that can be blended — an incredible successful man and a loving, caring woman. Interestingly, your feminine persona can also add strength and understanding to your male side, thus allowing you more depth in your relationships. I truly feel that when those negative feelings of guilt, shame, or fear are present (and crossdressing certainly may generate these) it can grow into something ugly. Perhaps that is the situation when, erroneously, a cross dresser begins to "think" s/he should become a transsexual — when in reality s/he is clearly a serious cross dresser. Hopefully as your male side becomes softer and more accepting, you would choose to feel that dressing makes you a better and/or more complete person. You can have the best of both worlds all wrapped up into one whole person. Enjoy the strength of a noble man and the beauty of a nurturing female. I feel this honest acceptance of yourself, along with keeping dressing in balance, enables both you and your loved ones to better accept you.
I have seen that by integrating your female side with your male one, you can begin to know and love the person you truly are. You become a unique whole individual with personalities that can be blended — an incredible successful man and a loving, caring woman. Interestingly, your feminine persona can also add strength and understanding to your male side, thus allowing you more depth in your relationships. I truly feel that when those negative feelings of guilt, shame, or fear are present (and crossdressing certainly may generate these) it can grow into something ugly. Perhaps that is the situation when, erroneously, a cross dresser begins to "think" s/he should become a transsexual — when in reality s/he is clearly a serious cross dresser. Hopefully as your male side becomes softer and more accepting, you would choose to feel that dressing makes you a better and/or more complete person. You can have the best of both worlds all wrapped up into one whole person. Enjoy the strength of a noble man and the beauty of a nurturing female. I feel this honest acceptance of yourself, along with keeping dressing in balance, enables both you and your loved ones to better accept you.