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Veronica_Jean
06-28-2010, 06:03 PM
Hi everyone,

Well today was my first day working as Veronica and I was amazed!! I received several comments from the women about how good I looked, not to mention that at least 2 or 3 people that interacted with me often didn't even recognize me at all!!!

But the best one today was from the IT guy when I needed my password reset. He said, "I didn't recognize you earlier. I mean I knew I should know who you were, but I just could not figure it out. I don't mean to offend you. In fact you may like hearing this, but, You look just like a woman!"

Needless to say considering this day, that is the best thing I could have heard!

If you need me just look up... I will be floating in the clouds all night!

Veronica

TxKimberly
06-28-2010, 06:31 PM
Awe! GOOD for you Veronica!

Céleste_B
06-28-2010, 06:31 PM
Congratulations Veronica!

Very encouraging for all of us who will be going through something similar in the future. Thank you for sharing :cheer:

BRANDYJ
06-28-2010, 06:33 PM
Really happy for you. Sounds like you work for a great company and some really good co-workers.

Faith_G
06-28-2010, 07:21 PM
That sounds like a great start! :happy:

MAJESTYK
06-28-2010, 10:46 PM
Very, very cool! Congratulations!

Karen564
06-28-2010, 10:50 PM
Great & Congrats.!

It sounds like a perfect start to me...
:hugs:

pamela_a
06-28-2010, 10:55 PM
That sounds like a great way to start.

:drink: to the rest of your life

Katesback
06-29-2010, 01:37 PM
Well now you managed to live through the big step of becomming a transgender girl in the eyes of the co-workers. As you found out people for the most part really dont give a rip what ya do.....but you are now the trans girl at the office, a sight for many to behold.

The next step for many who get tired of being a trans girl is to start planning your next JOB. If possible FAR away from where you are at now.

By changing jobs (and with a legally female designation) you will the have your best chance of being REALLY a woman in the eyes of your co-workers.

Transition is a LONG LONG process. You are just beginning this adventure.

Katie

EmilyMI
06-29-2010, 01:51 PM
Congratulations, It just makes it so much easier when you have supportive people that you work for! I am really happy for you

~Hugs~
-Emily

My Lady Marsea
06-29-2010, 02:38 PM
Congrats are like in order girlfriend. Now you are goin' to start getting those 99 good times for each 1 bad one. You'll find it's so much totally easy to hang with the girls and you'll be like totally blown away how many of them will approach you now and show a true interest. You better start accepting the fact you will get good comments from most, esp the one "OMG You make such a better girl than a guy". As you start to finally develop some real girlfriend to girlfriend status, be prepared for the testosterone guy thing from some (not all) husband, although it won't be a physical thing, they still think you're a guy out to get "their" women and will forbid them to like hang out or wutever. Most of the rest are secure in who they are and could care less, glad she found another girlfriend lol. Eventually you'll get into a little girl click or two and be like totally accepted to the girl's day out we all so want to be a part of lol.
You'll still get an occasional sir or two, but most ppl in your daily travels will never know the difference (as you noted) or at least make a conscious effort to go with the femme terms if they knew you before.
Again welcome to the world (I hope) of the 24/7 femme girl and totally happiness to you.

Inna
06-29-2010, 04:57 PM
That's what the dreams are made of and you are living it, Congrats girl.

Teri Jean
06-29-2010, 06:29 PM
Very good girl, it is a validation when you get compliments. Keep your head up and enjoy.

Teri