sandra-leigh
07-01-2010, 10:43 PM
If your mother knows to some extent, how clear / blatant are you with her?
I came out to my mother a year ago about being CD with TG issues. Before that when I visited her, I would take a couple of pairs of men's undies to have something to put in the laundry to alleviate suspicions as I snuck wearing my panties. If I took a bra at all on my visit, I would hide it away and take it with me some day and find a place to put it on on one of my trips out. My tops were a mix of my old tops (e.g., some sweat-shirts I've had for many years) and female but not so obvious. I did wear tights a time or two in her presence but it was "sneaking" it.
I'm just winding up my latest visit to my mother. This trip, I did not bring any male undies at all, but on the other hand I was not yet ready to put my panties in the laundry so I brought enough for the whole trip. I wore tights a couple of times and didn't feel like I was "sneaking" them. I wore pantyhose a couple of days.
Last year before I was out to her I had acrylics during my visit but said I was trying to repair my nails (which I was); this time I have French Nails on my toes with a flower pattern on my big toes, and I have gold polish on my fingers. In case she somehow missed it, when I got my hands a bit dirty today, I said that it wasn't too bad but that I would definitely have to change my polish.
I didn't bring the night-dress that I wear at home, but I am wearing my grey cotton women's PJs -- notable mostly by the tie at the neck.
I've worn a bra to bed every night (which I don't get to do at home), and I've worn a bra during the day most days (e.g., not on the day I was wearing a blouse that was thin enough that the bra would have been visible through it -- but I didn't worry about bra straps showing on other days.) I was hoping that I still had enough of my recent temporary breasts that she would observe them... paving the way for my hopes for some permanent breasts. Though, today my bra-straps slipped several times, and I casually reached in and brought them up like any woman would.
I wore jean-leggings (which I recently discovered the joys of) some days, and she specifically mentioned that she liked my jeans (from Penningtons). I did not, however, have the guts to wear my denim skirt in front of her (but I did wear it around town one day), and I ended up not at all wearing the dress-suit that I brought with me. I did, though, go shopping for women's clothes (by myself), and I've left the Tall Girls bag in sight where-as I would have hidden it away before.
My mother has seen me with a variety of female earrings this trip, but has not said anything about them.
My mother knows and said she understood well, but she also hasn't talked to me about it at all in the last year. I guess I'll have to say something before I leave, just to re-open the communications.
I came out to my mother a year ago about being CD with TG issues. Before that when I visited her, I would take a couple of pairs of men's undies to have something to put in the laundry to alleviate suspicions as I snuck wearing my panties. If I took a bra at all on my visit, I would hide it away and take it with me some day and find a place to put it on on one of my trips out. My tops were a mix of my old tops (e.g., some sweat-shirts I've had for many years) and female but not so obvious. I did wear tights a time or two in her presence but it was "sneaking" it.
I'm just winding up my latest visit to my mother. This trip, I did not bring any male undies at all, but on the other hand I was not yet ready to put my panties in the laundry so I brought enough for the whole trip. I wore tights a couple of times and didn't feel like I was "sneaking" them. I wore pantyhose a couple of days.
Last year before I was out to her I had acrylics during my visit but said I was trying to repair my nails (which I was); this time I have French Nails on my toes with a flower pattern on my big toes, and I have gold polish on my fingers. In case she somehow missed it, when I got my hands a bit dirty today, I said that it wasn't too bad but that I would definitely have to change my polish.
I didn't bring the night-dress that I wear at home, but I am wearing my grey cotton women's PJs -- notable mostly by the tie at the neck.
I've worn a bra to bed every night (which I don't get to do at home), and I've worn a bra during the day most days (e.g., not on the day I was wearing a blouse that was thin enough that the bra would have been visible through it -- but I didn't worry about bra straps showing on other days.) I was hoping that I still had enough of my recent temporary breasts that she would observe them... paving the way for my hopes for some permanent breasts. Though, today my bra-straps slipped several times, and I casually reached in and brought them up like any woman would.
I wore jean-leggings (which I recently discovered the joys of) some days, and she specifically mentioned that she liked my jeans (from Penningtons). I did not, however, have the guts to wear my denim skirt in front of her (but I did wear it around town one day), and I ended up not at all wearing the dress-suit that I brought with me. I did, though, go shopping for women's clothes (by myself), and I've left the Tall Girls bag in sight where-as I would have hidden it away before.
My mother has seen me with a variety of female earrings this trip, but has not said anything about them.
My mother knows and said she understood well, but she also hasn't talked to me about it at all in the last year. I guess I'll have to say something before I leave, just to re-open the communications.