Fight Or accept

[Sophia]

Hi

after struggling with exams (It was very bad by the way)

back to put an end for this but

I am really so confused

I Fight a thing coming stronger with time or if it goes away it
came back stronger too or going to eat up my male side that
I want it there as some here becoming all day cross dressed
& saying that what they are

Or

I accept the Desire inside & the feeling

of people look at you as cancer (some not all to be onest)
& I see what they do with is people even they Deportation them to another countries or my go to person
& your love to have a girl in your live that love you
we must be so man man in my country , no cry ,no feelings, no self care
& girls want to have this kind of men then having caring guy
(I don't know really may be I make it bigger than it is but mostly they like strong uncaring men)
& how to hide it if I want to be safe

so I post this to ask for your experience
& see what I will do

[carrie-ann]

I'm don't understand your question. If your asking about being out i am. I'm 247 and I'm married. I'm lucky I have a wife that supports me. I get treated with respect most of the time. Do i get some awkward looks yes of course I do I just smile I hope this helps.

[Midnight Skye]

Hi Sophia, so that took me some time to read and digest. But from what I gather you live in a country which is not accepting of feminine men and especially not crossdressers. Simply put, thats a rough reality. My advice would be to get a good education and get away from where you live. If your real life is being distinctly affected by the feelings inside... then you need to find a safe place to express them.

With a great deal of courage and willpower you certainly could stay where you are. Dress in private... and face the reality you must keep such activities hidden away. You could do this... but from the sound of it you would feel the best living in a place where crossdressing is more accepted.

Sorry I wish I had better advice beyond this.

[Chickhe]

I wish I was brave enough to accept myself back when I was in school... never too late though. The acceptance part is not really optional in my opinion. If you try to fight your feelings you will only feel worse... so endulge them and learn to accept how you feel. This doesn't mean you need to come out or anything, but it means not feeling any shame for being you. You can lie in bed dreaming about being enfem if you want, or if you need to go out, dress and tackle the goal of passing or not... take some personal time and explore...find out what all this means to you... nothing wrong with experimenting is there? Then you will know how to arrange your life. I figured out, it is not either or, it is about how to integrate it in to your life.

[yokyun]

I had a hard time at first, But over the years have come to love it.

[Sophia]

Thank you all for replaying

just to clear things up

I'm so confuse about fighting or accepting:eek:

to be a cross dresser

& I want to see what is your experience

& what you advice me to do

I Love you all

[tricia_uktv]

Oh honeybunch, I'm feeling for you.

It will never ever go away so you likely need to accept it now!!!! (speaks a girl with much experience)

But if you fight things may change. I've got three daughters who I wouldn't give up for the world.

Just be open, be honest and let your heart lead you. Its far easier trhan you think now.

From your mail I would suspect that you will pass your exams so why not buy yourself a prom dress to celebrate?

YOU CAN DO ANYTHING YOU WANT

So go out and do what you want.

And message me with three songs you would like to die to.

Hugs, Trish xx