Intuition about being seen?

[sandra-leigh]

I have been many places Dressed or (more typically) gender-bending, over large parts of the city at random times, and yet rarely get seen by someone who doesn't already know (e.g., someone from work.)

I have lost track of the number of times that I have decided to change into my less-obvious clothes and then a few minutes later came across someone I'm not ready to tell yet -- and a fair bit of the time the other person will be somewhere they seldom go or seldom at that time. Why did I change then and thus not get Seen, instead of leaving my clothes on longer and thus get "caught"? I don't know.

Sometimes it is as simple as decided to walk on the other side of the street for a change while I'm wearing larger forms, only to have someone from work head the other way for an unusually late lunch, right along would I normally would have been. Why did I choose the other side of the street? No good reason.

The times I wear a skirt to the farmers market, only strangers see me; if, though, I get an "un-uh" feeling and wear something else instead, chances are good that we'll met someone.

But if I decided to wear a skirt or dress to the local mall or local big grocery store... no-one I know will be there, not even during peak shopping hours.

I can't explain why I haven't been Seen by at least 1/3 of the people at work by now, but it just doesn't seem to happen. Perhaps some "intuition" or "precognition" about what will be "safe" ??

[Christina2008]

Life is what you make it, what’s for you won’t go by you, everything happens for a reason, etc etc.

I have noticed too that life sometimes works out to suit the situation. Sometimes so perfectly it makes you stop and think .
A mere coincidence?, I’m not sure, but intuition is a wonderful and amazing thing!

Something to be embraced I say.

[Phyliss]

Had something similar to that happen about two yr. ago. Was doing a bunch of odd chores around the house, wearing my somewhat larger forms, more for the fun of the jiggle and bounce than anything else. Realized I needed something at the store, was in the car backing out of the driveway, and decided that I just didn't need the stares, that day. Went inside and took them off and headed to the store.
There in the parking lot I run into a person who I hadn't seen in almost a year. Of course the hugs and "how are you s"
Might have been a bit difficult to explain the boobs.

[christine55]

There are many things which happen which are considered to be "supernatural".
We all have a deep connection with each other because we are all a part of a single reality. We all have our existence WITHIN God. At times the perceived separateness seems to spring leaks.

Hugs, Christine

[eluuzion]

I do not believe there is such a thing as "coincidence". I do believe in cognizance.

I believe life is all about perception. One facet of "perception" has to do with the ability to "predict" the future. Some people believe in "magic" and the existence of "supernatural" influences giving some individuals "mystical" powers. I do not happen to be one of those "believers".

What I do believe is that the ability to "predict" the probability of future events and human behavior is a skill based upon perception, which is present in all of us. Some are born with an exceptional ability, some develop it with study and practice, and others simply never tap into it. Some individuals are naturally more proficient than others.

The layman’s term for this issue is often referred to as “being perceptive”.

Being “perceptive” is simply a process of learning what components improve your ability to calculate what the options are for what may occur “next”.
Calculating the probability of an individual or group taking a specific direction or action in the “future” with a certain degree of accuracy is also possible. It has to do with understanding human behavior, motivation, kinesics (non-verbal cues…”body language”), proxemics, opportunistic circumstance and a few other areas. Humans are creatures of habit. People may vary their routines intentionally and unintentionally for various reasons, but everybody has one at any given time. (Whether they are aware of it or not). People rarely take action randomly. There are always reasons people “do what they do” that make sense to them. These “reasons” create the justifications and motivation that fuels their behavior and actions.

One exceptional tool is the cognitive element called “Abstract Reasoning”. Some are born with above average natural abilities in this area. Some people use it or develop it as parts of their particular cognitive strategy they employ to navigate "life". (‘Critical thinking”). It is a concentration and focuses on the “end result” rather than being pre-occupied with the individual events that are involved in the journey.

At the end of the day, these "skills" or "abilities" determine your ability to “read people” and “predict” what may be “coming next”. It is not some super-natural phenomenon from another dimension, lol. It is simply what you choose to pay attention to in life…

Some people would make good “spies”, and some people should just keep their day jobs…lol

Just my opinion… :love:

[SheriM]

It's women's intuition!

[Gerrijerry]

have you ever thought that you have already been seen but those that did simple didn't care or just accepted that you are who you are. When us girls go out sooner or later we get seen. That does not mean that those that see you will make a big deal out of it. knowing many of the girls for many many years I know that some of our feminine side comes out in male mode. I truly believe that the more you dress and try to act feminine the more you will act that way all the time. We can forget or let down our guard what ever you call it. IT happens and I believe people notice but rarely say anything. I remember when I went to a salon for a while to get my hair done just for the day to look better. The hairdresser said to me. Why don't I just fixup your eyebrows a little. She new of course that I was a crossdresser. I figured just a little who would know. Well when she finished I had perfect female eyebrows I loved then. Then next day back in male mode I looked in the mirror. told myself no one would really notice. You know not one person said a word. So for weeks I was happy thinking how nice my eyebrows looked and that no one noticed. Until my wife said next time you get your eyebrows done don't do them so thin you look better with them a little fuller. The arch is nice and gives your eyes a pretty look. I turned totally red. You mean you can tell they were done I said. Of course she told me. anyone one could tell that. No one had said a word and I was always treated the same at work and everywhere I went. LIve and learn

[sandra-leigh]

Guess my intuition failed me today :o

On my way to work (I work afternoons), I stopped at my usual lunch place near work. I've gone in there in forms, in skirt, in dress... they always treat me well.

Today I had my clothes for work, and under them I had my small/mid forms, C-cup or so; with the top I was wearing they were not "big", but they were beyond possible "pecs".

After paying (at the farthest point from the door) I turned and walked towards the door... and was greated by someone who works in the same building I do, whom I have chatted with from time to time, someone who knows me personally. Nothing to do but return the greeting and keep walking :o

I don't think it will affect our relationship negatively.


After leaving the store and heading towards work, this time on the regular side of the road, I could see one of my co-workers approaching the far side of the intersection. She stopped to talk to someone, but as there were people all around me, it was too late for me to slip my forms into my bag. So I had to adopt the famous "hold your bag in crossed arms (hiding your chest)" tactic, which worked fine.

Time to re-charge my pyramids, I guess!