Inquiring minds want to know-Week 14

[Di]

Week 14:D can you believe it? Thanks to our GG's and the questions they want to ask and thank you everyone joining in and helping.:hugs: with answers.

Week 14

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

[AmandaM]

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?
38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?
39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

37. Yes, all the time.
38. Sometimes, even the night before the wedding, I was jealous.
39. Yes, I am submissive to women when I think they will like it. My response to them, etc. is more fulfilling emotionally for me. And hopefully, for them too.

[Rachel Morley]

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?
No. This scenario is how it would be for me at work. No I don't think about it. I kinda compartmentalize it as work and non work.

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?
No. She rarely or never goes out without me and if we do go out together, I am almost always en femme too. Unless it's our wedding anniversary or her birthday or something similar, then we go out to dinner as "man and wife" with me in a slightly girly boy mode.

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?
Errr ... well, as it turns out, I'm usually underneath during lovemaking. Does that answer your question?

[Kathi Lake]

Although not the same release of my early years, the release that I get when I dress is still strong, fulfilling, and needed. I essentially haven't dressed since early January as most of my, . . . well, I was going to say "girl stuff" but a more accurate term is, "a part of me" is in storage for an impending move. Do I think about it? You know that feeling when you're swimming underwater from end to end of a swimming pool, and you're just about out of air, but you keep on going so you can get to the other side of the pool? Yeah, that's how I feel sometimes - like I'm almost out of air, but pushing onward to the end.

Do I get upset when she dresses up? Not at all! She's gorgeous, feminine, and when she dresses up, she gets this little smile when she looks in the mirror, like the culmination of all of her preadolescent princess fantasies have just come true. I live for that smile, and I certainly don't begrudge her that. That smile tells me that she feels a little bit about herself what I feel for her all the time. Now, if you ask me if I get jealous, then that's another question. :)

Sure, I'll answer that last question. I'm not exactly a private person, as you may have noticed. Actually, I'll answer it with another question; Just what exactly is the female role in lovemaking? If you mean on the bottom, then I'll say about 50% - it just feels better to me, but I know that psychologically, she likes me being the dominant one, so I gladly accommodate. That, to me, is lovemaking. Mutual trust. Mutual submission. Mutual pleasure.

If you mean, "the receiver" then no.

If you mean, "Do I wear the lingerie" then the answer is no. It's itchy, scratchy, and comes off too quickly as it is. My wife is wonderful, and we really feel no need for props or fantasy. We're fine as is. :)

Interesting questions. Thanks!

Kathi

[Joanne f]

Week 14

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?
In some ways i dress every day but not to the extent that i need to and this is on my mind all the time. Shopping in clothes shops really hits this home and that really effects me.

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?
Extremely envious is the word i would use

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?
Some thing that i would not normally talk about on an open forum, (sorry had to edit as something is making me question myself.

[Mirani]

Week 14

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?
I used to vary between consumed by the pain of not being able to be "me" and an awareness of not being "complete".

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?
I used to get VERY jealous (especially when getting ready) but enjoyed her own enjoyment of "looking good".

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

As I don't present as male any more our relationship dynamic isn't Male/female.

[Renee_E]

Week 14

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?

Yes. Sometimes I imagine what I would be wearing if I could dress for that occasion. Some times I just get catty about what the GG's are wearing and how I would make a better selection.

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?

Upset, NO! Jealous, YES

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

I prefer to be in a female role and yes I want and have always wanted to be a woman.

[Crysten]

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Week 14

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?

Yup.

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?

Wife never dresses up. N/A

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

Preference to be in the female role? Yes. Gay? No.

[TxKimberly]

I should just cut and paste Mirani's responses to the first two as they are perfect!




37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing a lot when you are unable to dress?


Only when I'm breathing. In other words - yes.



38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?


Upset may be too strong a word. . . then again, the more I look for the right words, the more I think that maybe the answer IS yes. It's hard for me to present as ugly ole Matt in any kind of a dress up outing knowing what I could be looking like.





39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

Wow, not sure just how blunt a response you want or expect with this one. Yes, I do generally wait for my wife to instigate things. Yes, I prefer to be on the bottom. <blush>
No, I do not want to be "on the receiving end" of anything. <blush>

[Jonianne]

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?

Yes. It's like a sub-programing that is always running, but most of the time in the background.


38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?

I wouldn't say "upset", but sometimes, I may think that it would have been nice to have been able to have went dressed. I might miss it, depending on the occasion.


39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

Yes, and that has negativly affected my intimacy in lovemaking. It's something that takes a lot of effort for me to work out in a relationship.

[SuzanneBender]

37. I only think about it on days that end with y. The average male thinks of sex every 8 seconds. I every 8 seconds and sex every 16. It makes it hard to focus sometimes.
38. I love it when she dresses to the nines. There are times I think wow I love that look and would love to try it myself, but I don't get upset about her looking great.
39. Nope. I have always enjoyed when she takes the lead but I don't consider that playing the femme role. There are certain things I love about being a man and my role in the bedroom is one if them.

[Tina B.]

Week 14

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?
Not that often that I don't get to dress anymore, but yes, when I couldn't dress, it could become all consuming.
38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?
[COLOR="purple"]Never, I love to see her dressed up, and feeling good about herself.[/COLOR
39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

Need, no I won't say need, but yes I do prefer the more submissive role in love making, and luckily my wife likes the more dominate role
Tina B.

[AKAMichelle]

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?

Not really since I can dress all the time anyway.


38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?

No - I am a mix and a good portion of those times I love to be the guy. The guy who holds the door for you. The guy who pulls the chair out for you to sit down in. It is almost like role playing. When I want to be the guy, I will wear the guy clothes. When I want to be the girl, I will wear girl clothes.


39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

NEVER. I always want to be the guy to enjoy the female.

[Karen__Starr]

37 No as I am for the most part dressed all the time even in male mode.
38. Not upset but jealous
39. Absolutely, always as a dominate female, never as a male. With men it depends on the man but always with men as a female.

[TGMarla]

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?

Yes. I think about it nearly every day, whether I am able to dress or not. Of course, I like it better when I'm able to.


38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?

No. There may be some pangs of envy about it, but it is a privilege to escort my wife anywhere we go together. And I'm quite glad to be her man, especially in a situation like that.


39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

I'm not gay, and whereas I'd like to be a woman, that is not my path. The option to be in the female role while lovemaking has never come up, nor is it likely to. So I'll give this one a big ol' "NA".

[Rebecca W.]

#37- Since I was thirteen, the thoughts about dressing daily as a woman only get stronger and they never fade. The only problem is that the dresses get more expensive. LOL:)

[JulieK1980]

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?

I don't really have that issue. I dress whenever I feel the need.

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?

Not at all.

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

I'm Bi so I guess it just depends. Not a preference though, just depends on who I'm with..... ;)

[BRANDYJ]

Some really good questions from our GG's
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37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?
Sometimes I do. But not often. Sometimes things or my partner have to take priorities and dressing becomes a mute point and it does nto bother me in the least.

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?

Hell no. I like my SO dressed up and me in drab mode and proud to be her male partner.

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

I like the opportunity to be in fem mode when making love with my partner, but that decision has to be hers and not mine. It happens often enough to make me happy and I never worry about it. It is never an issue. I simply like making love and pleasing her in either mode.

[mklinden2010]

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Week 14

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?

No. Then again, my life is set up to do what I want, when I want, so the words "unable to" may not apply.


38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?

No. If we're set for an "outing" (odd choice of words) and I Have to be in guy mode, then so be it.

There's nothing that pouting and whining can't make worse, so I just don't bother with those.



39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?


No, for two reasons.

First, lovemaking is also about saying kind words, doing the chores on time, and, listening to their cares and concerns - too.

Second, when it comes to sex, there are NO clothes involved because there's nothing like a good fitting birthday suit for a great party.

[minalost]

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?

I think about CDing all the time.

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?

Nope. My wife doesn't dress up much, but I love it when she does!

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

Now for the hard question: My wife does NOT want me in fem mode "in the bedroom." I'm not sure I would want to make love while enfemme anyway... not that I haven't thought about it, but the wig, and everything else would just get in the way (I think...). On top or bottom? Both, depending on mood.
:hugs:

[PretzelGirl]

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?

It depends. Two things can put me where I am thinking about it a lot. One is the old idle mind syndrom. If I am busy with work, my family, or something I enjoy doing, then dressing isn't consuming my mind. The other instance is if I haven't dressed for a while. Then the thoughts about it go up.

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?

No, not upset. If she is getting dressed up, then we are heading to do something fun (I am not forced to any work dress up events). Jealous. Sure. Jealous of her dressing up. Jealous of her beauty.

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

I will pass. Promised my self that I wouldn't talk about our sex life here long ago. Some things are suppose to stay private to me.

[Sarah Doepner]

Week 14

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?

It depends. When I'm busy or my things are unavailable, it tends to stay well back in my mind for the most part. It only entered my mind a couple of times while I was camping or staying with relatives, but daily when I got back home.

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?

She doesn't get dressed up very often and when that happens I'm happy to be her male companion. I'll get my chance to dress later.

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

When my wife accepted my crossdressing one of the ground rules was she would remain the only woman in our bed. I have no problem with that.

[linnea]

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing a lot when you are unable to dress? Yes but not in a very strong way: I have learned to be patient about this and wait without fretting. Some day I won't have to wait at all.

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode? I don't get upset but I let myself process a little wishful thinking. Again, over the many years that I have been a crossdresser, I have learned to be patient and to appreciate deferred pleasures.

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?
I think about it and fantasize at times, but I don't need it.

[CallMeMeg]

Yes, yes, and no.

[kayegirl]

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Week 14

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?

Yes all of the time.

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?

I'll know the answer to this one next week. I have to attend a formal do, full dinner suit etc. My GG friend and the rest of the ladies present will be in their best gowns etc. Don't think that I will be upset so much as jealous as hell.


39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

Yes, No, well sometimes perhaps, I don't know it's different every time isn't it?

Sorry the answers to the first two questions are hidden in the quote box, havent got the hang of quoting part of a thread yet.

[carhill2mn]

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37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?
Yes.

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?
Yes, I did a little, especially at Easter and Xmas!

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?
Not in the "female role" but did like to wear feminine sleep wear.

[NatalieBliss]

37) yes.

38) when this has been applicable a twinge of jealousy maybe but never upset.

39) need or preference are a bit too strong a wording for me. I would enjoy having a girlfriend that would, from time to time, play with gender roles in lovemaking. However I thoroughly enjoy the more traditional approach...

[Kathryn Martin]

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Week 14

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

1. I think about being female a lot;

2. I always have been disappointed that guys never get to wear lovely clothes and put makeup on without consequences;

3. When I am with my wife not at all - sometimes I think about being a woman in bed;

Martina

[Debb]

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?

Yes. I plan my next outing sometimes... other times, I envy the dress or appearance of the nearest female :-)



38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?

Nope, not at all.



39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?
Absolutely not. I think it'd be inconvenient and uncomfortable to be ... pegged, if that's what you mean.

[Jessica Jameson]

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?

Sometimes, when I see a lot of gg's dressed nicely I get a little jealous

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?

Nah that doesn't upset me.

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

Strangely no, I enjoy the more masculine role

Good questions

[Andrea Reynolds]

37. yes.
38. not upset, but envious
39. no, I rarely engage in sex. Andrea

[Marlena-4now]

37) Yes, definetly. Sometimes when I can't dress it's all I think about. It get's so bad once in a while it becomes difficult to for me to hold a conversation or get my work done. The pressure definetly builds when I have no oportunity to be fem.
38) Again ,yes definetly. If we are going out to some event I get jealous and a little sad as I watch my wife get beautiful. But.....also I love to watch my wife get beautiful and I like it when she asks my opinion about what shoes or neclace she should wear and so on. I get over the slight jealousy and/or sadness pretty quick and don't let it get in the way of our having a good time.
39) I like sex with my wife pretty much any which way. I do like variety and we both like to spice things up once in a while by tryng different stuff. We only did it with me partially dressed once and I have to say I was a trifle self concious and it was a little awkward at first but it ended up being good fun :o. We will probably try it again some time. However, apart from the clothing we haven't gone farther with role reversal in the bedroom....so far. But, you know....Never say never !

[fluffy]

I'm new here and just jumped in :

1) No

2) Yes, very much so.

3) Yes I definitely do take the feminine/female role in love making. Fortunately my gf loves that and takes the counter part to it.

[Blaire]

37 - Yup...

38 - Upset, no; sometimes a little wistful.

39 - Need, no; prefer, sometimes; want every so often, yes!

[Raychel]

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?
Very much so, If I don't get a chance to dress for a while, not only do I find myself thinking about it all the time, I get very irratable

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?
I may get a bit jealous, But not really upset

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?
Not really wanting to take over the female role in lovemaking.

[Kerigirl2009]

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?

I find that I think about dressing ALL THE TIME, but especially when I am unable to express my feminine side, like when I am with my family. I think about it more now simply because I can't be myself and be the Husband and the father at the same time.

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?

I would not say upset, jealous is more like it, I would soooo love to get dolled up and spend time with the pwople that I love and not have to wonder what my wife is thinking. I kow whe does not really like this but atleast she is tolerant. But I think it would open up our relationship if we could spend time together. So upset no but definately jealous.

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?


To be honest, Yes I have a desire to experience what women experience and I probably always will, I would love to have some role reversal some time and be more in a submissive role. If I knew my wife would be ok with it I would suggest it but fear keeps me from exploring. But I would really really love to have that experience that my wife so adores. again I am soooo jealous.

[kayegirl]

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Week 14

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

Question 38: Well I attende the formal do at the weekend, full Dinner Suit, bow tie etc. Didn't get upset with my partner, but she did look stunning.
Now the previous night we went to a Grease tribute night and many of the gg's there were dressed in character,,,,,,,,then I was jealous, jealous, jealous, I just love those 50's 60's fashions.

[sissystephanie]

37. Never have, and probably never will.

38. She wore her clothes, and I wore mine! If drab was called for that is what I wore!

39. My late wife used to have me be the female on occasion, but not very often!

[Abbyru1]

I think about wearing female clothing a lot. I have a job that would not be good to show up femine. But yes.

Upset? No not at all. Wishful ,yes.

Not a need but a desire. I too would like to feel the most inner feelings but don't want to be the female all of the time. I enjoy being on the bottom but sex dosen't happen
much so any way it happens is great.

[Mistybtm]

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress? Yes but that is rare that i am not able to.

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode? NO SO.

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking. Not Gay BI and yes I wish i was a GG, Yes my Preference is to be the female during lovemaking.

[Newbridget]

Yes Yes and OMG yes. I like to dress for my man and receive from him in the bedroom.

[Lorileah]

how did I miss this???



37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress? Not really, but that may be because I wear 75% women's clothing daily anyway?


38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?
Sort of but I clean up pretty good for a guy and I get compliments in either mode...sometimes I think that is the reason I like dressing "up".


39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

Oy, the big one. This can get really psychological. In my mind I am female when having sexual relations. My mind thinks I am female and it cannot comprehend the male aspect. As to the "role" I am guess that means the more submissive and yes that would be true most of the time. I cannot see this question in any other manner unless you are talking positions. Then in traditional sense yes (this is hard to talk about and stay within the rules)

[Kaz]

yes, no, don't understand the question as it is open to too many interpretations.

[Ashley Jade]

39. I'm bi, so when I'm with a girl, def not, but when I'm with a guy I like to be in complete female mindset!!

[Jamsey]

Week 14

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?
No, just happy when I get the opportunity.
38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?
No.

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking
Been married too long in a relationship I shouldn't be in. What is lovemaking?

[suchacutie]

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?

Sure! It never leaves. It's a part of who I am.

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?

My wife once asked if Tina was jealous of all the time I spent in guy mode (as I do need to spend significant time in guy mode to earn a living, etc). My answer was that I do understand that a significant time in guy mode is necessary, and that I do often miss Tina. But, how can I be jealous of my wife for being a woman, and if I can't make time in my life for Tina, who's fault is that but mine? hmm?

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

My guy side takes care of the lovemaking. I adore Tina, but my guy side seems to handle the issue completely.

:)

tina

[Annaliese2010]

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?

MY ANSWER: No, just when I'm really h***y or when feeling rejected by a GG I'm falling for or have fallen for, especially after having expressed my feelings in some concrete or significant way.

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?

MY ANSWER: N/A :sad: (aww, me not spoken for, LOL) but...using my imagination...Hell No! Nothin more awsome than a GG looking all girly girl-like. Christ, I'd hang diamonds and colored gems on her JUST to be able to ooh ahh-admire the way they reflect her eyes green, hazel, brown, black or blue; her smile, scintillating or subdued; or her mood, dark, sultry, pouty, poker-faced or sweet. And expensive perfume, whatever her fragrance; a Pavlovian link to her inner sweetness and hearts delight; her own confection, unique; tangy, tart, or smooth as silk sweet - ever changing from one to the other; somedayze a tricksy-mix; a bit of all three - depending on so many things mysterious & unknowing; unknowably deep.

And so...whenever she dressed-up (or down) it'd be a treat, worth the wait, THE show to see no matter the date! For is it not true, correct me if wrong, and heavens above no disrespect but... GG's are complex, they perplex me: both angel & devil, this day or that, an endless list of unexpected expectedness not to figure but acceptably accept, quietly admire & appreciate. I don't try to analyze it anymore, it's fcn impossible, beyond logic; not irrational but a-rational or... super-rational, maybe? The day dawns, you rise, you feel, you need me, you don't; you're independent, you're not, you're sunny, you're stormy, you're rarely content; you move me, abuse me, challenge me to be...better than I know I can be, yet surprisingly... soon am just for thee by thine own brand of non-urging; meaningless non-messaging encoded in thy in-between lines, thy cryptic puzzling, outwardly projecting from somewhere within thee; and from thee, thinly exhaled, sweetly fortifying the air I breathe; thus thickly experienced is the flavor of your changing need; the feeling of your mood... from sun swept hills of rolling green, clean, exhilarating, life-giving; to dark skies dangerous having me thinking: *one-one thousand two one-thousand three one-thousand four*; counting down the seconds 'tween your lightening flash; sighs that open thighs that close; timing your gap, from warning to roar - your hushed thunder, my chest to resonate; an ache that calibrates... your weather charts our course, maps the route, trips the lever; selects my best effort to serve, to protect and thus to keep; close is thy treasure held firm... without worry, without want; happy, free and near to me; I become you and you, me; princess-queen of all my dreams.

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

MY ANSWER: (1) No, I'm not gay; (2) No, I don't wanna actually be a woman cuz I could never give up my love stick; it's waay too special & I love it so (but holy hell, would it ever be cool to actually know what it feels like 1st hand as a GG approaches then is swept away when by her thought-less love-making she consummates, consecrates, consummates the moment; stops Time by rushing outside this its lowly domain; Up, up and away! A SuperGirl on the move, Rules the world by her swoon); (3) It would be an extreme turn-on to be, not THE female to her inner male, but to be a female lover to her bi-curious or random lez experiment, preference or need whatever the case may be. But actually... now that I think of it...gawd yeah!!! I guess it would be an even more extreme turn-on to be her inner-male's b*tch at times. God thanks for suggesting that! I never even th...umm... Okay okay my blood's boiling now...where do I sign up!!!

(srry for all that... guess I got carried away...teehee)

[Dena]

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?

Not so much after getting my own wardrobe. Even when I don't dress up, I know the clothes are there.

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?

No.

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?[/QUOTE]

No.

[Crystal Alberta]

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing a lot when you are unable to dress?

It depends. For me, the urge to dress waxes and wanes. Sometimes when I can't dress, it's an all-consuming thought, while at other times, I hardly think of it all all.

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?

No, absolutely not! I don't mind looking nice as a guy, and my girlfriend always looks gorgeous.

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

Hmmm. I'm not sure what you mean the "the female role." If you mean me dressing up, it's not something we've ever tried. The bedroom is one place where I'm generally quite happy to be the man.

[tanya1976]

Week 14:D can you believe it? Thanks to our GG's and the questions they want to ask and thank you everyone joining in and helping.:hugs: with answers.

Week 14

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

37) Yes.
38) No.
39) Depends on what you mean? Are we adhering to stereotypes here?! An honest answer might be I find it dull to be placed in a dominant role too often.

[Sally24]

37. Normally i think about it quite often. When i haven't dressed for over 2 weeks then i think about it all the time and I'm pretty cranky.
38. i would describe it more wistful or sad when i can't be pretty too. I just love it when she gets to be pretty though!
39. we have always traded back in forth when it comes to who's in charge in the romantic department. i would say as the years go by that i enjoy it more in the female role. As some others have said that doesn't involve clothing of any kind!

[Chickhe]

37. No, since overcoming most of the compulsion the thoughts are more about planning the next outting. I just integrate the feminine thoughts with my male ones so I'm satisfied most of the time, dressing or not.

38. Not upset, but feeling left out a bit. Enjoy seeing her all made up.

39. Well, it is private. But, perhaps at times it can feel like lesbian sex and for the most part she likes me to take control. We have played around a bit, I get a little clostrophopic with her on top.

[joannemarie barker]

37. Yes I think about it all the time
38 n/a
39.I prefer the Dom role with a gg
If I'm with a man I'd enjoy the submissive role much more

[Laura Evans]

37: Yes, but not obsessively

38: Upset no, jealous yes, especially at functions or events where the women are primarily wearing a dress or skirt. Mind you I am not jealous of my SO for dressing I am primarily wishing I could also.

39: I like to be submissive and she likes me to be dominant ( I completely understand that) so we compromise and switch roles as the mood suits us.

[JessiRed]

Week 14:D can you believe it? Thanks to our GG's and the questions they want to ask and thank you everyone joining in and helping.:hugs: with answers.

Week 14

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?

Constantly, although lately the thoughts have been coupled with how terrible I would look since I have put on weight

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?

Yes I do, but I never let on.

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

I do have a 'need' to be the female, but unfortunately my wife just does not enjoy it. She has attempted it twice, but wasn't comfortable with it.


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[LitaKelley]

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?

YES

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?

NO

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

NO

[Alice B]

Yes, no and at my age not applicable. But would love to.

[AmiFL]

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress? I haven't been able to dress since I moved to Florida and think about it all the time.

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode? Not upset but jealous.... my wife has nice clothes... too small for me though

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking? I had a previous lover who got on top and let me wrap my legs around her during intercourse, it was pretty erotic for both of us. I should have broached the issue of crossdressing with her... she may have enjoyed it as i told her after breaking up and she was curious about it

[CalamityJane]

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?[/QUOTE]

37)I am not sure what you mean by "unable to dress". My SO is fine with my crossdressing so that is not a problem, she has accepeted what I do and in return she asks me to refrain from dressing at certain times which I consider to be fair...its just a bit of give and take.

38)No, I can't say that I get "upset", I would add that I might feel that it would be nice to "dress up" , but never "upset"

39)Well I don't have any desire to wear anything when making love, in the buff is just fine...and has the best tactile feel.:-))

[Brooke Anderson]

37) Do you find yourself thinking about dressing alot when you are unable to dress?

Yes.

38) Do you get upset if your partner gets dressed up for an outing and you have to be in guy mode?

Sometimes, It depends on the outing. On occasion once we have come home and she has taken off the clothes she dressed in I will immediately put them on.

39) THE THIRD QUESTION THAT DOESN'T GET ASKED (after are you gay and do you want to be a woman): Do you have a need (or a preference) to be in the female role during lovemaking?

I don't really have a need, I have been in both roles and enjoy both roles although I would lean towards being the submissive female as my preference.