Missing Out

[Mirani]

It's so not fair!

I have read a number of posts where an Auntie or a Grandmother dressed you up as a girl, or on finding out you had "borrowed" a bra or knickers, then dressed you up as a girl.

I feel I have missed out as I didn't have an Auntie and I was never wise enough to "borrow" something from my Grandmother.

So, if you add to this thread, can you simply say "Yes" if it was your experience
or "No" if it wasn't.
Then at least I will now if I am in a majority or a minority!!

[LisaM]

I am so sorry to add a 'no' from me.

[lisa_alba]

Sadly a no from me as well, but I did have a family member, I believe it was a grandmother, hang in my closet a white First Communion dress. The problem with that was there was no girls anywhere in my family.

[Susan4]

I had an aunt who had three daughters ... one my age, one a year or so older and one a year and a half younger.

When I was six or seven and maybe eight and I visited my cousins (they lived in another part of town) we'd play dress up. When we did, my aunt would have four, not three daughters, for an afternoon.

Fond memories of my youth ... but, the adults weren't actively involved. My aunt (and my mother if she was there) might take the occasional notice of our 'play' and think it was cute.

I think I'm the only one in the family who still remembers.

Hugs
Susan

[patti1569]

Nope.

[Maryesther M.]

No here too. We were all boys, so zero girls' clothes in the house. My crossdressing started much later.

[Charolette time]

Years ago my two cousins dressed me up as a girl for halloween, thought it was funny, still remeber it like it was yesterday, years later went to my cousins house and borrowd her TUTU outfit for a halloween party where a whole bunch of Truck driving Teamsters were at, , and she thought that it was hilarious, and mentioned the time from years ago, thats the two times dressed by her, they say 3 times a Charme,(hehe) Charolette

[Kathi Lake]

I had a grandmother that I adored. This woman is the reason I have a backbone today. She helped me with two things related to my life as it is. I stayed with her for one entire summer when I was 15. She caught me trying to pierce my ears the second week I was there with a thumbtack. She, being a nurse, stopped me, brought out the alcohol, sanitized my ears, and said, "if you're going to do this, let's do it right" and proceeded to pierce them for me. She never even asked me why. When she died, one of the things she left me was a pair of gorgeous diamond studs.

Earlier, when I was in the midst of my hormone imbalance, and she noticed how large my breasts were (it was hard not to as my girl cousins had dressed me up in one of their bikinis), she paid for me to go see a specialist as my parents couldn't pay for it.

My aunt never did anything for my girly side, but her daughters sure did!

:)

Kathi

[jessica renee]

Sadly, no.:sad: None of my family has ever participated or approved of my dressing.

[Luciana Vitale]

other no here :sad:

[Nicole Erin]

Oh gyod, worry not.
Do you know how many people post stuff like that out of fantasy? I mean people make money off writing books about forced feminization, it is usually punishment, manly-lad is a hoodlum and his auntie forces him to wear girl stuff and go to the mall to humiliate him.

And no, my family didn't force me to dress or borrow someone's femme stuff when I needed whatever. I know one time when my dad found a pair of pantyhose under my bed he was chewing me out and threatened to make me wear them and play outside and trust me, just the thought was not fun and not a fond memory.

I will say when I was a kid, every so often I was made to wear a suit made for boys. THAT sucked. :brolleyes:

[Angiemead12]

No for me as well :sad:

[BobbiU]

No for me also, Just found an attraction to the clothing and would start to wear when I could.

[PretzelGirl]

My aunt was super religious. My grandmother thought boys were the devil's spawn. Not happening.

[AKAMichelle]

NO - I missed out as well.

[Stephanie Miller]

Only in my dreams. :daydreaming:

[Billie1]

No, and never got caught with any of the "borrowed" items, either.

[ANA LILIA]

no, but I would have liked

[Danni Bear]

oh yes was found out at seven by grandmother was always girl while there except when parents around then cought by mother at fourteen and threatened would have to wear to school said ok and been dressing female ever since now wife and I have both transitioned and getting remarried

love
Danni Beard
once cd
but now
loving wife
Sept.13,2010

[RachelPortugal]

Me neither.

[Raychel]

No here too. My grand mothers never would have agreed to anything like that. And my aunt, we weren't exactly best of friends.

[RachelDenise]

Please add me to the "No" list.

[Renee_E]

No. My grandmother helped me be a better person but not a girl.

[erickka]

Another nada here!

[RobynB]

No such luck here.

[renee k]

I'm a yes, I had a mother and an aunt that started me down this path.

Renee

[Chari]

Yes, but by my Mother. Having an older sister and with very few household $, my Mother demanded at age 5, I help clean the house, do the laundry, wash dishes, etc - first insisting I wear a frilly apron, then my sisters outgrown dresses/jumper, girls underwear, knee high socks, black Maryjane shoes, and ribbons in my hair. Mother thought I was "so cute as her little daughter", and refused to get my curly hair cut until it was down to my shoulders. This was "our secret" that continued on into my midteens, giving me very little self worth and years of humiliation.

[noeleena]

Hi . YES,

Yes once at our end of year church do break up, 4 of 5 boys dressed as girls doing & singing a mime for over 90 people . & i just realised my mum was there as well . even after we finshed i still had make up on when i went home ,
ii was in 1958 i was 11 & it was fun apart from being in front of so many people.
& it was our sunday school teachers idear, oh of cause she was a woman . & it went down well even back then ,
so there you go, so i was a dresser even for a part.act,

...noeleena...

[Mirani]

I feel SO much better - seems I am in a majority for a change! ;)

[MsJenna]

no for me as well. My family was not active in my life really and even if they had been, nothing like that would have been accepted by them. Still wouldn't to this day.

[Farrah]

Well, my grandma threatened to dress me like a girl if kept hanging with them...I kept hanging with them, but she never did, bummer:sad:

[Vanessa5]

Another no. But I did get caught with their borrowed items.

[Patty]

No for me also :sad:

[Abbyru1]

You can add another no to the list. That kind of thing would not have happened if the
world of boys and or mens clothing suddenly just went away,the women in my family
would have re-invented male clothing.

[Frédérique]

I have read a number of posts where an Auntie or a Grandmother dressed you up as a girl, or on finding out you had "borrowed" a bra or knickers, then dressed you up as a girl.
I feel I have missed out as I didn't have an Auntie and I was never wise enough to "borrow" something from my Grandmother.
So, if you add to this thread, can you simply say "Yes" if it was your experience
or "No" if it wasn't.
Then at least I will now if I am in a majority or a minority!!

No, it wasn’t my experience. Pity. :sad: I never had such interesting, experimental aunts, and my grandmothers were either too old, infirm, deceased, or living in Florida. I missed out on a lot of fun, no doubt about it – if only a curious relative (or a babysitter) had dressed me up at some point. Bliss! But, that is with a fair share of hindsight – I really don’t know how I would’ve reacted to such a curious enterprise. The idea of putting on girl’s clothes may not have occurred to me at the time – there was nothing even remotely near my size lying about, for one thing, and the notion of skipping across lines of gender for pleasure was beyond the capacity of my young mind. However, if the mature helpmate had been trustworthy, nurturing, gentle, and reassuring, an indelible childhood memory would have been burned into my consciousness. I was caught trying on makeup and lipstick at a very young age, so I definitely had the aptitude for further effeminacy and/or experimentation. If an older woman (or even my older sister) had talked me into dressing up as a girl, I would like to think I would’ve enjoyed the experience, but who knows? I keep having this fantasy of someone dressing me up, and then saying something like, “Oh, you look so adorable,” or “You make such a pretty little girl,” I would’ve been speechless. Did I want to be adorable and pretty at the age in question? I was just learning about my true nature, so, if anything, this fantastic exercise would have accelerated the process of transformation (I hope). I was just beginning to learn about the possibilities of life, you know. There are so many things I wished I had done (or experienced) when I was young, and this is definitely one of them…

[Mirani]

No,


I only asked for yes or no lol ;)

[Frédérique]

I only asked for yes or no lol

I couldn't help myself, darling! I got carried away, and I should be (soon)...:heehee:

[Tranny Tee]

I was never frced into women's clothing, it is something I wanted to do.

[Pythos]

I was also one of the one's that had no such luck.

When in middle school I recall asking my mother if I could be part of the fad that was hitting my school of guys dressing up as girls. My mother adamantly refused. The vitriol in her answer was quite astounding now that I recall.

I was the only boy that year that was not dressed up for halloween, and a majority of the boys were indeed looking girly. :)

[Tina B.]

Thats in a suit and tie, on Sundays, he also made me wear shoes after labor day, but that's another story.
He did see me dressed once when I was around 7 or 8, but then he made me change and threatened me, if he ever found me dressed like that again. He never did see me dressed again.
Tina B.

[bettysmith]

My mother wanted a girl , and I can remember vividly hearing her saying so . I have a pic somewhere of me dressed in a frilly dress !!!
No wonder I was confused as a child ?

[kimdl93]

no - not aunties or grans....a sister's things

[Lorileah]

No, my aunts had frumpy taste in clothes and My grandmother didn't even use me as a dress dummy when she sewed.

[cdterri]

Borrowed a bra from grams hamper and she noticed.She told my parents, I denied it but since I had been caught several times lies were in vain. Parents told grandma my situation and she never let me out of her sight again. actually frisked me on several occasions.

SO THE ANSWER IS NO!!!!

[Toni_Lynn]

In the words of Jim Trot from Vicar of Dibley --- No, no, no, no, no, no one ever dressed me as a girl when I was a kid, and I so longed for that to happen.

Huggles

Toni-Lynn

[Mirani]

In the words of Jim Trot from Vicar of Dibley --- No, no, no, no, no, no one ever dressed me as a girl when I was a kid, Toni-Lynn

Surely that's Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, --- NO! ;)

[Taylor186]

No,

[t-girlxsophie]

Nope,Never happened to me.I did wear my Aunts clothes (she was in her twenties) when I stayed at My Grans house at weekends,but never got caught and made to dress,mores the pity lol

[SherriePall]

No.

But allow me to digress. Remember the show when Jim was telling about his time on "Deal or No Deal" and he was down to two cases -- one with a quarter million pounds and the other holding 10 pence. And the banker offered him 100,000 pounds. And Jim answered, "No, no,no,no, no deal." So he lost the banker's offer and wound up with 10 pence.

[VanessaVW]

Yes, it's how I got started.