Came out to my Best Friend Today

[KatieLynn]

Here's the backstory. My wife and I are going through some tough times and are considering separating so I can figure out what I need (from a CDing perspective) and she can decide if she can continue to live with me if I need to dress on a regular basis. She has always known about this side of me but was never really comfortable with it. I have been trying to convince myself that I don't need to dress and that I can live my life without it, but making myself feel guilty about my feelings and bottling it up inside me has caused me to get an Ulcer and made me a big ball of stress at home and at work. So, after much thought and careful consideration, my wife convinced me that I should open up and tell my best friend about our situation and my dressing. The reason for this was so I would have someone to open up to and help me get through the difficult times that the separation is sure to bring. As difficult as this was to do, I felt so much better about myself and more comfortable admitting that I am a CrossDresser and not feeling like I have to hide it from the world. This was a HUGE step for me and my friend was totally great about it, and said that it doesn't change anything between us. What a relief. Sorry for the rambling but I just had to tell someone :battingeyelashes:.

[BobbiU]

Sorry to hear that things are not working out with the wife, however, seems like she gave you some excellent advice, and also, great to know you have a real friend there. They're the ones that are there when you need them, and sounds like your friend is there for you. Good Luck.

By the way, No need to apologize for rambling. You really weren't, and even if you were, We're all here to listen to each other, and support each other. Ramble on as much as you'd like. You need to get it off you chest, and receive input from friends, and we're all here to listen.

[Inna]

How sweet the smell of Freedom! Even though obstacles are on the way when you travel light the journey is easier and less stressful. Congrats on releasing all that was bottled in, I know for I have just done the same. Sorry to hear about your wife taking step back but yes, it isn't easy to those close to you who must adjust as much as you do to a new horizons. Stay true, stay strong, stay You!

[Lexine]

While it's unfortunate that you both are considering separation, it's nice that she gave you some great advice and that your best friend took it real well. Sometimes when the chips are down you truly really get to know who your real friends are. :)

[Tracii G]

I hope everything works out for the both of you in a positive way of course.

[KatieLynn]

Thanks everyone for your support and well wishes :battingeyelashes:.

[AKAMichelle]

It really helps to tell others especially when they accept us still. I hope you and your wife are able to work things out. Maybe a little time apart will do both of you some good. Good Luck.