lead,follow or just get out of the way

[Danni Bear]

LEAD, FOLLOW, or JUST GET THE HELL OUT of the WAY

How often does that thought or similar ones go through our heads in our male persona. Or am I the only one that does?

1.Does it only happen then?

2.Could we be unconsiencely doing it when in female persona?

3.Could that be behind a S.O.'s discomfort with your crossdressing?

4.Do S.O.'s find themselves in that same place?

I wish that I knew the answers. It might make our lives easier if we did.

Danni

[eluuzion]

That one is analogous with

"You are either part of the solution, or part of the problem".

I am big on "quotes" "sayings" etc. as most say alot in just a few words. Kinda like a mental zip file...lol

Some are always close to the top of the mental list in my head.

When doing business, I repeat this in my head..
"Is what I am doing right now, the best possible action I could be doing to make money?"

The closest version to what you posted would be...

"Somebody always has to be the leader". This is a constant thought in many things I do daily...particularly when dealing with people." (in most cases that "somebody" that steps up is Me).

:love:

[Kate Simmons]

That is all the more so for me as Denise than it is as Rich. Rich is easy going but Denise has little time for people who are wishy-washy.:)