View Full Version : Your most novel activities or places - en femme?
Stefia S
08-14-2010, 10:11 AM
Shopping, clubbing, dining, going to shows are great fun and thrill to do en femme. I'm looking to expand my options, so I thought I'd tap into the wonderful creativity expressed in our community.
What novel activities have you done or places you've gone to en femme? What about activities or places you wish to do or go en femme?
kimdl93
08-14-2010, 10:31 AM
I'm still pretty limited outside our home and back yard, so I have no "novel" places to report. But as far as dreams, aspirations or fantasy outings, I'd like to spend a week on the beach in Mexico en femme....
ArleneRaquel
08-14-2010, 10:45 AM
I love to sun bathe at North Avenue Beach while enfemme. Its a great way to meet people. :)
AKAMichelle
08-14-2010, 11:01 AM
One of the activities that I want to do so much, is to summit Pikes Peak while dressed. I haven't been able to summit the mountain in male mode yet. I will get there but it may take awhile. I have gotten to about 2000 feet below the summit and had to turn around.
One of the other events would be skydive. This will be a long time from now. Maybe when I am as old the First President Bush (86).
One of the items on my bucket list to do while dressed is to go to a Broncos or Avs game while dressed. Some of ya'll have done that but not me. The other would be like ReneeT and go to a concert while dressed. I am a long way from those dreams coming true, but a girl can still dream.
AllieSF
08-14-2010, 02:27 PM
Oh yes, there are so many great things to do while dressed. I love museums, art shows/openings and live theater. I just recently played tennis en femme with WindyCissy and also went to the hotel swimming pool and hot tub with her, all firsts, with golf on our agenda next. I walked both ways across the Golden Gate Bridge here in San Francisco. On my Bucket List is to travel by air and train en femme and go to the opera and symphony. As I look at what I do in male mode, I continually find something else to do while dressed from everyday casual dress activities to something more formal or hot. As Nike says, "Just do it!"
CallMeMeg
08-14-2010, 02:33 PM
Flying.
I'd like to go to work dressed. I did it on H'ween last year. I'd love to do it on the day I tell my boss I QUIT!
Billijo49504
08-14-2010, 03:24 PM
I go shopping, for clothes and groceries, I got a makeover the other day. Went out to dinner with my wife. But the strangest thing I ever did dressed,was changing a flat tire in a skirt.And some guy stopped just as I was getting done. Just my luck. The skirt was ruined...BJ:tongueout
lisalove
08-14-2010, 03:25 PM
Well I've worn denim capris, a cami top and sandles to a truck pull/ monster truck show at the local fair grounds.
phoebe61
08-14-2010, 03:52 PM
Iv'e being on a bus n tram while dressed n my next plan is to go to a musuem
while dressed in manchester uk :hugs:
VickyMI
08-14-2010, 04:57 PM
Yes I feel the same way I get bored going to the mall all the time. So some of my other adventures have been:
Movies
Lunch, Dinner out
LPGA event
Hiking
Biking
working on my laptop at coffee shops
Any other ideas?
kayegirl
08-14-2010, 04:58 PM
Went full en femme, on a day drive with one of the classic car clubs that I am a member of. It was my first time out with this club, and if anybody noticed nothing was said. I should say that although the car is nothing special (a Mazda MX5), it does have a very distinctive number plate, and is well known in the club through a previous owner.
windycissy
08-14-2010, 05:03 PM
Like Allie says, we played tennis and soaked in the hot tub as girls this week, so fun...the next morning I saw a cute girl riding a bike in a skirt and I said to myself, "Next!"
Glenda58
08-14-2010, 06:11 PM
I use to do everything dressed just last week when the wife was gone I took the dog for a walk in park ended going about 4 miles. Going transgender meetings and find out where others go. Go to the bench the zoo anywhere your heart desires.
Wake up in the morning stumble half a sleep into the bathroom look into mirror with eyes half open and see her reflection, but that remains a wish for now.
randumbness
08-14-2010, 06:28 PM
CLUBBING! I LOVE IT! I would love clubbing more en femme if it were women that danced with me. Which is why I go with my roommates and their female friends that know my secret. Which is only two of them. I wouldn't feel safe at a club without them. But in any case, again, it was only guys that danced with me, and made me uncomfortable. Even in that gay club, I didn't have the courage to find a girl to dance with other than with my friends. My male side has trouble talking to girls too. :o
I have driven dressed and loved it, though I'd love my own female pair of shades. It was at night though.
There's this awesome place here called Turtle Rock, and you can see the view for miles around. I've gone there once or twice en femme with my roomies and their female friends. If anything, I go out with that group a lot, and a few times en femme. xD
I'd love to watch a romantic comedy (though I only like girls, I have a strange hopeless romantic side) in a movie theater en femme with a date that was okay with it.
t-girlxsophie
08-14-2010, 06:53 PM
Had the opportunity to take part in Transgender Charity fashion show a few years back,was one of the highlights of my CDing life,had chance to strut my stuff down the catwalk in different outfits,best moment was when i was blushing bride complete with "groom" in £1000 Ivory Wedding gown and diamond encrusted Tiara (shame had to give it back:()
I also went shopping in Debenhams a large department store in Glasgow,where I visited their Personal shopper where they treated me like just any other female,had them choose outfits for me to try on in store,they were very nice.,chatting away etc and I was lucky enough to buy a cpl outfits,I would recommend this to anyone,a wonderful experience
HUGS Sophie xx
StaceyJane
08-14-2010, 06:59 PM
Let's see
I've ridden an Amtrak Train several times
Took the stadium tour at Cowboys Stadium, even got my picture taken on the Cowboy's star in the middle of the field
I went to a Cowboys training camp practice.
I toured the Texas State Capitol building.
Visited my old school Baylor University and got pics of me at various location around campus.
Oddlee
08-15-2010, 02:10 AM
I'm fairly well known there as a male photographer, but would be absolutely delighted to go there en femme sometime (even without a camera). But going to the Japanese Garden without a camera is unthinkable to me (worse than men wearing women's clothes, teehee).
BTW, it's been a while since I've visited this forum and I have to say it's great to see familiar and new faces. Kimberly TX, your post continue to delight, and Denise Rhodes your thoughtful posts remain on-target for issues we face daily. Thanks to all here who have contributed to my self-acceptance. Amusingly, I was at a high school reunion recently, ended up talking to a guy who said he'd recently come out of the closet and divorced his wife. I took it as a hit (I was in male mode), and said, "self-acceptance is difficult to achieve, congratulations.")
Thanks, again, to this forum for the many positive examples of integrated lives.
Lee
Shelly Preston
08-15-2010, 02:54 AM
I attended the A & E department of a hospital
(I chose to go as a female )
Imogen_Mann
08-15-2010, 03:46 AM
Nothing amazing to report here. I;ve been in the A&E department with pink toenails, which Helen and me thought was pretty funny, and took my mind off my actual reasons for being there.
I've done the somewhat 'Ed Wood' style of heavy manly work (shunting and coupling locomotives at 3am in the snow, rain and howling gales) in overalls and lingerie... There's no other way I could have faced that particular career.
As for fully dressed.... Nothing to report. I really should get out there and find something remarkable to do.
eluuzion
08-15-2010, 04:16 AM
One of the activities that I want to do so much, is to summit Pikes Peak while dressed. I haven't been able to summit the mountain in male mode yet. I will get there but it may take awhile. I have gotten to about 2000 feet below the summit and had to turn around.
One of the other events would be skydive. This will be a long time from now. Maybe when I am as old the First President Bush (86).
One of the items on my bucket list to do while dressed is to go to a Broncos or Avs game while dressed. Some of ya'll have done that but not me. The other would be like ReneeT and go to a concert while dressed. I am a long way from those dreams coming true, but a girl can still dream.
hiya M,
Re: Pikes Peak. Hey, nothing up on the summit but wind and crummy concession stand anyway, lol. You could just dress and drive up, but it takes 5 yrs off your transmission. Better yet, dress and go to the Pikes Peak Hillclimb! You could be the first CD to get run over on a rocky turn by Unser or Billy! I used to live in a house (Cascade) directly across from entrance to Pikes Peak. I could see the ferris wheel out my picture window...!
There is a cool indoor sky diving place by ParkMeadows (wind tunnel) where you "ride" the air.
You could go dressed to one of the practices over by Bronco Hdqtrs by Centennial Airport...I went to both places today...!
:love:
Oh, forgot to answer question...lol....
I once went downtown Denver in CD disguise to verify my ex was running around with another guy during the day. Her office is right by state capital. That was a rush...I was right by the way...
E
DeeInGeorgia
08-15-2010, 08:17 AM
The company I work for has a very active Leadership Association that puts on several somewhat formal dinners a year. I am also an officer at the company PRIDE Affinity/Employee Resource Group (the lone T). The company president is active in attending these type of dinner functions.
I want to attend one of these dinners enfemme. The Veterans Day dinner is my dinner of choice. I hope I can do it.
Deanna
Michael 54
08-15-2010, 09:08 AM
Drove all the way home from FL to Ia dressed with my lovely wife.
maturegirlrobin
08-15-2010, 09:21 AM
All the ideas are so good ! Let me toss in another one. Depending where you live - near a college campus or historic town or something like that I would recommend a walking tour in femme. Wear reasonable shoes and on't overdress - in other words don't bring too much added attention to yourself Unless that is what you want. You don't have to talk if you don't want too. I just kind of linger in the background with a gurlfriend. Went to Princeton University yesterday for a walking tour. Really fun and educational and very liberating !
Huggs, Robin
Sometimes Steffi
08-15-2010, 10:21 AM
Maryland Renaissance Festival. I rented a wench costume. I guess you could say that it was my first time out.
LeannL
08-15-2010, 06:27 PM
I don't quite know what would be considered novel: novel for a women to be doing something?; a man?; or a man dressed as a women? Well some of the things I have done while dressed include:
Visited two different Presidential libraries dressed (Ford and Kennedy)
Gone to the symphony several times
Gone to church numerous times
Flown several times
Taken guided tours at several museums as well as just visiting other museums
Visited a crafts expo
Checked into and out of hotels
I've celebated three New years at regular New years eve parties. Was great fun. Some knew right away that I was a cd. Others didn't. The rest did not care.
Several years ago, a cd friend and I spent a week on vacation at Geneva-on-the- Lake in Ohio. We stayed in a B & B.
Jodi
Stefia S
08-18-2010, 12:23 AM
There's some great nuggets here! The spirit of some of these ideas inspired me to seek out some participatory activity, perhaps gambling at casino tables, poetry readings, book discussions, cooking or craft classes, etc.
AmiFL
08-18-2010, 11:45 AM
A million years ago in holloween night I went to a wedding rehearsal in a dress. My then girlfriend was dressed as a female vampire. I committed myself to going out on holloween en femme, then the rehearsal came up. It was alot of fun actually and the bride and groom and their family were cool with it. The bridesmaids even complained that I had nicer legs than some of them.
tanyalynn51
08-18-2010, 11:57 AM
Gee, Im definitely on the fantasy side, although I have done a couple of things that proved ridiculously embarrassing- I went to take the trash out once very late at night to the dumpster at my apartments- I had on a skirt, pantyhose, blouse, bra, but no makeup. Heard another door right nearby opening as I closed mine when I got back in. Also, during fall, I was out and about wearing a blouse and bra underneath a jacket, and pantyhose and panties under my jeans. I went to see a movie, and thought it would be dark enough to hide what I had on if I took off my jacket. Unfortunately, it filled up, and I managed to get my jacket on before anyone noticed. I guess fantasy would be to go somewhere, maybe on one of those "days" I keep reading about with other girls, and not even be noticed. Shopping and a show in NYC.
Gerrijerry
08-18-2010, 11:58 AM
How about going to sit for a TV show and watch it being produced. You know they do show the people once in a while.
carrie-ann
08-18-2010, 12:07 PM
I'm 247 but the one Thing I never done was stand in front of my side of my family dressed enfem.
ArleneRaquel
08-18-2010, 01:32 PM
Is visiting a bank enfemme novel ? I do it all the time, in fact just today I withdrew cash and ordered new checks. :battingeyelashes:
jjjjohanne
08-20-2010, 06:19 AM
I normally just wear womens' clothes as a man. Normally, shorts and hose. Sometimes 100% womens' clothes, sometimes mixed.
I have gone to a bank, gotten a haircut (a few times), walked the malls, grocery shopping, Christmas shopping (twice), long road trips, airline trip (in 100% womens wear including slacks, hose and wide clunky androgenous heels). I have gone out a few times in a skirt and blouse as a man, but that is stressful! I think I would like to wear hose and go to a race for a cure event. Of course, I have walked around in a hotel on a business trip (like any of us who ever go on business trips hasn't!)
Violetgray
08-20-2010, 07:52 AM
I've said before, but I do Live action roleplay (L.A.R.P.) with the group Darkon.
http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?t=100880
VickysBFF
08-20-2010, 01:01 PM
How about going to sit for a TV show and watch it being produced. You know they do show the people once in a while.
I just did this a few days ago but it was a sitcom where the audience is not shown.
marian
08-20-2010, 01:15 PM
I have stay at home or within the Hotel room while dressed, so far. But one of my dreams or fantasy is going to a club and dance the whole night while being observed and desired!
Toni_Lynn
08-20-2010, 05:39 PM
It was the latter half of the 1970s. A Sunday afternoon at a small town radio station -- 500 watts of power. I sit at the console, open the mike and say "Its 5 o'clock with Toni on Top of the Rock and here's the Barbarians with Are You a Girl or Are You A Boy".
Little did the audience know that I was sitting there in a blouse, denim skirt, bra and panties......
Huggles
Toni-Lynn
Joyce1702
08-20-2010, 09:38 PM
In additon to the usual shopping, dining out, movies, art galleries, etc., lately I've gone "graving" several times while dressed. I'm into genealogy and enjoy prowling cemeteries looking for the graves of my ancestors. Sometmies the cemetiers are surprisingly busy.
Everything is more fun as a girl.
Joyce
denisecdfl
08-20-2010, 11:14 PM
My first Glamour Boutique Halloween party in Vegas was 2 years ago.
About 60 people walked the red carpet into the club while the paparazzi
snapped their photos. We were all dressed as our favorite movie star going to the Glammy Awards. It was a sight to behold. I was Mae West in my short red dress, red stockings, shoes and gloves, large red hat, and 40's curl wig.
I won one of the grand prizes.
I had such a great time that I returned last Halloween to join nearly 100 Ladies in Red, wearing a red feather wig. I'll be back this year for the Pretty in Pink theme. I've got a large pink wig and an outrageous pink costume to
match, and will also wear it in public the next night on Halloween. That will probably be worth a thread and photos. I'm also going out dressed to the Frank Marino impersonators show.
Debra Russell
08-24-2010, 01:43 PM
I can only relate a few of the most fun feeling things that I have done going out fully dressed. all were fantastic!
A day trip to the zoo
A trip to OMSI
A trip to the coast
And a day among people at a local festival where I was well known but they dident have a clue!
Heisthebride
08-24-2010, 03:27 PM
I just did this and it was great. Search your nearest metro for a burlesque show, check out their website and see if they have classes. My wife bought me a six lesson package that ended with a recital. I didn't go to class en femme except where needed. For example, heels were recommended, one class required a bra, another required stockings. For the recital we had a dress rehearsal and the show with everyone in costume. I did dress en femme for both with hair and makeup for the show. The show had about 20 people in the audience. The rest of the class was a little skeptical at first, why would a guy be in the class, but once they saw I was there to learn and have fun they were totally cool with me in the show en femme. As a bonus to wearing your girlie things in public, you get to hang out with a group of fun and sexy ladies in their frillies too. Highly recommended.
Stefia S
08-24-2010, 05:01 PM
Wow Rebecca! The class sounds like it was fun, useful and liberating. Your taking it is inspiring too. What a great idea!
Joyce1702
08-24-2010, 05:26 PM
Not necessarily novel, but something I did a few weeks ago was visit all the historic sites up and down the Mohawk Valley in upsate NY. I had been wanting to do this and photograph the various sites for some time.
It turned out that I had the opportunity to do it in girl mode and that was much more fun.
Joyce
Annaliese2010
08-24-2010, 06:40 PM
Lady GaGa concert. Oh what fun! So many mutually accepting and light spirited alt ppl throng to see her. She's such a champion for the cause. Felt right at home. The bi/lezzie GG's were awesomely dressed & effin sexy. Woohoo!
Tranny Tee
08-25-2010, 02:35 AM
I wore my pink petticoat and a pink top as I washed windshields of cars leaving the Burning Man Festival.
AKAMichelle
08-25-2010, 08:10 AM
There is a cool indoor sky diving place by ParkMeadows (wind tunnel) where you "ride" the air.
You could go dressed to one of the practices over by Bronco Hdqtrs by Centennial Airport...I went to both places today...!
I have wanted to go to the indoor sky diving place for sometime now. Sounds like a lot of fun. I didn't know where the Broncos practiced but may have to add to the list before the weather gets bad.
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