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Jay Cee
08-18-2010, 06:34 AM
I feel like I have stalled in my crossdressing. I realize it isn't a race, but I also feel like I should be going further with it. Kind of like my brain saying "whoa there, missy. That's as far as you are going." I've wore a bra and panties under my clothing a few times, a nightie to bed all the time, and usually dress when making love to my gf.

Anybody else get that feeling?

Freddy12
08-18-2010, 06:41 AM
I think it's normal to get to a plateau for a while. I know that has happened for me several times. but then that passes and I go further. Reading in this forum has helped me go further. Don't be concerned, just do what works for you. Stop or pause whereever you wamt.

CallMeMeg
08-18-2010, 08:07 AM
Maybe it's not a "stall". Maybe that's where you're meant to be. Do what's comfortable and right for you.

kimdl93
08-18-2010, 08:14 AM
If its comfortable, why worry. As Freddy said, it could be a plateau...or as Meg said, you might be where you were meant to be... Either way, enjoy who you are.

Vicki-Z
08-18-2010, 11:37 AM
I agree with Meg maybe you have reached the level of dressing that you feel comfortable with.

Vicki :hugs:

CamilleLeon
08-18-2010, 11:43 AM
Like others have said, don't push it if you don't want to. If you're happy doing what you're doing, why fix what isn't broken?

carhill2mn
08-18-2010, 05:17 PM
Why do you feel like you should be "going further with it"? Why not just do what ever feels right to you at the time?

lacie
08-18-2010, 05:46 PM
Just go with the flow and see what happens. You'll be fine with the outcome.

carrie-ann
08-18-2010, 05:50 PM
I stalled when I went 247. Love it.

tricia_uktv
08-18-2010, 06:04 PM
It depends where you are and where you want to be. Would be good to have a piccy of your face though :)

Jay Cee
08-18-2010, 09:41 PM
It depends where you are and where you want to be. Would be good to have a piccy of your face though :)

Not quite courageous enough to post that yet, tricia. When I can get myself looking half decent... maybe then.