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Angel1
08-19-2010, 05:46 AM
Hi everyone,

Just a quick update on what ive been up to.
Firstly the big news is that I am now living as a female full time.
So much can change in the space of 6 weeks! Just 6 weeks ago I was still living most of my daytime life as a guy and only going out for the night female. Now almost everyone I know is aware of Jess and I have had 100% support which is amazing.
I still have my old guy clothes but Im gradually starting to replace everything. Ive actually spent so much in the last 6 weeks (not including the boob job).

Shopping has been great fun actually. Shoe shopping is still my favorite but second to that is now underwear. Its amazing how different bra's can make your breasts look. Some look just incredable on the hangar, then I take them to the changing room and find they do nothing, so ive learnt to take about 5 at a time hehe.

Ive now started looking for a job and I have a few interviews lined up for the next 2 weeks. Im already nervous what questions they might ask. Perhaps if I show a bit of cleavage It might give me a better chance. Providing there are no women on the interview panel!

Anyway, ill update again later cos theres so much more to talk about.

Jess xx

bethw
08-19-2010, 06:11 AM
That's great Jess. I'm so glad things are going well. Have a beautiful life.
Hugs
Beth

Jay Cee
08-19-2010, 06:20 AM
A very exciting time. Wishing you great success in all your endeavours.

Jennifer Marie P.
08-19-2010, 07:55 AM
Welcome to your journey and everything will go great as it did for me.

Melody Moore
08-19-2010, 08:44 AM
Hi Angel

Good to hear things are going well for you. Like you Im just transitioning as well to living fulltime as a female. You soon realise that being a woman take a bit more than just putting on a dress... clothes & shoes is one thingby then there is make-up, jewellery, not to mention the female speech therapy & mannerisms you have to also learn to really have the smoothest of transitions and it all cost a lot of money, so I know exactly where you are coming from.

I'm also in the processes of changing my name on my documentation. Im not working right now, so its a good time for me to make the change then apply for a new job as a female. Its just a pity I dont quite have a cleavage like yours to show off, well not yet anyway, so I guess I will just have to rely on my smile.

I wouldn't worry too much about women on the interview panel, you might find they're also interested to see your cleavage if they also know youre a trans-female, lets just hope you dont make them too jealous, or then youve got no chance. LOL

Traci Elizabeth
08-19-2010, 09:47 AM
I am sure the "newness" of your breasts will last a long time. Have as much fun as you desire with them.

Keep us posted on your job search & good luck.

One thought to consider is that male or female job interviewers tend not to be too welcoming of "cleavage" in a job interview despite what one might think.

Melody Moore
08-19-2010, 11:50 AM
One thought to consider is that male or female job interviewers tend not to be too welcoming of "cleavage" in a job interview despite what one might think.
Depends on what type of job Angel is after, I could think over quite a few occupations where it would work in you favour to show off your cleavage, right at the top of the list is job as a 'topless waitress' & as they say "Put your bet assets forward" LOL

Teri Jean
08-19-2010, 12:32 PM
Hi Angel, I wish you the best and the clothes will be replaced in time. Have fun with the new looks.

Victoria Anne
08-19-2010, 04:28 PM
Hello Angel , I am happy for you and wish you the best of luck in your job interviews I would however suggest that you just be yourself , you are your own best asset. Good luck.

Rianna Humble
08-19-2010, 07:12 PM
If your last 6 weeks have been anything like mine, you've had an amazing time. Congratulations on making those first steps. :hugs:

I work with a load of blokes and they just can't understand what we see in shopping. Of course, guys can get away with so much less than we need, but then they don't mind looking drab. Do you get to compare notes with other girls - I really enjoy that part too!

I'm glad that you have had a lot of support - it does make the whole thing so much easier. I bet you've even had support from some unexpected quarters.

Good luck with the job hunting - I don't think I'd have the courage for that this early in my transition.

Billijo49504
08-19-2010, 07:31 PM
WOW!!! That is fantastic. I'm really happy for you. All the best...BJ