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rata
08-20-2010, 08:36 PM
Today i came out to my best friend ,shes a woman and we are just friends. Anyway last week i dropped a few hints and showed her my pierced ears and had usual chat . This morning we were meeting up and she text me to bring my latest clothing catalouge that we both get and i said the other day i get it because she wanted to show me a dress she liked. So that made me get up the courage and i wore my earrings which i usually dont wear outside which she loved when she saw them for the first time as i didnt have them in the other day. While looking at the catalouge I showed her a picture of a dress i ordered last night and she asked did i buy it for my mom and i said no me, she thought that was cool and it explained alot too. We talked a bit more as we share lots of personal things but this was my biggest secret , Now she wants me too dress up with her and go out on the town as my female self. She said im her only male friend except her husband the rest of her friends are girls now she knows why we get along so well as we both like talking about girly stuff.

maverick.saxena
08-20-2010, 09:27 PM
Wow thaz so great!!!! You feel so happy when you share it with them and they accept it. You are relieved I the burden to hide from her ... Have fun galz!!! :)

abigail43
08-20-2010, 09:41 PM
Yes well done Rata now you can be your total self with your friend and you never know going on a girly night might be fun and educational go gurl

Kathi Lake
08-20-2010, 09:44 PM
Rata, that's wonderful news! However, be sure not to "push it." Go at her pace. Just like coming out to a spouse, take it slooooooooow. Talk often. Laugh and have fun with it even more often.

Kathi