can you

[lori m crawford]

can you ever be one a hole person being a cd-ts an hid it to you or oney body an be happy with you or to them as you seems like a lie to you an them you are not you but wat they wont you to be so who are you in you what you wont or you a 2 world person live 2 lives have you ever said i cant do this no morean come to all at one time ?:love:

[renee k]

If I think it's what you meant. Are you happy or not being or living as two people? My answer is I'm happy being who I am? I'm really not two people. I'm different things to different people and Renee is just an extention of my personality. Though I love the female things she brings to my life. I love what the male side of my life contributed to soceity as well.

Renee

[Maryesther M.]

Lori, I'm not quite with you, I'm afraid, but I think all of us crossdressers live two lives, one hidden from the other.

As a bloke I live with my wife and have family and grandchildren coming in & out all the time. I still work at my beloved profession and I am well known in our community. We socialise a lot as a couple with other couples and take part in a great range of activities.

As a CD-er I'm always alone and visiting my own private fantasy world, where I am narcisistic and admire myself in the mirror & photograph myself dressed as a girl. Maryesther emerges only occasionally now, as she needs time to make-up, don clothes, arrange poses and locations for photographs, get the make-up off and return everything to the storage boxes until the 'next time', when no family are around.

My secret!

[Tina B.]

Lori, yes I do feel like a whole person. I have always been honest with my wife, I have never felt dishonest with the rest of the world, I don't feel I owe them an explanation of who and what I am, being a cross dresser is just one of the things I don't feel the need to share with everyone. When I meet people I don't introduce myself as a cross dressing, hard drinking, pot smoking, left wing atheists radical, I just don't see the need. If I'm not wearing your clothes, drinking your booze, or smoking your dope, why should I tell you every little flaw I have, I certainly don't want to hear all of your fl awes. so we visit, and share that, that we have in common, then return home to do what we do that we don't share with everyone in the world, and I feel no worst for it.
Tina B.