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[amander-]

:):)Hi can some one help me i a way to tell my mum that i am a crossdresser . When i speek too hr i speek as a woman but she see me as a man. So can sumone tell me the way that i can ge her to exsept me as a crossdresser. thenk you.

to ad on to theis my mum and i had a chat and she sed she will go out shoping with me and that made me so happey that she wood and i hop she will acsept me as a crossdresser and i have got up to go out dressed as a woman and no one look at me and i fill beter that i can go out.:):)

[DonnaT]

No one can tell you how to get her to accept your being a CD. All you can do is hope she does.

As for telling, have a sit down talk with her.

When I told my mom, it was after she'd seen a picture.

[KandisTX]

The only one who can tell her is YOU. You are the only one who can guage what her reaction MIGHT be. Simply talk to her and tell her if you feel that her reaction will be one of acceptance. HOWEVER, I would advise against telling her that you "speak as a woman", that is NOT the case, regardless of what we may think, we are crossdressers, which means we are men who dress in the clothing intended for the opposite gender. Now, if you feel you are a woman trapped in a mans body, then you are a transsexual, and not "just" a crossdresser. You should honestly come to terms with which side of the gender dysphoria aisle you fall on before you try to come out to others. That is what will help you determine HOW you should come out to them.

Kandis:love::rose2:

[kimdl93]

Try reading up on this - how to tell your SO. In this case, its your mother, but many of the questions and concerns will apply.

http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?t=13841

[amander-]

think you i will let you no the way i go with it and it may tack soom time do it i will have to find the right time to tark to my mum.

[docrobbysherry]

In time, the mountains will turn to dust! In time, the Earth will cease to exist! In time, the universe itself may disappear!:brolleyes:

In TIME, your mom WILL accept your dressing!:thumbsup:

By patient, Grasshopper! In time, you'll laugh about this!:heehee: