real or forms

[Michelle 51]

I've owned a set of 44ddd forms for a couple of years and i love them dearly but as i've aged and have always had a big chest i can make a set of 44c without too much trouble.I've been taking proscar for 6 months and i think they are fuller but my wife says thats just wishfull thinking on my part but what i'm getting at is even though they are quite a bit smaller then wearing forms i feel way more femme with smaller but real than big and gel.How do you girls that work what you have into something presentable feel.

[sandra-leigh]

Earlier this year, due to a hormone burst, my bust temporarily increased from AA to 36B (and mostly shrank again afterwards). While it lasted, I wore tighter fitting clothes, and at most my smallest forms ("add a cup" enhancers), looked through my plunge tops -- sure they were quite small compared to my 40G forms, but they were mine, and I was stupendously happy and wanted them to be noticed (including at work).

In some ways, it was harder to go natural. I've walked down the street in broad daylight wearing a dress and my 40G forms and my guy face with no problems and no stares at all, but walking down the street in neutral clothes and my 36B I felt self-conscious all over again. "What if they notice?" "What if they don't notice!?"

You walk in public with big boobs due to forms and Sure, people see, and Yes, some of them might well not just read but recognize you, and it looks great and it feels good.... but inside you also know that when you go home you can take them off. You've visited boob-dom and had a heck of a time, but inside you know you don't live there. But walk in public with your natural bust made manifest, and you know inside yourself that you don't have any answer to those taunts of "Freak!" that you always sort-of-expect to hear.

A decision like this will need to be made from day to day, but when you make it you need to ask yourself, "What if someone I know sees me and comes up to me and says, 'Jake? You have tits???', then do I want my answer to be 'Hah, no, I'm just having a bit of costume fun, they are fake!', or do I want my answer to be 'Heh, not really, I just pushed some flab around for a bit of fun!', or do I want my answer to be 'Yes, I do.' ?" And if you are headed into a situation (e.g., local mall) where you'd feel more comfortable having the "costume" excuse handy, wear forms, but if feeling naturally feminine is more important, don't wear forms.

[neworleanssusan]

It's helpful to remember that RARE is the g/g who doesn't use SOME sort of extra padding in that area -- particularly as she gets older.

If I were you, I'd be w-a-a-a-a-a-y more interested in a bra that helps me use what I have to create some cleavage, and let the padding or forms do the rest. One great recommendation is the Maidenform Ultimate Push-Up Bra (their #9359). It's available from Herroom.com but only up to 38's. It's marvelous for taking whatever you have and shoving it into your cleavage -- adds two cup sizes instantly.

[AKAMichelle]

It is always more feminine to have your own

[Kathryn Martin]

I totally agree. I don't like the D cup forms for my 40 bandlength (or should that be width:D) and prefer my lovely (at least from my view) AA boobies.