I am out for the first time

[Mikaela]

Let the record show I'm posting from club shine enfemme for my first time out.

Holy crap

[Carissa]

Way to go girl! I think I can speak for everyone when I say we're all so proud. Hope you're having a great time and can't wait for an update on how your evening went.

[lisalove]

All I have to ask is why aren't you out on the dance floor instead of posting a note lol? I for one am totally proud of you and I hope this is only a small stepping stone to what the future holds for you.

[Barbara Dugan]

super cool:thumbsup: we will wait for the pics:hugs:

[Stefia S]

Congratulations! I hope you ride the rush from going out and passing for a long while!

Honestly I was surprised to see this was your first time out - your picture in your avatar looks so good!

[t-girlxsophie]

get in there!,raise a glass to many more awesome times,hun :drink:

:hugs:Sophie xx

[JiveTurkeyOnRye]

Yaay congrats! Sorry I couldn't be there! Now get off the internet and go dance!

[Princess29]

congratulations

[prene]

Congratulations! I want to hear all the details.
Did you have fun?
HOw late were you out?
DId you meet anyone????

What were you wearing?
Heels boots???

Forms, corset, makeup????

[Mikaela]

It's almost 3am. I'm exhausted for having done nothing.

I guess some time this afternoon I was going to do it. Although she never said she was going to tonight, Lexi mentioned going on a Saturday. I decided I was going to try to do it tonight. I texted Lexi this afternoon a couple times, but didn't hear anything from her, which turned out to be a good thing because if she had said no she wasn't going to be there, I might not have done it.

I had ordered a nicer purse online today, but knew if this was going to happen, I'd need something tonight. I ran to Target this afternoon for liquid eyeliner, tape (for boobs and bits), and a small purse. When I got home, I did my nails (toes were already done), shaved again, and did my makeup. I was running behind since I was aiming for a 9:30 like Lexi and I did on Wednesday, but I did get out the door by 10.

The walk to the car was easy compared to last weekend.
And since I never drive it any more (I ride the motorcycle), I realized my car was less than a quarter tank, so I knew I'd need gas tonight. Crap! I decided to get gas next door to the club since there was more of a liklihood that it would be more 'normal' there.

At the gas station, a guy walked by, did a double take, and then said 'Hello beautiful'. I said "Hello and thank you back" but went back to my car. I can't take compliments as a guy, much less get hit on as a girl.

The parking was full, so I drove around and found a neighborhood to safely park in with a minimal walk. And then I went in.

After paying the cover, I got a rum and coke. The guy at the gas station came up to me and flirted with me more. I excused myself after buying the drink. I found a table in the center of the sitting area and had it to myself for a while.

At some point, some older woman (I think she was GG) wanted me to come sit with her, but I declined.

And then something weird happened. Other CDs/TGs started coming to me. Fresh Meat! Before long, I had a table full of girls chatting me up. I kept getting asked how often I'd been out? Who'd done my makeup? And when they found out it was Numero Uno and I'd done it myself, they were all about introducing me to everyone. I got a lot of compliments and several girls were surprised that I wasn't a TS. It seemed very surreal.

Suffice to say, I was made to feel very at ease by the community and it was awesome.

I almost got dragged on the dance floor, but declined that. (No dancing for me, Lisa and Ryan!)

For those worried about the 'theme nights', they play a very minor part. I saw no one dressed to the theme except the paid dancers.

The funny part was that of the table, most of us were pilots, too. Near the end of the night, I went up to wait in the pottie line with one of the girls, just for solidarity. :)

At closing, we all hung out outside for a few minutes and chatted. They really wanted me to promise to return. It was an easy promise to make.

So prene, to answer your questions:
1. Yes, I had fun.
2. Until closing, 2 am. I got home about 2:35
3. Yup, plenty of girls, but no one from here, I don't think.
4. I wore what I wore my first time down to the car. White and black dress, black shrug, but different heeled sandals. No corset. My boobs were taped and make-uped for shadow/highlight and I just have some rice-in-stockings for the boobage. Eyes were gold and purple.

I only got one pic with my cellphone there so it's crappy, but at least it's proof. And I just took some when I got home (so the makeup is 5 hours old and I'm tired). Here they are.

[Kathryn Martin]

What a fantastic head rush isn't it. You looked great!

Kathryn

[Lexine]

Girl, you were texting my OLD number! I changed it remember :)

Glad you had the courage to go out en femme. Next time, I'll be there!

[pernille d]

you looked great ,

we all know you did it as the excitement is all over your thread .the photo is not for proof its for you to look back at in a few years and remember that great day you had !!!

[Chari]

Congrats on your first time out! Great to hear you had a fun time too with some new friends! Now that you have made that first step - the urge to get out & about will only be stronger & more often. BTW, you look so cute in that darling outfit! Thanx for sharing.

[linnea]

Good for you, Meg. You look terrific, and it sounds as if you have had a great time! It will be more fun every new time.

[Jenny Doolittle]

Congrats, I can hear the excitement in your post!

[StaceyJane]

Yea!!!

[AKAMichelle]

Well it took you long enough, but you are there now. The joy that you feel now will last for some time. See you didn't need someone helping you through the door. You could do it yourself and now you have made a lot of new friends. There will be no putting you back into the closet now. You are beginning to experience life again. So enjoy.

P.S. I am so happy and proud of you. You go Girl! :D

[Sara Jessica]

Very fun story, and cute pictures (hmmm, seems we've seen that look before...and it's a winner!!!).

[antonia_bee]

I am so glad you had fun, you look amazing in your pics, I'm not surprised you got a lot of attention.

x

[carolinoakland]

Well isn't it nice to finally take a breath and just be happy? Carol

[maverick.saxena]

Wow thaz amazing way to go gal!!! Can see how excited you are.. Congrats too !!

[PretzelGirl]

Woo-hoo! Someone is free! Now you don't need coke in the trunk anymore. :heehee: Nice look in your pictures. No wonder they were fawning over you.

[Jay Cee]

I cannot wait for my first time to a club. I can only hope that I look 1/4 as good as you do.

[Mikaela]

Girl, you were texting my OLD number! I changed it remember :) Glad you had the courage to go out en femme. Next time, I'll be there!

Damn! I thought the new one was just a Google Voice redirect to the old one. Bugger, I'll change it in my mobile so there can be a next time. :)


Very fun story, and cute pictures (hmmm, seems we've seen that look before...and it's a winner!!!).

Yeah, I knew it worked and I was comfortable in it. I also boxed about half my girl clothes yesterday because they are too big. And most of the others are too casual for the club. That's probably my limited factor for next time. I have some jeans and skirts arriving tomorrow, though. Apparently I need to shop more - sigh <sarcasm>

And thanks everyone for the support and compliments.

[Brenda456]

Sounds wonderful. I only wish I looked that good!

[Jannette H]

Nutmeg,
Great name, isn't going out fun.
It's a riot out there isn't it

[Mikaela]

Nutmeg,
Great name, isn't going out fun.
It's a riot out there isn't it

Oh, Nutmeg was just a nonsense name I used when I wanted to be incognito because it had no meaning to anything about me. But yeah, I had a great time. The only nervousness I had was getting out the door.

[RebeccaLynne]

Really enjoyed reading your account of your first time out. Yeah, as to the cellphone pic, they always fall short...'cause they're mostly phones, and really poor cameras.

And if I might venture an opinion...I really like your second photo. Cute and whimsical...maybe update your avatar? Quite flattering, IMO.

You've officially become a member of the "Out and About" club...so you've leapfrogged me, 'cause I've only done it on Halloween...you're sooo much braver than me!

I'll be looking forward to the next installment of your escapades...and wouldn't dancing en femme be liberating? Afterall, you're free to express your fluidity of movement. Y'know, hips swaying, hands in the air, feelin' the music, no restrictions...

You're living the dream...keep it going ! :hugs:

[Mikaela]

Really enjoyed reading your account of your first time out. Yeah, as to the cellphone pic, they always fall short...'cause they're mostly phones, and really poor cameras.

And if I might venture an opinion...I really like your second photo. Cute and whimsical...maybe update your avatar? Quite flattering, IMO.

You've officially become a member of the "Out and About" club...so you've leapfrogged me, 'cause I've only done it on Halloween...you're sooo much braver than me!

I'll be looking forward to the next installment of your escapades...and wouldn't dancing en femme be liberating? Afterall, you're free to express your fluidity of movement. Y'know, hips swaying, hands in the air, feelin' the music, no restrictions...

You're living the dream...keep it going ! :hugs:

I hear you about the camera. No flash sucks on the older iphones, but I'm not going to bring my Canon 7D to the club.

That's sweet on the note about the picture, but the circles under my eyes would need serious clean up. I took about 30 pictures in that series, though. Maybe something is better.

And dancing? Not likely going to happen. It has always struck me as the most awkward looking thing. Or people are just bouncing. Besides, my awareness of popular music stopped in the 90s. And if it has autotune, no.. make me cry. I'd rather sing.

[carrie-ann]

Congratulation look how much fun you had. You look great to. Watch out it could get addictive lol.

[Fab Karen]

Eventually you'll move beyond the newbie dive to the big wide world, and there'll be no stopping you.

[Dee Baker]

You look awsome!

Soundsl like you had a great time. :)

Dee

[Jenna Stunned]

Wow, Just the other week you were just going to the car for some coke. Now look at you...... Out clubbin!!!!! Boy you sure dont waste anytime do you? Congratulations on your giant leap forward. Some how I get the feeling that outdoor excursions will be come a normality for you. :) Keep us updated.

Oh, And I like the pics. Even the phone one looks fine.

[kimdl93]

You look great and I'm gad you wre so well received. I bet you can't wait for the next night out!

[CamilleLeon]

Wow, sounds like you had a great time! That must've been quite a rush, and you looked great doing it. I want to hit up a club with Shannon some time when I'm either out to everyone or am living alone. Congrats on your debut!

[Starling]

You look really cute, Nutmeg. Congratulations on your debut!

:) Lallie

[GirlieAmanda]

Wow you did it again. This time for real. I am now jealous. Sounds like you had a complete experience and did your usual very good preparation. It pays off. It shows you are a serious girl. Watch out LA, Mikaela is loose!!

[AmiFL]

good for you..... and no one is the wiser.... as good as you look

[Tasha McIntyre]

Wow, I so love reading these type of posts. Congrats Mikaela, firstly for looking the part and secondly for having a great time.


I had a great time. The only nervousness I had was getting out the door.

I hear ya.....once that fear is conquered, the world is yours to explore.

[Freddy12]

What an absolutely wonderful description of someone becoming more comfortable with their first club experience. Congratulations! I'm sure that there will be many more times. It sounds like there was not one negative comment! How wonderful!

[Ms Jennifer]

Sounds like you had a great time and looked good doing it.

[7sisters]

Nice eyes. Nice nose and verrrry nice legs!!!! And of course I like the clothes.
I have a major knee obsession. First thing i notice is the knees.:)

[kavyaruma]

cute beautiful sister . way to go ..