Amanda22
09-20-2010, 02:52 PM
Over the weekend, my wonderful wife made it very clear to me that she supports and encourages my dressing because it makes me happy. She told me in crystal clear terms that she wants me to dress whenever I want. She has been just unbelievable. A better example of unconditional love I can't imagine.
Saturday afternoon, we shopped for some new tops and came home with a couple of really feminine ones. One was a black blouse with ruffles down the front and at the ends of the 3/4 length sleeves. It fit perfectly! I paired it with a tiered grey skirt, black microfiber tights, 3-inch pointed-toe pumps, and necklace and bracelet. I felt very, very pretty. My wife gave me some very sweet compliments I will never forget.
As we had little food in the house, we had planned on going through the drive-thru of a favorite deli and bringing home dinner. I started to change but my wife suggested I go as I was. I couldn't believe my ears! It was dark outside, but I've never been outside the house. She drove and I sat quietly in the passenger seat. It was amazing how my feminine mannerisms kicked in as I sat like a perfect woman while she drove. The deli attendant didn't notice anything. Then she suggested we stop at the wine store. She parked right next to the front door, which is VERY well lit and had a lot of traffic on a Saturday night. I told her to take her time while I waited in the car. In my mind, I told myself I was really "her little woman" for all intents and purposes of the situation. I loved that thought! I was really in plain view to anyone coming and going but surprisingly, no one noticed.
The rest of the evening was the best date we've had in a very long time. After her love, my wife has given me the greatest gift imaginable to me: the gift of her support and active participation in my crossdressing. She says I'm the best partner when I'm dressing often, but I think I'm the lucky one to have her as my wife.
If you are thinking of coming out to your wife or girlfriend, I know it is one of the hardest things you'll ever do. I came out two years into our marriage and although there was an uncertainty about her support recently, we have continued to communicate openly and shared our emotions fully. That has led us to a point where we are both very, very happy. If anyone decides to come out of the closet, I think the key is to keep your SO's feelings a priority and to respect her boundaries. Communicate always and I think you'll gain acceptance more often than not.
Saturday afternoon, we shopped for some new tops and came home with a couple of really feminine ones. One was a black blouse with ruffles down the front and at the ends of the 3/4 length sleeves. It fit perfectly! I paired it with a tiered grey skirt, black microfiber tights, 3-inch pointed-toe pumps, and necklace and bracelet. I felt very, very pretty. My wife gave me some very sweet compliments I will never forget.
As we had little food in the house, we had planned on going through the drive-thru of a favorite deli and bringing home dinner. I started to change but my wife suggested I go as I was. I couldn't believe my ears! It was dark outside, but I've never been outside the house. She drove and I sat quietly in the passenger seat. It was amazing how my feminine mannerisms kicked in as I sat like a perfect woman while she drove. The deli attendant didn't notice anything. Then she suggested we stop at the wine store. She parked right next to the front door, which is VERY well lit and had a lot of traffic on a Saturday night. I told her to take her time while I waited in the car. In my mind, I told myself I was really "her little woman" for all intents and purposes of the situation. I loved that thought! I was really in plain view to anyone coming and going but surprisingly, no one noticed.
The rest of the evening was the best date we've had in a very long time. After her love, my wife has given me the greatest gift imaginable to me: the gift of her support and active participation in my crossdressing. She says I'm the best partner when I'm dressing often, but I think I'm the lucky one to have her as my wife.
If you are thinking of coming out to your wife or girlfriend, I know it is one of the hardest things you'll ever do. I came out two years into our marriage and although there was an uncertainty about her support recently, we have continued to communicate openly and shared our emotions fully. That has led us to a point where we are both very, very happy. If anyone decides to come out of the closet, I think the key is to keep your SO's feelings a priority and to respect her boundaries. Communicate always and I think you'll gain acceptance more often than not.