meeting a guy for the first time.

[stephnbrown]

what's the best way to meet a guy for the first time? Craigslist if the first thought, but kinda creeps me out. I'm not passable, so don't really want to go out to a gay friendly place....

[Jodi]

Meet in a very public place--never go to a motel room. Never give any personal info.

Jodi

[stephnbrown]

and how do i get to the next "step"...I feel like i need a referral or something...lol

[Fab Karen]

CL is overrun with creeps & guys hunting for furtive quickies.

[cgwonderland]

I'm not expert, but I don't think you have to be passable to go to a gay bar. Why not go to a bar in drab and check out the scene? If you like it, return another time dressed up.