Out of site out of mind

[TiffanyTgirl]

It may be that my SO will be out of town for a week over Halloween. It also may be that our child will sleeping over with friends that weekend. If all this comes to pass, do I
a) be a good boy and stay home and hand out candy. or
b) take the opportunity to run to Orlando to some clubs that are cd/tg friendly.
I know that I am sneaking around, but is this an omen? Input from any point of view welcome. I am not out to be naughty, just out and about.

[Bootsiegalore]

In Santa's book that would be Naughty. So If you do not expect anything for Christmas.... Go ahead!

Rachel

[Gerrijerry]

Just my 2 cents... Stay home dress and give out candy. You can play the part of the mom and give candy to the kids. it is a big night for kids to dress up and get free candy. Go out saturday night dressed.

[Kelly DeWinter]

One of my fondess wish is for spouses at this site is that we learn from the experiences of others. An that we can make changes in our lives for the better based on the experiences of others. 'Sneaking' around is not a good idea. In the end the results may turn out to be unplesant all around.

Kelly

[Karren H]

Yeah!! Go ahead and sneak off!!! But be prepared for the consequences... All those neighborhood kids will cover your house with eggs when there's no one there to answer the door and give them candy!! Lol. Try to explain why they did than to your wife?

[GaleWarning]

Sigh ... t.
I think you should stay home and read a good book.
Dressed, if you wish.

[Stephanie Miller]

Scenario #1: You dress up and hand out candy. Neighbor lady and husband at door with rug rat begging for candy. Nice neighbor lady say's "Oh that looks so adorable on you! (out comes cell phone) I just have to show the other ladies. (Not to worry though. Neighbor ladies NEVER gossip).
Scenario #2: You get dressed and drive to bar. Maybe get caught, maybe not. But you get to ask yourself afterwards - "was it worth the deception".?
Scenario #3: Wife comes home and the entire honey-do list is done. With flowers on table for her.
Looking for good long term results has always been a good way for me to go - but you pick.
( I sure wish I was half as perfect as I preach on this site :praying:)

[Wendy W]

Do the right thing, stay home and pass out candy dressed! If any comments are made that you dressed as a women, well... it is Halloween. And if there is an emergency with your child, your still home. It's all a win, win situaton for you.

WW

[AKAMichelle]

I hate to be the party pooper hre, but it might be necessary. What happens if you child gets really sick or hurt and they need the parent immediately? the problem with you scenario is that you live some distance out of Orlando and want to go to some clubs. I would assume that the parents keeping your child won't even be told where you are going. With no parent there to take care of issues then you might be making a mistake here.

Any thing deception enters into the equation then you should really think if you want to be that person.

[TiffanyTgirl]

Well, staying home and passing out candy dressed is out. Too many neighborhood kids. House egging is easily explained as I had a debate with a 16b yr. old speeding through the neightborhood. Saturday is a possibility if child stays over 2 nights. Oh what to do , what to do......

[linda allen]

Well, staying home and passing out candy dressed is out. Too many neighborhood kids. House egging is easily explained as I had a debate with a 16b yr. old speeding through the neightborhood. Saturday is a possibility if child stays over 2 nights. Oh what to do , what to do......

It's Halloween, you can dress in "costume" and pass out candy. It's OK. Why not?

[celeste26]

Of course this whole scenario is based upon the idea that you haven't told your wife and/or she doesn't approve. Is there any way to bring this into a positive side instead of having all the options negative?

[Susan Smith]

Sounds like a great chance to go out and about dressed to me. Good luck!

[TiffanyTgirl]

My wife knows I have a fetish for cd'ing. She isn't on board. Don't want the neighbors telling her I was ina dress handing out candy. She doesn't know how far I've developed and while I would love her to be on board, I don't see it in the cards. Hence, here I am.

[TiffanyTgirl]

Well, the decision has been made. Cat's not leaving so the mouse ain't playin'. I guess the fates decided it wasn't for me this time.