Do you love, LIKE your male parts?

[Tara1967]

My wife and I were looikng at some threads last night and one of the threads was asking how many on here hate thier male parts. Well she began to count the ones that hated thier male parts opposed to the ones that were happy with their male parts. It turned out to be like 33 hated thier male parts and 6 liked thier male parts. She then tried to say I was one that doesn't like my male parts becasue of the overwhelming dislikes opposed to the likes. But I told her of course their would be a substancially higher number for those that disliked thier stuff, for that's what the thread was about, asking if anyone hated or disliked thier male parts. So this thread is for those that LIKE thier male parts. I happen to be one that is very happy with my male parts and have no intention of ever getting rid of it. I'm sure there are amny others on here that are where I'm at. I know this is a little silly, but I would like to prove a point to my wife that just because someone is a cd doesn't neccesarily want to get rid of their boy stuff. .Tara

[Andrea's Lynne]

Count me among the happy crowd, Tara. I love being a guy ... but like "escaping" to my alter ego from time to time. The best of both worlds, as the say.

[joannemarie barker]

I like my male parts and won't ever get rid :) although I'm not sure I'm the one to ask cos in general I'm
More attracted to male bits :)

[Jaydee]

I quess you could say that I am very "attached" to them. I enjoy my time as a guy also.

Jaydee

[joandher]

I too love my male parts and dont want them gone,

They seem to grow on you.

Hugs J-Jay

[joannemarie barker]

I too love my male parts and dont want them gone,

They seem to grow on you.

Hugs J-Jay

Lol I love this reply :)

[Carroll]

I am very much "attached" to my male part, and my wife seems to like where they are also :)

[Marilyn Beck]

My wife and I were having a similar discussion just this morning. I am happy with my male parts and plan to keep them.

[suchacutie]

I wasn't at all unhappy being a guy before we found Tina 5 years ago. I'm one of those wired with a piece of both genders in my head, but the body is clearly male (and hence the work to generate the femme self!). I need and enjoy both genders AND my male body...all of it!

ok, yes I do complain about my wide shoulders and big rib cage and I do have to work at tucking, but that's just part of the territory :)

tina

[Mary Jane]

I am happy with my plumbing and would not change it. I enjoy being a guy most of the time.

[Makayla]

The tackle stays lol i love my man bits

[Alice B]

I'm also one that is happy with my male parts. But wish they worked better. I am old.

[KellyK]

As long as my male parts are in working condition and pleasure can be achieved with them, then I would keep them around. I am happy with my "tucking" job when its time to dress up, and I am happy when I can let them loose to run around in the yard.. so to speak..

[PuniPuni]

I've gotten pretty used to my friends down south. They've treated me well and I've definitely treated them well. ^.-

I did give this serious thought the other day. I'm not sure about my gender, but I like my sex. I would be uncomfortable changing this body. It's been good to me. ^^

[Sarasometimes]

I love my male parts. I wish I could tuck on occassion though. I crossdress.

[cheryl]

I love my male parts as well. I like to dress because its fun. I am very happy as a man, but I also have a femmine side. Women have such lovely options in fashion. My wife sometimes is sceptical too about the whole CD thing but hey its just an escape sometimes and a really fun way to do it, and she understands. Love to dress,would like to look pretty(LOL), but happy as man as well. Don't want to remove anything just having fun.

[linnea]

Although my male parts have been good to me, I'm one who would change--the expense is a major force gravitating against my transitioning fully and so is my age. However, I'm transgendered according to psychiatric diagnosis, and while I don't suffer great frustration, anger, and anxiety over having male parts (as some do), I'm not overjoyed to have to continue to lug them along.

[Jason+]

Being male or more specifically having male parts has never really been the issue, it's more the restrictions that some would place on me for having them that are the problem. The OEM parts are here to stay at least until or unless the creator begins an upgrade campaign! :D

[PuniPuni]

I knew a girl once who claimed to be intersexed with both working parts! I was like "No wai!" and she was all "Wai!" and then I was all "Jealous is meeeee!!"

[Frédérique]

So this thread is for those that LIKE their male parts. I happen to be one that is very happy with my male parts and have no intention of ever getting rid of it. I'm sure there are many others on here that are where I'm at. I know this is a little silly, but I would like to prove a point to my wife that just because someone is a cd doesn't necessarily want to get rid of their boy stuff.

I love them! John and the twins are my good buddies. We come and go all the time…:eek: :heehee:

Another semi-emasculated soul (married), eh? I’m sure some on this site hate their male “parts,” but how many realize that you can be one thing, then another, all within a few minutes? It happens to me all the time, and I've learned to live with it. I wrote at length about phallocentrism not too long ago, and one member branded me a “phallophiliac.” Too true. I’m here to tell you the good news – we have met the enemy, and he is our friend! I can be in “his” presence, or I can be dressed, but I can’t do both things at the same time. I often dress to step away from the shadow of the obelisk, and that can be a relief…
:battingeyelashes:

[Christy_M]

Put me in the "like" column. If I had a woman's body shape I would still want the ol' twig and berries as panty ornaments.

[PuniPuni]

Put me in the "like" column. If I had a woman's body shape I would still want the ol' twig and berries as panty ornaments.

XD! That's my favorite response so far!

[NicoleScott]

I'm happy being male and occasionally dressing up, so my male parts can hang around for a while.

[Karren H]

I'm not complaining... I don't mind having an "outtie" vs an "innie".

[Carly D]

Count me among the happy crowd, Tara. I love being a guy ... but like "escaping" to my alter ego from time to time. The best of both worlds, as the say.

Same with me.. I wouldn't have it any other way.. In fact I think being a woman would be a drag because then what do you do??..

[MsJanessa]

yes very happy with them

[danaillecd]

love my male parts enjoy life playing both roles

[anonymousinmaryland]

Like. Frederique's quote, "I love them! John and the twins are my good buddies. We come and go all the time."
(Best answer in my opinion.)

[JohnH]

I'm really happy with my male parts! I wouldn't want to change a thing with them!

[Kate Simmons]

Really, what's not to like?:)

[Steph.TS]

Same with me.. I wouldn't have it any other way.. In fact I think being a woman would be a drag because then what do you do??..

'then what would you do'? the same things as a man, I mean sure in society we have different roles, but atleast here in Canada women are equals, and as we are talking about parts as long as the surgeon is good and kept the nerves functional, you could still enjoy yourself. besides, as men get older their 'parts' tend to work less and less, I being young still if I transition while I'm young I can live a life where that never happens, besides I love putting on nail polish, and wearing beautiful clothes, and being free to be who I am, in my opinion being a man is a drag because all too often men are shamed into a corner thinking that we can't wear pink, or skirts are wrong to wear, what about jeans that really form to our bodies like women wear, I love to wear jeans to show off my butt. then again men do it to themselves, 2 weeks ago, I wore nail polish to work (clear) and some one asked me if I was wearing nail polish, out of fear of what the guys would say I said no.

I've come up with a theory around men and their insecurity about their gender/sexuality, my theory is that in general men are afraid that they aren't manly enough, and are terrified that they might be gay, it's these 2 fears that make up the majority of the 'male' behavior, where again in general men limit what they are allowed to do, and some go so far as to oppose other men who aren't as restricted. I would love to be a woman, among other reasons to escape this closed minded culture men have about themselves.

[JamieG]

+1 for liking my male parts. If it were possible, I'd try out the other team's equipment for a day, but I could never say a permanent goodbye to my equipment. We've been through so much together.

[KellyCD]

I do like my male parts, and I would never really get rid of them.

However they DO get annoying with being there, and tucking helps me "forget" about them.....if that makes sense.

I DO wish I was a shapshifter or something....meaning I could "change" back and forth at will(from male to female). That would be AMAZING.

[JohnH]

I as a man have quite worrying about the narrow boundaries men are expected to conform to. I feel that I am man enough to wear skirts and dresses, if I want to wear pink I can, or if I want to wear nail polish I can. I also feel that I don't have to pass as a woman to do those things.

I also can grow my hair long and shave my arms, legs, and chest because I want to. My fellow second bass singer of the community chorus (I also sing that part) shaves his head bald and does not shave his arms, legs, or chest. To each his own.

With me there is no male or female mode - just a John mode!

John

[sissystephanie]

I have been a crossdresser for over 70 years. Never once have I ever regretted having male parts. I am a male, and I love being one. I just like to wear feminine clothes, but that doesn't change who or what I am!! All CD'ing does is change the way I look!! I think a lot of CD's feel the way I do!!

[Kiera79]

Here is my .02,

I love my pole but I hate the stones. If I could effectively get rid of the stones and the pole still stand tall I would. But it seems you can't have one without the other two hanging around. So I just mush em up high and pull together so it is like a beautiful air strip going down hill. My SO would hate me if I removed them too.

[Jamie48]

Heck when I was a Kid we were so poor if I wasn't a guy I wouldn't have had anything to play with. I think I will keep mine. Being a girl part time is also wonderful.

[Nicole Erin]

I dont care what I have so long as it works.
Now if I had femme anatomy, of course one method I use to "auto-eroticize" would have to change.
I suppose no one wants to hear about my personal methods?

[Phoebe Reece]

I came into this world as a male and that is how I plan to exit it. I'm happy with the "equipment" I have. Sex is what is between your legs. Gender is what is between your ears.

[shaq91]

I love my male part, and will never get rid of it!

[Rachel Mari]

I figure I got the best of both worlds and have no intention of ever getting rid of them.

[Diane Smith]

I prefer appearing female and will probably be full time at some point, but I'm generally quite satisfied with the sensations I get from my "male parts." I am not entirely opposed to the concept of exchanging them for the female type, but I don't have total confidence that I would be equally happy with female genitals, although those I've known who own a set seem to think they're pretty neat. Given my uncertainty plus the expense, inconvenience and medical risks of SRS, it seems best to stick with what I know works for me.

- Diane

[Danni Bear]

didn't activly like or dislike them. now that they are gone I can honestly say I'm glad not to have them anymore. do I wish that I never had them no as then I wouldn't have my kids or grandkids. To each their own in how they use or eliminate the parts they want or don't want. male and female ts figure out as they progress whether they want or need those pieces


danni

[Rianna Humble]

In the interest of balance I'll add a dissenting voice


Really, what's not to like?:)

Answer to that is quite simple. Every time I see them, I am reminded of my birth defect. They should have gone up and in not down and out.

[thechic]

HI there

Yea the other thread was more geared to the transsexual community so i can understand most run of the mill CD like to also be male so wont to keep there male stuff and enjoy living both worlds, But some of use TG type people just consider the male parts Volga .
I just hate my male body with gusto.

[gagina]

I like my unit, love to fondle with it once and awhile. What would you play with if it wasn't there

[Ann-Marie]

I love my male parts and enjoy being a male, think my wife likes it that way to

[flatlander_48]

Clearly the answer is YES!! Actually, it would certainly be difficult to be a bisexual male without 'em...

[Josie]

I have little use for my male parts lately, so I just ignore them.

[Tina B.]

Liked them better when I was younger and they worked better, But I think I will still hold on to them, no really I don't mind holding on to them! LOL
Tina B.

[Claire Cook]

I'm also one that is happy with my male parts. But wish they worked better. I am old.

Sigh, yes, ... but thank you Cialis and Viagra.

[Amymonroe]

i am at a point whare i'm not sure. i have deep feelings to be completely woman. i have made up my mind that if i were to ever get into an accident that would damage my "goods" then i would push for the surgeryand transform. if i transform i would loose alot spouse and family.

[Jessica Keys]

Although my male parts have been good to me, I'm one who would change--the expense is a major force gravitating against my transitioning fully and so is my age. However, I'm transgendered according to psychiatric diagnosis, and while I don't suffer great frustration, anger, and anxiety over having male parts (as some do), I'm not overjoyed to have to continue to lug them along.

I agree with Miss Linnea....maybe in my next life??

[KarenSusan]

No. Although, I don't plan to get rid of them

[sandra-leigh]

I prefer appearing female and will probably be full time at some point, but I'm generally quite satisfied with the sensations I get from my "male parts." I am not entirely opposed to the concept of exchanging them for the female type, but I don't have total confidence that I would be equally happy with female genitals, although those I've known who own a set seem to think they're pretty neat. Given my uncertainty plus the expense, inconvenience and medical risks of SRS, it seems best to stick with what I know works for me.


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In threads I have participated in, some of the other participants have written of how, as far as they were concerned, one of the greatest benefits of HRT was the loss of their "testosterone-fueled" sex drive, and have indicated that that is something I should look forward to. In one of the threads I was reading, one of the participants suggested that if getting rid of your sex drive wasn't something you were actively seeking, then you probably aren't suited for HRT; likewise in another thread, it was pretty much suggested that "real" TS looked forward to this.

My internal reaction to this has been roughly, "Huh? Why should a desire to be feminine or female be closely associated with a desire to be asexual ? The majority of women I know seem to enjoy their sexuality; if I were to have a female body, then why would I not want to continue to be sexual in that body?"

I've lived a life without much sexuality, a life lived primarily in the mind without all that much "pleasures of the flesh"; it didn't work out all that well for me. When I initially went out fully cross-dressed (wigs, forms, makeup), it was partly a rebellion against that situation: I needed to go out and be publicly perceived as a sexual being, not just as "one of those people in the background, whom you ignore until you need something from them and whom you go back to ignoring after you've received the answer". More like an intelligent machine than a person. I have no wish to go back to that kind of life.

I'm kind of accustomed to what I have. I don't feel a particular need to trade it for a significant surgery that would add complications such as urinary and yeast infections and regular mechanical intervention to ensure that it doesn't close up again. I don't rule out the possibility that some time in the future I might feel differently about the importance of having a single-gender body.

At the moment, about the largest motivation I might have to exchange parts is so that I could switch to using the female washrooms without being worried about the possibiity of someone screaming blue murder.

Until recently I would have said that I would not have any need for being able to be nude in female-only facilities, but recently I have been visiting a place where segregated nudity is socially common (for completely non-sexual purposes); I've been using the male side rather than trying to explain. I do not, however, expect to be back for several years. The situation does lead to questions about possibilities such as joining a gym with a hot tub if (when?) I eventually go 24/7, but that's a much much less immediate situation than the bathroom question.

[Raven586]

I love my boy parts, wouldnt trade them for the world, the fact that I can get away with being both genders is a real turn on for me.

[JustineFallow]

I love my male parts (and ONLY mine, mind you). But it is a turn-on to imagine on occasion that I have the opposite equipment; I'm not sure I'm an autogynephiliac or anything like that, but there are certain aspects of it that ring true with me.

While it would be interesting if we could all switch out our stuff as if they were vacuum hose attachments and internally self-inflate our chests to whatever extent we like (I wish I could do that every time I find a nice bra that is both super-cheap and not the right size :angry:), we just ain't wired that way.

[Loni]

after having them for over 50 years. i have sorta become attached to them.
but now that it is in retirement?? i question why keep them around? but not wanting to become female sexed. i am a strange brew.

[sharli61]

I'm happy being male and occasionally dressing up, so my male parts can hang around for a while.

just my feeling on the topic

[juno]

I am sort of in the middle. I like having a penis, but would not be upset if it was removed, as long as I can still have a good orgasm. Testicles are more of a nuisance, and I am slightly in favor of not having them. That is partly because one of them was undescended at birth, and surgery to fix it prevents it from tucking like it should.

[BiancaEstrella]

My plumbing is fine as-is. No plans to get rid of it. The woman within me understands that she has to deal with that.

[sometimes-stacy]

I am also more than happy with the male bits. Apart from my damn big boy hands grrrrrr

[Suzette Muguet de Mai]

I am not fond of them, especially the testicles. I must say though during my teen years I did learn how to change gears easily. Just found finding second gear a problem. If I could give up the family jewels I would be so happy, they get in the way all the time.

[herwannabe]

Can I have it both ways??:daydreaming:

[vivianann]

I am very happy with my male parts. I would not have it any other way.

[Lynn Marie]

The only way you are getting mine is to pry them out of my cold dead hands!

[Bethany38]

Can I have it both ways??:daydreaming:

This is the way I'd prefer things to be.

[Kjara_Ra]

I am happy the way I am, living as a man, occasionally playing woman

[Nikki101]

I like being a guy. I like dressing up though, too. I would like to keep things mostly as-is, but remove the testicles, they're a nuisance. I've read about orchiectomies and would seriously consider having this done.

[JaytoJillian]

love 'em

[andreana2.0]

I have to say, I love em. I don't even tuck anymore, I used to when I fist started cross dressing. I know I am not a woman, but I still like to explore my feminine side.

[Maryesther M.]

I'm a cross DRESSER, not TG or GG. I'm a big strong bloke, and I love the pleasure that my male parts still give me, which I couldn't imagine being without. The sort of CD-ing I do does not involve tucking, which I have tried a long time ago and found most uncomfortable & downright skarey.

The other male attribute I wouldn't do without either is the strength or physical power. This, of course is what we CD-ers try to mask when we 'dress', which is part of the fun of it, but other male attributes like body hair, voice, height, shoulder size and zero hips are those we wish would miraculously disappear during out 'alter ego' periods.

I look at gorgeous girly skirtsuits and note that nearly all websites invite you just to click on your size. Very few of them cater for those of us who are 14 down below and 20 up top. Perhaps that's wandering off the thread a bit...

[jazmine]

yeah.....i've grown accustomed to it over 37 years. I like it. I call it my girl.

[SusieB]

Susie not mad about them but hey she doesnt come around too often. When she is not here I just cant manage without them and wouldnt want to.

[fluffy]

Hi Tara,
when I was younger I was disgusted with my 'parts' and being male altogether. But it was only because I had a warped concept of what male or female was all about.

Today I'm totally content with being male, physically as well as any other way. That goes for my privates in particular. The only downside is I'd rather have less body hair and more on my head and envy some women for that that's all.

The only part I'm not happy with about being male is how society devalues you for it. I think that's what started the disgust when I was a kid. And of course like all of us wish we could be more free about how we dress.

[Sweeterica]

Hi Tara,
For me I have always been happpy with my male parts, have no desire to change them, female dressing is a wonderful escape from day to day life for me,I love it.As im happy why even think of any changes.

[Angiemead12]

Dont like my big hands, big feet and adams apple, love everything else!

[audreyinalbany]

I'm on board. Really love being a guy; really enjoy being a girl from time to time.

[sonna]

i love my male parts they never you down.

[siantv2003]

Chalk another one for the like column! Enjoy being male and am very comfortable as such - Sian is a little place to escape reality