Question - Wife or G.F

[krissy]

:)HI,

I have a question ,how many of us have had a Wife or Girlfriend who knew you dressed even helped you with it .Then after awhile they told all your friends your closest friends .and you didnt know till years later .my wife did this to me it hurt me so bad.i lost alot of male friends but i guess they were not real friends .now im 53 just starting to be myself and its because of this site you all make me feel good about myself.but i have a trust problem now.

[kym]

my ex did that to me except she never helped me dressed and was extremely back and forth on her acceptance, most if not all of my friends were cool about it and chalked it up to her trying to make me look like a pervert or a freak. All of them have since stopped talking to her and still hang out with me and my new wife. :)

[linnea]

I haven't had that happen, but I imagine that it will since my ex-wife (who didn't know throughout our lengthy marriage) now knows and has no reason to withhold the information. She's not a particularly mean person, but she's also not particularly discreet. At this point, I don't care. Any friend of mine who would turn against me because of my transgendered qualities is probably not really my friend.

[RachelRICD]

I had an ex who helped me, photographed me then used the photos to try to divorce me in a messy trail that ended in her looking like a fool. She was asked if she knew if I was a crossdresser. She denied it and my lawyer proceeded to parade her friends into court with the truth that she knew even before we were married. As it turned out I went thru with the divorce and it was the best thing I ever did because my now wife is much more tolerant and trustworthy.

[Emily Ann Brown]

My girlfriend is very good about accepting aand helping.

Em

[Joanne f]

Yes i can say that this has happened to me but i did not worry to much about it but as far as trust is concerned , i have learned that you just can`t trust anyone sad as it maybe.

[Loveday]

My X tried to encourage me to dress as a condition of staying married, Ididn't. I knew she viewed everything like a cold war and would use it on me in the divorce. When I do think of her I realize I am much better off now.

[KellyCD]

OHHHHH YESSSSSSS. My ex-wife WAS accepting and used to help me. But she told everyone in her Unit, all her boyfriends(she cheated on me many many times with lots of guys....I didn't find this out til last year), her family....everyone she met....before she was chaptered out of the Army. Now she's still jobless(after 2 years), is between boyfriends, abandoned our children and is hating life.


Karma's a B!

[KandisTX]

My first wife did this to me. She wasn't 100% supportive, but she understood that it was a part of me. After we divorced (and she used my crossdressing against me), she decided it would be a good idea to call my First Sergeant and tell him that my new wife and I were in to dealing drugs, making pornographic movies, and prostitution. This led to a nightmare for me, but in the end, I had the last laugh because the investigation resulted in no evidence being found to support her claims.

[dylan136]

I am very happy that that hasnt happened to me. I am with a very supportive girlfriend that helps me with crossdressing.

[docrobbysherry]

I think it takes awhile to figure out exactly who u can trust and who u CAN'T!
I'm still trying to work it out after 60+ years!:brolleyes:

My guess is, after about 90 or 100 years, it will become COMPLETELY CLEAR to us!:thumbsup:

[Hayley Comets]

Well i didn't exactly came out to my gf. We were fooling around in her room and after we were done I just put on her underwear and modelled in front of the mirror. There was a lot of laughs but that was it, probably thought I was being funny. I would be imagine this would be one heck of a step to take with her