kamerynjlee
11-11-2010, 01:07 PM
Life is complicated. I want to be 'me' more, but cannot due to busy work, unaccepting spouse. When I say more, I mean all the time. I've been everywhere as Kameryn, but am always conscious of my size (plus size and tall). I tend to pass well in close contact situations, but never know if stares in public are due to my being a statuesque pretty woman, or from just being read. I'll eventually get pictures up, but all of you know those don't really tell any of our stories in full.
I haven't dressed in a few weeks, and jump at the chance to do so ANYTIME. I hate the nervous feeling that comes back after not having dressed in a while, combined with the intense, overwhelming need to feel more natural. I'm in Vegas now for a meeting, and always hesitated in the past to be myself here - too crowded, too much drinking, lots of people watching. But, despite that, I proceeded to go ahead and walk down the strip to Fashion Show Mall 2 days ago. I was shocked (again) that I was willing to put my discomfort aside in order to express my need to be natural. The occasional stare and/or whisper was uncomfortable, but was balanced by what I believe was absolute cluenessness on the part of the older sales associates who started dressing rooms for me in Nordstrom and Dillards. And although my 2 hour makeup jobs are flawless, I'm extremely honest with myself, based on my size alone.
Now, I find myself plotting to fly back home as Kameryn, which I've done once before without incident, but with significant trepidation. I believe that this takes the most courage, even among our sisters who are smaller in stature. But the NEED is so overwhelming, that I am willing to jump through hoops. Arriving to airport at 4AM, walking through an unknown airport for a connecting flight, going to a family restroom to quickly take it all off before my wife picks me up at BWI. It's enough to make me cry, literally.
The lemonade I'm trying to make with the lemons I've been given in life has no sugar. Intense love for my wife and young daughter seems just as strong as my passion and need to be more natural, and only my Christianity helps me cope. It's scary, because almost everything I've gotten the notion to do as Kameryn, I have over time always figured out how to do it. Where will it all go?
Thanks for listening.
Kameryn
I haven't dressed in a few weeks, and jump at the chance to do so ANYTIME. I hate the nervous feeling that comes back after not having dressed in a while, combined with the intense, overwhelming need to feel more natural. I'm in Vegas now for a meeting, and always hesitated in the past to be myself here - too crowded, too much drinking, lots of people watching. But, despite that, I proceeded to go ahead and walk down the strip to Fashion Show Mall 2 days ago. I was shocked (again) that I was willing to put my discomfort aside in order to express my need to be natural. The occasional stare and/or whisper was uncomfortable, but was balanced by what I believe was absolute cluenessness on the part of the older sales associates who started dressing rooms for me in Nordstrom and Dillards. And although my 2 hour makeup jobs are flawless, I'm extremely honest with myself, based on my size alone.
Now, I find myself plotting to fly back home as Kameryn, which I've done once before without incident, but with significant trepidation. I believe that this takes the most courage, even among our sisters who are smaller in stature. But the NEED is so overwhelming, that I am willing to jump through hoops. Arriving to airport at 4AM, walking through an unknown airport for a connecting flight, going to a family restroom to quickly take it all off before my wife picks me up at BWI. It's enough to make me cry, literally.
The lemonade I'm trying to make with the lemons I've been given in life has no sugar. Intense love for my wife and young daughter seems just as strong as my passion and need to be more natural, and only my Christianity helps me cope. It's scary, because almost everything I've gotten the notion to do as Kameryn, I have over time always figured out how to do it. Where will it all go?
Thanks for listening.
Kameryn