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seanmuscle
11-26-2010, 04:21 PM
simple answer.... I mean in your opinion.

Rianna Humble
11-26-2010, 04:25 PM
Simple answer: Yes

Slightly less simple answer - everyone who knew me before agrees I definitely look better as my true gender (woman) not my birth gender.

renee k
11-26-2010, 04:27 PM
Simple answer.....as a woman

Renee

AllieSF
11-26-2010, 04:28 PM
I look great as both! Of course, that is in my own humble opinion. You have to love yourself first! LOL

Kelly DeWinter
11-26-2010, 04:29 PM
Yes

Alice B
11-26-2010, 04:30 PM
According to my wife as a man. But, she tolerates my dressing, but does not really want to see me dressed. Friends that have seen me dressed, or photos of me as Alice say I look great. I think I look best as a man, when I'm dressed as a man and best as a woman, when dressed as a woman. Short answer. Who cares.

Kelly DeWinter
11-26-2010, 04:33 PM
Who cares.

Alice,

I agree, these are the kind of threads that end up cauing more pain, mayby unintentialy, by getting into comparisons. It's almost like a high school setup.

Sonia_cd
11-26-2010, 04:40 PM
who's asking.... ;)

5150 Girl
11-26-2010, 04:43 PM
Without a doubt, as a woman! my male self is quite scruffy

ArleneRaquel
11-26-2010, 04:46 PM
I'm much better looking as a woman.

MJ
11-26-2010, 04:47 PM
not sure i know an open forum i'm cool

Tranny Tee
11-26-2010, 04:50 PM
I am an unattractive woman, as a man I am downright ugly. I guess makeup works.

jessica renee
11-26-2010, 04:55 PM
As a woman in my opinion. But who really cares?

Rebecca Sue
11-26-2010, 05:12 PM
I don't know if I look better as a man or a woman but I do know that I love the way I feel when I'm in feminine mode: pretty, sexy, and confident. It makes me feel both relaxed and complete.

Carroll
11-26-2010, 05:22 PM
I have been told by other I look better as a woman than a man. Not sure if that's in insult or complement!!

kayegirl
11-26-2010, 05:33 PM
Take a look at the Gallery Boy vs Girl mode sticky, and you will have your answer

donnalee
11-26-2010, 05:46 PM
Ask me no questions, I'll tell you no lies. :heehee:

Sophie86
11-26-2010, 05:48 PM
Honestly, I think I look better as a woman. Adding makeup and hair does a lot to spiff me up.

Stefia S
11-26-2010, 05:55 PM
a woman...at least I'd like to think that's why I get glances and gazes like never before!

sandra-leigh
11-26-2010, 05:56 PM
I look happier as a woman (people have remarked on it.)

Sasha Anne Meadows
11-26-2010, 06:06 PM
As a woman. Thats why I am rarely in boy mode anymore.

http://www.flickr.com/photos/14128460@N07/4560578973/

Robyn B
11-26-2010, 06:09 PM
maybe? Is that an okay answer? :doh:

Gisele
11-26-2010, 06:26 PM
WOW MJ, Put on a wig & makeup and "BAM" your a pretty woman.:)


Myself, I think I look better as a woman. I am just too thin for a good man "look". I have more of a female build.

Cheryl T
11-26-2010, 06:34 PM
As a woman for sure...

LitaKelley
11-26-2010, 07:42 PM
Woman = Gorgeous
Man = Unattractive.

michelleky53
11-26-2010, 07:55 PM
Thanks to makeup and a wig,(I am bald) woman for sure.

Kendra (Tx)
11-26-2010, 07:58 PM
This is a trick question, right??:heehee:...Of course a woman...As a guy I get looks varying from indifference to downright distaste from from the opposie sex...:cry:...but as a woman....The polar opposite is true...Smiles, getting checked out, just generally a better reaction all around...Oh yes...MUCH better as a woman..:c9:

http://kendra954.com

Kiera79
11-26-2010, 08:24 PM
I look great as both! Of course, that is in my own humble opinion. You have to love yourself first! LOL

My SO said the same thing and I think so too.

tricia_uktv
11-26-2010, 09:02 PM
We likely all look better as women. Unless as a guy you wear make-up.

t-girlxsophie
11-26-2010, 10:09 PM
What a mental thread,theres loving yourself and "loving yourself" maybe a better place for this would have been for SOs,cant say ive ever looked in the mirror and thought "hey you look awesome" my wife thinks i look good both ways and thats enough for me,she has said I appear happier when dressed

:hugs:Sophie

Pythos
11-26-2010, 10:41 PM
Now that I think about it, everytime I have gotten initial action with a female I have been done up in makeup, and some kind of costume. Be it my Cats costume, rocky horror costume, or my Mana Sama Cosplay. (the latter got A LOT of action this year :)).

I have been told I make a great mix of the two. I think my fem self is rather more appealing than my male self.

BRANDYJ
11-26-2010, 10:43 PM
This is a simple question to answer. It's amazing what some makeup and a good hairdo can do for anybody. Even for the GG's. I once saw an article in a women's magazine that showed you the top 10 models without any makeup or their hair done up. Talk about some very unattractive women! There was one or two that looked so bad that I wondered how they ever got to become a model.
Secondly, since I don't find men attractive...including myself, I have to say I look better as a woman. Now how anyone else might answer that is your guess as good as mine. Now if I only had the body to match the face. lol
Simple answer is that women, even some of us part time women look much better then men. Of course most women and some gay guys might disagree.

Cheryl James
11-26-2010, 11:16 PM
I hope that I look better as a woman. A lot of time and effort goes into dressing. I hope there is a payoff for the work.

windycissy
11-26-2010, 11:17 PM
What a great Rorschach test! I was quite the rake as a young man, but now there's no doubt I'm more attractive as a woman... the hair and makeup make me look years younger, and I put a lot more time and effort into my appearance

Amanda22
11-26-2010, 11:37 PM
Certainly better as a woman.

Tasha McIntyre
11-27-2010, 12:51 AM
I think I look much better as a guy, but I feel infinately better as a girl :)


Take a look at the Gallery Boy vs Girl mode sticky, and you will have your answer

I have a couple of boy photos in there too :)

Tash

Lorileah
11-27-2010, 12:58 AM
as a female and there are photos on this site that confirm it :)

Karinsamatha
11-27-2010, 01:01 AM
I feel and look much better when dressed as a woman.

Raychel
11-27-2010, 02:15 AM
Right at the moment, from the neck down, Deffinitly beter as a woman. But with the right help with makeup and a wig, The completely as a woman.

I feel better about myself dressed as a woman too. .

Danni Bear
11-27-2010, 02:24 AM
good question

simple answer---------

after consultation with hubby and poring over old photos the answer has to be definatly ---------------------


WOMAN


Danni

KlaireLarnia
11-27-2010, 02:26 AM
Probably better as a man (just to go against the grain here) but more comfortable when dressed in female clothing. I am better looking as a man due to my body shape and having a lot more practice at getting it right.

Klaire

juligirl1984
11-27-2010, 02:31 AM
lol a woman I'm sure!

Christy_M
11-27-2010, 02:51 AM
My opinion of myself is that I look better as a woman and that is confirmed by the fact that I feel better about myself when en femme. My wife thinks I am an attractive man. I have been hit on and picked up at very non-traditional "pick-up" places by women while en drab. How this plays into the OP's question about whether I look better as a man or woman, I am not sure so I'll say "most definately maybe."

donnalee
11-27-2010, 06:16 AM
Neither

Gina X
11-27-2010, 07:39 AM
I think I look better as a woman but since I have been CD'ing a lot more I've found my enhomme has aquired a much better dress sense although still mostly wearing womens clothes, make of that what you will LOL

Lots of love Gina x

Madilyn A.
11-27-2010, 08:08 AM
This is a simple question to answer. It's amazing what some makeup and a good hairdo can do for anybody. Even for the GG's. I once saw an article in a women's magazine that showed you the top 10 models without any makeup or their hair done up. Talk about some very unattractive women! There was one or two that looked so bad that I wondered how they ever got to become a model.
Secondly, since I don't find men attractive...including myself, I have to say I look better as a woman. Now how anyone else might answer that is your guess as good as mine. Now if I only had the body to match the face. lol
Simple answer is that women, even some of us part time women look much better then men. Of course most women and some gay guys might disagree.

I agree with Brandy's comments above. Women are just plane better looking people than men, so I too believe I look better as a woman.

Mary Jane
11-27-2010, 08:29 AM
When dressed as a woman.

Yvonne York
11-27-2010, 08:51 AM
Well I look rubbish as a male, and I feel wonderful as a girl!

KristinSkye
11-27-2010, 08:56 AM
Bout average as both I suppose.

Laura_Stephens
11-27-2010, 09:20 AM
I look like Quasimoto as a man and as Marge Schott's ugly sister as a woman. I strike out in either mode.

sissystephanie
11-27-2010, 09:31 AM
Since I am a man, naturally I look better as a man!! Especially now that I no longer have my wife to do my makeup and fix my wig. But I still love to dress in feminine clothing!!

Karren H
11-27-2010, 09:32 AM
Depends... I think I look ok no mater how I'm dressed... So it depends on a lot of factors.... the day... The weather... The lighting. The distance... Lol.

suchacutie
11-27-2010, 09:47 AM
Tina has a better chance to look "terrific". Look at all she has going for her: choice of hair, infinite variety of clothing, fabulous shoes, corsets and waist cinchers, and even the choice of breast size. My guy side is stuck with less hair every day of the same color (and you can't style hair you don't have!), and supposedly no makeup! But, my guy side has the build that is considered "manly", and he is completely informed about all that Tina has learned, so he has lost weight, and a little brown mascara doesn't hurt either.

Bottom line, I think that Tina started 5 years ago looking just terrible, but then got a style of her own and pulled ahead. Then the ideas of "looking good" started to transfer to my male side and that side caught up to the point that both sides are pretty respectable :)

tina

TGMarla
11-27-2010, 10:26 AM
There's probably a whole lot of this in this thread.....

But I think I look way better as a woman.

PretzelGirl
11-27-2010, 10:33 AM
I think I get in that range of ugliness that you can't rank (pun intended) one above the other. Saves on the admirers.

Joann Smith
11-27-2010, 10:34 AM
I utterly dispise the way i look without makeup

Erica G
11-27-2010, 10:50 AM
As a woman.Erica

sometimes_miss
11-27-2010, 11:21 AM
Sadly, it comes down to the lesser of two evils, and I can't say either one is a good choice. I'd guess I look best as a guy, in my tux; I still get compliments from women that way. My height probably has something to do with it too, a big six four guy in a tux probably stands out quite a bit from the crowd, for better or worse. I've seen myself in the mirror dressed as a girl; 'taint a pretty picture. Best comparison would be a cartoon character from the '60's; Petunia Potomus.

girlalex
11-27-2010, 02:23 PM
In my opinion i look much better as a female although my mom is somewhat surprised that how she says that im a handsome man and i don't have a girlfriend yet.
I'm not a handsome man, not at all. i don't know why people think that. but as a female, I feel happy and complete.

Lucy_Bella
11-27-2010, 02:31 PM
To be honest, I really couldn't tell you what an attractive male looks like as my only way to determain that would be, to see what a beautiful lady is attracted too.. The only thing that I could come up with there would be the wallet.. So I really can not compare.

How ever I am more out to better my apperance when I dress as femme than in my everyday male mode . It is more time consumeing but being attracted to women helps me achive what ever look I am going for..?

Debra Russell
11-27-2010, 04:44 PM
I think I look better as a woman. My wifes best friend is visiting for a few days, she is blonde and we are the same age I ask her if I could show her a pic as I had dressed and it reminded me of her (same hair and complection) she said "wow I wouldent have known and looked way prettier than her. I said I did it to show my sisters how much we all looked alike.

MargaretJ
11-27-2010, 04:53 PM
I definately look better as a woman. I take a lot more care of my appearance en femme than I do in male mode, which probably explains why. Also I have what I think are a great pair of legs that look fabulous in stockings and heels, and deserve to be shown off. :o

Tina June
11-27-2010, 05:02 PM
I look better as a man, but, feel better as a woman

Jason+
11-27-2010, 07:05 PM
The answer depends on how much transformational power is held by a tube of lipstick and some magnetic earrings. Otherwise I simply look best as me.

Engendered
11-27-2010, 08:43 PM
If you compared my guy side to all the guys in the world, and then compared my girl side to all the girls in the world, my guy side would win out.
On the other hand, I find girls to be far better looking in general than guys, so I prefer how I look in girl mode. But I'm biased, as I find girls attractive. :)

Albertine
11-27-2010, 09:57 PM
I'm a gg and I date transwomen. Most look better and younger as women. I'm into the whole person though and enjoy seeing them in boi mode as well. For some, it takes some trust to see them in all phases of their humanness.

Niya W
11-27-2010, 10:05 PM
I've had people say I look uglv as man and cute as women.

TessaGirl
11-27-2010, 11:30 PM
I hav`nt at least (not yet) gone that far in terms of true crossdressing. However definitely think I look better in a skirt, especially a long flowing one. Also since replacing almost all my mens t-shirts, tops and jeans with female ones and wearing female wool coats regularly in cold weather. Unfortunately it is difficult to find womens` jeans that are neither so loose they fall down or are too tight for comfort :( You may also get nasty looks for wearing very skintight ones, that does annoy me really! :)

Stacye Rose
11-27-2010, 11:41 PM
No I don't. I think I'm as ugly as a mud fence either way.

ANA LILIA
11-28-2010, 01:28 AM
as a woman, at least I am very happy

docrobbysherry
11-28-2010, 01:35 AM
Let me put it this way, tho!

I have maybe 10 pics of me in drab.:straightface:

I have maybe 10,000 pics of Sherry!:heehee:

leotard fan
11-28-2010, 01:54 AM
maybe i don“t look a real woman when i am dressed up like one, but i feel myself and free when i dress like one!

eluuzion
11-28-2010, 02:10 AM
As usual, it all comes down to personal perception. Simple logic would suggest the female image would have a "leg up" over the male image, lol.

The scales are "tipped" in favor of the female image..

-it is not a "fair fight", lol...The female side gets to use make-up. It's like the goal is to build a house and one person gets to use hammers and saws, but the other does not, lol

-the mirror image we see of ourselves is influenced by what we "want" or "wish" we looked like. It is also always a "mirror" or "reflected" image for us to look at, but everyone else sees us in correct perspective. That is why we are often surprised after taking our self pictures, which often are disappointing when compared to the mirror image that deceives us. (photos do not deceive, they provide truth).

-the female image is novel and exciting to us since it is a shift from the "normal" person we have been our whole life.

These are just a few of many factors tilting the scale of our mind's perception toward the female side.

So, obviously, my answer is....



I don't know....


hehehehehhe:love:

Emma England
11-28-2010, 09:28 AM
I look like me!

tina2007
11-28-2010, 01:35 PM
I look better as a man, but, feel better as a woman

thats exactly how I think of my self too...

Kayla_CD
11-28-2010, 01:44 PM
I look better as a man, but that's not why I dress.

jennifer easton
11-28-2010, 04:32 PM
with out a doubt, my new blond wig gives me a sassy, foxy feeling that comes right through me, and helps hide the old bear that lurks around here sometimes, so the answer is yes now I think I look better as a woman

Donna June
11-28-2010, 05:05 PM
I put my "female" picture on 'hot or not'. I've had atleast 100 guys wanting to meet me. If I put my male photo on I would probably get 1 or 2 girls, a year, wanting to meet me, so....a woman.

Sharon B.
11-28-2010, 05:19 PM
In my opinion I look better as a woman, plus I feel a lot better whenever I am dressed as a woman. I'm at ease with myself.

Annaliese2010
11-28-2010, 05:53 PM
Girl or 'woman', as you like it.

I say this not out of vanity, though vain I may be, but based on how I am generally received by others vs. how the guy side of me has been & is (mis)treated - poor SOB. LOL.

So: Hands down! No doubt about it. I get more attention from & am apparently more attractive to more GG women. PLUS there's the friendship & affection I enjoy giving to & getting from other M2F girls. All of which informs me I look better than 'him' so to speak.

I honestly dunno how I came to be that which I've become. But itsa wunerful worl an a wunerful sperience bein me... Lol.

Xandria
11-29-2010, 12:57 AM
i dunno.. you tell me :D

erickka
11-29-2010, 06:46 AM
As a woman. Younger and thinner looking too! :)

carhill2mn
11-29-2010, 07:21 PM
Simple answer IMHO - as a woman!

BiancaEstrella
11-29-2010, 07:55 PM
All of the above. I'm beautiful. :)

Reggie Campion
11-29-2010, 08:00 PM
trying not to get to serious. I am still learning makeup and when i do it right i kinda like the way a look. Still waiting to work up the courage to get a wig i have had my eye on for a while, if i get that then i will say i look better as a woman. I like being dressed!

randumbness
11-29-2010, 09:23 PM
I somehow think I look better as a woman, but maybe it's because I haven't been in a relationship with a girl or have been approached by many in a while. It's dropped my male ego to some new lows. But of course, that's not the reason I do dress. I just think I might look better as a girl.

Lyric
12-12-2010, 10:49 PM
I've mostly worn my hair long much of my adulthood and the consensus has always been that I look better with longer more feminine hair. I've also always been teenage girl slender, though 5'11" tall. I'd say I can look better as a woman, anyway.

Davina-Alba
12-12-2010, 11:48 PM
not sure i know an open forum i'm cool

Better as a woman.

Schatten Lupus
12-13-2010, 02:49 AM
I've been told I look good as either. But the people who have said this also tend to over compliment, or just very polite. I think I look good as a woman, but I know at least in perspective of others I look alot better as a man. However if I really cared about if others think I look good or not mattered to me, I wouldn't wear half of the stuff I do out in public. Mostly with holes. The only shirt I have retired because it had too many holes has so many holes in the front that it looks like a very poor attempt at a mesh shirt.

noeleena
12-13-2010, 04:10 AM
Hi.

Quite simple , i dont have the looks of a woman & certinly wont happen & at 63 . im too male looking & i dont try & hide behind that fact. in thinking i look like a woman i dont.

That of cause does not say im not a woman , because i am . just a miner detail , yet i am accepted as a woman.

...noeleena...

KateSpade83
12-13-2010, 04:31 AM
I look good enough both ways. As a guy I attract women enough and when I go out in drag I attract men too but I brush them off. I'm just not photogenic so I look better in real life. But I would have preferred to have been born a beautiful woman.

dominique
12-13-2010, 04:47 AM
It has to be a woman.

Elsa Larson
12-13-2010, 05:04 AM
I have a better smile in girl mode.

http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/attachment.php?attachmentid=118755&d=1283025662

Karen 812
12-13-2010, 09:12 AM
People say i look better as a woman.

JamieG
12-13-2010, 12:48 PM
I think my body is closer to our culture's "ideal female form" (long and skinny, soft face) than to the "ideal male form" (big and muscly, chiseled looks). I've had a few (very few) women tell me I was a cute guy, but my wife is the only one who has ever told me that I was hot. As a girl, I've gotten more compliments, but then the CD community is probably more complimentary towards each other than the outside world is. If I had to compare my femme self to GG's, I'd probably place right about in the middle, kind of girl next store looking.

pink femme
12-13-2010, 05:51 PM
man on outside and all girly on inside - if only we could turn ourselves inside out, i'd melt into a crowd

dilane
12-13-2010, 05:51 PM
I seem to draw the same number of stares in each mode!

prene
12-13-2010, 07:11 PM
My figure is better as a girl (Big lower 1/2, I can tightlace to 27")

My voice is male

GirlieAmanda
12-13-2010, 08:15 PM
I have been told I look good as a guy and from a GUY too. BUT I really think I look better and more sexy and colorful as a girl. My personality is enhanced.

DebsUK
12-13-2010, 08:20 PM
I never got any attention as a guy, but have had a lot more as a girl, though I do reckon the attention is more because of being a CD than being an attractive woman, but I still think I'm prettier en femme

Rinoah06
12-13-2010, 10:13 PM
Probably man because I'm pretty muscular. Kind of hard to hide as a woman.

Suzette Muguet de Mai
12-13-2010, 10:31 PM
I have to admit it, I look better as a man but simply gorgeous as a female.

Char2233
12-13-2010, 11:15 PM
Oh - deffinately a woman....

naye
12-14-2010, 12:09 AM
I dont know if I look better as a man or as a woman, but what I know is that I feel more pretty and sexy while dressed as a woman.

Kerigirl2009
12-14-2010, 12:24 AM
Well in my opinion, I look good as a man and look ok as a woman. (not passable but presentable) I think if I had better makeup techniques I could look even better. Although on occassion, I think I have come close to resembling my mother and my sister and its times like this that I smile and think OMG. I love that feeling.

suscd31
12-14-2010, 02:00 AM
This is a big yes for me too. I feel I make a much better looking female than male.

Maria_1969
12-14-2010, 08:36 AM
I look better as a man, I feel better as a woman.... :-)

insearchofme
12-14-2010, 08:43 AM
Take my word for it, I look better as a woman!

Kellycrossdress
12-14-2010, 10:26 AM
Definately much better as a woman.

Davina-Alba
12-14-2010, 10:31 AM
Sounds like you may have made a rod for your own back there:)

erika_s
01-06-2011, 01:18 PM
Although my wife prefers me as a man, I accept better my imperfections as a woman, hence I look better for myself, at least.

Michelle8
01-06-2011, 01:22 PM
Definitly a woman.I look younger

Pinky188
01-06-2011, 01:24 PM
I like myself better as a woman. Visually speeking! But I think women are just better looking then men.

Christie ann
01-06-2011, 01:28 PM
I feel better when I am dressed as a girl. My wife always tells me that I would make a most homely woman.

msniki48
01-06-2011, 01:37 PM
Well the older i get, the better i was...sorta...that scale is sliding downward as a woman as i get older :(

but we work with what we have

hugs

msniki

Jennifer Marie P.
01-06-2011, 01:44 PM
One answer a woman.

Jonelle
01-06-2011, 01:49 PM
In MY opinion, a woman, because it feels and "almost" looks right!

damn, beard, big hands/feet, flat chest, short fingernails, mail pattern baldness, weight distributions, etc etc etc...

HAHA... just more things to focus on to perFECT the way we look!!

joank
01-06-2011, 03:41 PM
Depends... I think I look ok no mater how I'm dressed... So it depends on a lot of factors.... the day... The weather... The lighting. The distance... Lol.

I definetly look better dressed. Otherwise too much interaction with the authorities.

Kate Lynn
01-06-2011, 03:48 PM
I always looked better as a soldier,in my combat gear,defending you from the bad guys.

Melody Phillips
01-06-2011, 03:58 PM
Right now, as a man. With lot more practice with makeup and with a wig I'll be one cute gal.

GingerLeigh
01-06-2011, 04:15 PM
Sadly, I have masculine facial features so I guess I look better as a man. Hey, put a bucket on my head and I look good as both! Mmmmmmm.... buckets....

Ginger

Sarah Doepner
01-06-2011, 05:52 PM
Probably neither one, but I'm to the point that I actually don't care. I'm going to have to be happy regardless of how attractive I am, so I just need to factor that part out and go directly for feeling good about who I think I am.

vetobob9
01-06-2011, 06:08 PM
I think everyone looks better when dressed in female clothing.

NathalieX66
01-06-2011, 06:10 PM
The thing that frustrates me is that I think I look fat as a woman, but thin & scrawny as a man.

thechic
01-06-2011, 10:47 PM
dont know

Jamie Parks
01-07-2011, 02:18 AM
I have been told by everyone who has seen me dressed that I look more happy and natural dressed, but the most important vote came from my Mom she told me I am a good looking man but a great looking woman!!! gotta love Mom

Claudia85
01-07-2011, 02:29 AM
Absolutely as a woman, there are more ways to satisfy your vision.

Lucy Long Legs
01-07-2011, 04:17 AM
I look very feminine as a guy but, oddly, have to work quite hard to look feminine as a girl! Long hair makes me look like a male 70s rock star but I look quite pretty with short hair as I have delicate features. When I am all dolled up I am convincing, but not otherwise.

Jill Devine
01-07-2011, 07:29 AM
I think I pull both off well but in different ways.
I am going to go for a 50/50. I pics up on the boy girl picture thread.

Yolanda_Voils
01-08-2011, 01:53 AM
Man, dangit..

Sometimes I pass very well, other times I don't pass at all, so there..

I wish I could pass at will, but that's not to be.

nylon boy
01-08-2011, 02:09 AM
women!

msginaadoll
01-08-2011, 04:05 AM
Well I am dorky looking either way. However i tend to get way more positive attention as a woman.