CatAttack
11-28-2010, 12:30 PM
First of all, sorry this turned out to be really long..
So in an earlier thread, I had mentioned my plans to come out to my parents over Thanksgiving. They already knew I crossdressed and came to terms with that [I think/hope] a few years ago. I felt like it would be a good time because we would all be together and also because the acronym for Thanksgiving would be TG, haha.
Anyways, it turned out that my aunt's family wasn't going to come over for dinner so that was another plus [they live next door too, so I don't know why they didn't want to come, but a plus]. Long story short, when we were about to finish dinner, I told my parents that I was going to tell them something that they might get really really mad/shocked about.
My mom immediately started to look really concerned and asked me what, and for a moment I couldn't bring up the words, but then I told them. I told them that I was going to transition and that it was something that I have to do. My mom didn't take this very well and started to get angry while my dad was just quiet. She started asking all the questions like "why are you doing this to us?", "what am I going to tell my friends/family?".. etc.. she even indirectly called me a freak "you know that everyone will think you're a freak right?".. anyways that really hurt. Meanwhile my dad tried to talk me out of it logically like "isn't there an alternative?", "what about having children?", etc.. basically good legitimate questions. I had answers for these because I had thought about this for a while and I explained in a calm manner.
Eventually though, me and my mom got into an argument about this and she told me that she will never accept this. At this point I told them that I was sorry and left..
This really hurt me and I was talking to my friend about this the day after [my one friend who knows what is going on] and just as I told her all the bad stuff, I got a call from my mom! She sounded cool and seemed accepting and asked me to come back on Sunday [today] to have lunch with them. And here I am writing this while they are cooking. Sooo I totally hope this goes well!
//edit to note:
My dad didn't seem to have a big problem with all this which was a surprise.
So in an earlier thread, I had mentioned my plans to come out to my parents over Thanksgiving. They already knew I crossdressed and came to terms with that [I think/hope] a few years ago. I felt like it would be a good time because we would all be together and also because the acronym for Thanksgiving would be TG, haha.
Anyways, it turned out that my aunt's family wasn't going to come over for dinner so that was another plus [they live next door too, so I don't know why they didn't want to come, but a plus]. Long story short, when we were about to finish dinner, I told my parents that I was going to tell them something that they might get really really mad/shocked about.
My mom immediately started to look really concerned and asked me what, and for a moment I couldn't bring up the words, but then I told them. I told them that I was going to transition and that it was something that I have to do. My mom didn't take this very well and started to get angry while my dad was just quiet. She started asking all the questions like "why are you doing this to us?", "what am I going to tell my friends/family?".. etc.. she even indirectly called me a freak "you know that everyone will think you're a freak right?".. anyways that really hurt. Meanwhile my dad tried to talk me out of it logically like "isn't there an alternative?", "what about having children?", etc.. basically good legitimate questions. I had answers for these because I had thought about this for a while and I explained in a calm manner.
Eventually though, me and my mom got into an argument about this and she told me that she will never accept this. At this point I told them that I was sorry and left..
This really hurt me and I was talking to my friend about this the day after [my one friend who knows what is going on] and just as I told her all the bad stuff, I got a call from my mom! She sounded cool and seemed accepting and asked me to come back on Sunday [today] to have lunch with them. And here I am writing this while they are cooking. Sooo I totally hope this goes well!
//edit to note:
My dad didn't seem to have a big problem with all this which was a surprise.