I don't seem to be feeling complete

[Kelly Blaine]

I just don't feel complete as a woman. I feel natural as a woman but just having a hard time with where do I go to make myself feel complete.

I am in a quandry.

[Aprilrain]

This is an interesting observation but you need to tell us what it is you feel is missing. Why do you need to go anywhere. I'm not saying you don't maybe you do but there is not enough information.

[Felicity71]

sometimes these threads can be too vague.

[Melody Moore]

I have to agree with the last 2 comments in that you haven't given out anywhere near enough information or told us what you are feeling devoid of.

Are you on Hormone Therapy & if so, fo how long? Are you under the care of proper medical practitioners & pyschologist?
What is your transgender status? Are you wanting to transition from male to female? If you are transsexual & answered
yes to all the previous questions, Are you pre-op or post-op? Providing some of this information might give others here
some idea about where your specific problem might be.

Hug Melody :hugs:

[Kaitlyn Michele]

If you are in a quandry, you should get out of it

[PortiaHoney]

Ummm. I know many women who don't feel complete either. They want a child, partner, house, job, goldfish, shoes............ Feeling complete is a state of mind. You just need to find that place. Or be a bit clearer about what is making you feel incomplete. A penis can do that to a woman (and not the lack thereof), especially one of us. Is it the completely desperate feeling that something is missing? Or just not right? Maybe you need a home on the Riviera? Or a bikini that fits just right? You have left the scope wide open hun.

I feel I am a work in progress, but I am a complete person. There is much I want, but that doesn't make me less of a person. They just give me goals to work towards.

[Melody Moore]

I feel I am a work in progress, but I am a complete person. There is much I want, but that doesn't make me less of a person. They just give me goals to work towards.
I really couldn't agree more with this comment. My life as a male was a total mess. Ever since starting my transitioning I have real
peace & happiness and with that I become so much more motivated because there is so much I have to do to achieve my goals. If
I stayed where I was before then I am sure I would have been dead & buried 6 foot under in no time at all. Patience is important &
in the beginning its vital to just keep taking 'baby steps' until you get steady enough on your feet & before you know it you will be
walking tall with lots of confidence & pride. I started my journey almost 6 months ago when I started living full-time as a female & just
today I submitted my application to QAHC (http://www.qahc.org.au) to become a Health Education, Project/Community Development & Administration Volunteer
who will be specialising in transgender related issues in my local community. This a far cry from not hardly being able to get out of bed
about 12 months ago because of the serious depression I was suffering. I have become a volunteer to improve my future prospects as
well as give me a much greater social network. Its these types of things that I believe will help maintain my self-esteem & help me to
achieve my goals. For the first time in my life I feel complete as a person.