day 4 and counting

[cdLainie]

Its my 4th day full time. Its been great so far, had a couple trips out to go shoping and every one has been so nice.
lainie

[Rianna Humble]

Those first few days full time are really precious. I'm glad that you are being well received.

[ReneeT]

Congrats, Lainie! One day and one atep at a time

[Karen564]

I love hearing this...& hope it stays that way for you forever..

[pamela_a]

A great start to your new life. I'm happy to hear it's going well

[Melody Moore]

Congratulations because that is one huge hurdle to overcome.

It is so great to hear that you are being so well received and I would like to hear more about your journey to get
to this point. IE: What feminisation steps you took before you started your Real Life Test? I think this would be good
to also know so others who are also trying to overcome the same hurdles can get some ideas & tips to help them.

One final bit of advice though is 'Don't ever become complacent though about being outed as being trans'.

I just hope you are well prepared to deal with it if it should happen. I found the best way to deal with inquisitive & enquiring minds
is to be upfront, open & honest. I relish these types of opportunities nowadays to educate other people and the end result usually
is some comment along the lines of... 'Good on you for being so courageous to be the real person that you are'. Society is changing and
bigotry is disappearing because of those that are courageous enough to be ambassadors for our cause. Just be well prepared by
arming yourself with all the knowledge you can find about being trans and you can defeat bigotry every single time. If people don't
want to listen & remain ignorant, then just smile as you walk confidently away - because the problem is theirs and not that of your own.

Good-luck and know we are always here for you.

Hugs Melody :hugs:

[cdLainie]

thanks every one its been made a lot easier by moving in with my bf. We went to dinner last night everyone was nice to me. i get to go meet his sister on the weekend. Iv been mostly at home all day but thats ok i dont mind playing house wife untill i can find a job.
thanks

Lainie