My confusing housemate

[joannemarie barker]

As I mentioned on a thread a while ago my housemate came home early and caught me in a bra and panty set.instead of the onslaught I expected,one thing led to another and we had sex.the next day he wouldn't say a word to me.has never mentioned it again and carried on dating a gg.

Last night I was in drab as I normally am when I know he's around and just making some super noodles when he came into the kitchen.my thong mustve been showing.he gave it a tug and said "thong"
Leant over to get a glass and definitely cupped my butt,went back to his room and hasn't said a word since.I don't get what he wants or what he doesn't

[Daenna Paz]

I don't get what he wants or what he doesn't

Sounds like neither does he!! ;^)

[Andria]

Sounds like he likes/wants to mess around with you, but nothing more. Maybe he's comfortable expressing what he wants. Typical guy.

[joannemarie barker]

Sounds like he likes/wants to mess around with you, but nothing more. Maybe he's comfortable expressing what he wants. Typical guy.

I think you may be right.he is probably happy with gay nights as long as nobody else knows

[kimdl93]

yup. Lucky you ;)

[Being Paige]

If I were you I would be getting caught in my bra and panties more often. But I'm not you so you should be getting caught more often. LOL

[April Renee]

He's waiting on you to make the next move. He put it out there the first time and now he feels guilty for making the first move. If he continues to initiate sex then in his mind he's gay/bi and that's something he's not willing to accept yet. And with what little there is to go on I'd say that your behavior isn't doing any good to the relationship the GG has put in to hers with him. Sounds like the start of a messy triangle to me imhop....
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April

[joannemarie barker]

He's waiting on you to make the next move. He put it out there the first time and now he feels guilty for making the first move. If he continues to initiate sex then in his mind he's gay/bi and that's something he's not willing to accept yet. And with what little there is to go on I'd say that your behavior isn't doing any good to the relationship the GG has put in to hers with him. Sounds like the start of a messy triangle to me imhop....
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April

I have thought about her a lot and felt guilty but I have to admit if there's a chance he wants me then I'm his

[danielletorresani]

Definitely sounds like he's confused himself a bit. However, I bet you any amount of money that if you totally dressed up one day and tried to seduce him, he'd let you.

[joannemarie barker]

I'm sure he would.and I crave another night with him but I think I want a bit more

[Cherry Lynn]

I'm sure he would.and I crave another night with him but I think I want a bit more
Seduce him like GG's do men and make him yours.

[joannemarie barker]

Ok I think I'm gonna let him catch me in a miniskirt and see where it takes us :)

[flatlander_48]

Ok I think I'm gonna let him catch me in a miniskirt and see where it takes us :)

Hornyville, or at least to the suburbs...

[jayme357]

Danielle is right on target. He has let you know that he is interested. Now it is up to you to return the favor. Get dressed in your finest and when he walks in the door meet him with a drink and a hug.

[Stephenie S]

Or maybe try TALKING?

That's the way MOST people communicate. Especially roomies.

S

[laura.lapinski]

Let him see you dressed semi-sexy or cute, but don't be overly obvious. Try to be innocent about it, but provocative at the same time like girls do. He will make a subtle move, and then you give him a touch or a pat and watch it catch on fire quickly. My prediction.

[Ericka2]

I so wish I was in your shoes hun!

Love Ericka

[Wendy W]

Don't forget condoms. When in doubt, play safe!!

WW

[Being Paige]

make sure you keep us all up to date! LOL

[Davina-Alba]

I agree with the others who say that he is waiting for you to make the next move. Only you can decide whether you want to or not.

In the past I've had a few flings with men also occasioned by cross dressing but whilst I enjoyed the sex that was all it was and I had/have no interest in having a meaningful relationship with another man.

The very first time was with one of my cousins. There was some family function that he and I managed to avoid going to and I was staying at his house overnight. We had a bottle of cider and a couple of girlie magazines which we were drooling over. These were soft-porn by today's standards mainly being black & white pictures (I'm a old geezer) of girls in suspenders, stockings, basques etc. Lots of tits and bums but very little full frontal.

I was to sleep in his brothers bed in the room they shared and when I was getting undressed he dissapeared out of the room. I thought he had gone to the bathroom but when he came back in he was wearing stockings, suspenders, panties and bra belonging to his older sister. He lent against the wall in the same pose as one of the models in the magazines, pushing his bum out. Maybe it was the cider. Maybe it was the fact that he had a gorgeous arse but one thing led to another and we had a very hot night together particularly when I admitted that I too liked wearing female undies and got into another set of his sister's sexy gear.

We both had and continued to have girlfriends but from time to time cross dressed together. He got married and moved to London but the first time I went to stay with him when I was there on business he admitted that he had told his wife about me and she was very turned on by it and wanted to join in. It was great and I went to stay with them as often as I could. Unfortunately they emigrated to New Zealand shortly after and that was the end of our fun.

So who knows, maybe you and your roomie might end up in a similar relationship.

[Kaz]

It is definately next move territory... he has given you positive affirmation that he was cool with it. Your call!

[MJ]

you need to have a little chat with him so you both know were your going. i don't like playing games does he does he not !!! just talk

good luck

[joannemarie barker]

Well I decided on the chat.he said he doesn't want anything serious to happen.he wants a gg for that.he enjoyed having sex with me but that's all it was.oh well,I enjoyed it too

[ReineD]

On that note, thread closed.

Of course they're playing around with sex. They're young, and they're genetic males.

Why is everyone going on and on about this? There's no need to regale everyone with your private sex life and fantasies. It doesn't sound to me as if you have any issues to resolve.