View Full Version : What one thing would you MOST like to do "en femme?" (but haven't yet)
Starla
12-17-2010, 12:59 PM
What's the one thing that you have not done crossdressed that you are really, really dying to do? For someone still housebound, it could be as simple as walking out the door. For a more experienced CD, it might be a particular venue or activity that you would love to experience as a woman.
Helen 2
12-17-2010, 01:03 PM
Easy: fly somewhere. Malls, casinos, movies, symphony, etc I have done....flying is one frontier I've not crossed....
It feeles intimidating/challenging since I like to wear very firm foundations ala size-zip girdles, stockings, long-line bra.
NV Susan
12-17-2010, 01:06 PM
Great question....my answer would be go to work en femme. It's never going to happen in this lifetime...but next time around......:daydreaming:
Debra Russell
12-17-2010, 01:09 PM
Yes me too! Fly somewhere or travel by train, boat -take a cruse - vacation en femm
Ohhh go to work , that sounds great!!!!!
sissystephanie
12-17-2010, 01:12 PM
I think in my very many years as a CD, the only thing I have never done is fly dressed completely enfemme or work dressed enfemme. But the truth is, I don't really want to do either. I am a man, and proud of it! I just like to dress in feminine clothing! BTW, I have flown underdressed enfemme many times!!
Karren H
12-17-2010, 01:14 PM
I don't really want to fly enfemme... Hell if I never fly again it would be ok with me. What a pain!! And there's really nothing specific I want to do... Certanly not working enfemme!! Hell if I never work again... :D
Chickhe
12-17-2010, 01:24 PM
The thing is, I have done most of what I thought I could never do and I feel great about that! I recommend to anyone, to find a way to do what scares or holds you back, you will feel better and the positive energy rolls over to other parts of your life. As far as adventure goes, I think it would be cool to travel coast to coast visiting as many other CDers and living as full time along the way, but I doubt that will ever happen for many reasons.
joank
12-17-2010, 01:32 PM
I think I would like to work as a woman in an office or be a sales assitant. I would not want to do grunt work enfemme as I have done this on the ranch and slinging s*** is not fun no matter how good you look.
Karren H
12-17-2010, 01:52 PM
Wait!! Just remembered something!!! Las vegas show girl!! Yep... That's on the top of my list! Its the only thing on my list..
FionaO
12-17-2010, 02:08 PM
I'd love to go to a wedding as the bride but that ain't going to happen, so instead I would love to go as a guest in a gorgeous outfit. I'd also love to go to a formal event in a beautiful ballgown. I've got all the outfits I need (including the wedding dress) just need someone to take me as their date.
Jenna Lynne
12-17-2010, 02:13 PM
Wait!! Just remembered something!!! Las vegas show girl!! Yep... That's on the top of my list! Its the only thing on my list..
Ooh, now you've given me something to daydream about!
Maria_1969
12-17-2010, 02:18 PM
Hmmmmm.. I definitly will not fly, I dont want my Junk touched by TSA as male or female.
I think just a day shopping as a woman with my SO, I am too proud of my man side to tarnish it though doing much else and I have done Halloween many times already, but thats easy. :-)
RADER
12-17-2010, 02:26 PM
Wait!! Just remembered something!!! Las Vegas show girl!! Yep... That's on the top of my list! Its the only thing on my list..
I want to see Karren in a Las Vegas show girl costume. A little preview please. LOL Rader
AllieSF
12-17-2010, 02:29 PM
I have done a lot dressed en femme, including flying. So something new would be a long train trip to somewhere fun, preferably overnight in a sleeper car. I still have a lot on my Bucket List, including the opera, symphony, flying internationally, a vacation en femme (if my face can stand shaving very close twice a day), spending a few days in New York City, Washington D.C., driving cross country on a leisurely trip all en femme, etc., etc., etc.!
PS: Meeting my fellow alumni Karren for a weekend of fun and laughs.
Las vegas show girl!! Yep mee to lol
littlemara
12-17-2010, 02:49 PM
I would love to do a full photo shoot in many different outfits.
cindym5_04
12-17-2010, 02:50 PM
I want to go play a round of golf (I'm really bad so I'd be out there a LONG time) or maybe go to a sporting event or a concert en femme. Traveling somewhere by train could be fun too.... I don't want to fly as a girl- I'm nervous enough flying as a guy.
Christie ann
12-17-2010, 04:54 PM
I want to take a week long desert river trip with smooth legs and wearing river shorts and skirts and skimpy tops, bathing suits and just enjoy being outside under the hot sun. The tan lines alone would be worth it...ah what a fantasy.
TracyBoy
12-17-2010, 05:01 PM
I know of this gay bar that accepts crossdressers. If I get passable some day, then I'd really like to go there all dressed up, and maybe dance with a cute CD there. (And maybe go further...!)
suchacutie
12-17-2010, 05:13 PM
Hmmm, great question:
My knee-jerk answer is for my wife and Tina to spend a weekend in Boston in the museums, shopping, dining, and just enjoying themselves....a long weekend!
Hmmmm, on second thought, half the weekend masculine and half the weekend feminine...2 days each...that would be lovely!
Alice B
12-17-2010, 06:21 PM
Make love to my wife.
kayegirl
12-17-2010, 06:54 PM
Two things> Go to work en femme, and be with my kids en femme.
Amber-Sue
12-17-2010, 07:44 PM
attend a large church while en femme
VanessaVW
12-17-2010, 08:07 PM
Hmmmmm.. I definitly will not fly, I dont want my Junk touched by TSA as male or female. I think just a day shopping as a woman with my SO, I am too proud of my man side to tarnish it though doing much else and I have done Halloween many times already, but thats easy. :-)
I went through the full scanner wearing hose last week. No problems and no big deal.
To the original poster, I'd love to be able to attend a ball fully glammed-up. It will never happen though.
jayme357
12-17-2010, 08:23 PM
Maybe for just one night a Las Vegas Call Girl.
Rogina B
12-17-2010, 08:36 PM
Las Vegas call girl..or Hollywood call girl,or NY call girl...ANYTHING FOR THE BIG BUCKS!! Oh,and it would only be for a little while...Right!
Carly D
12-17-2010, 08:45 PM
WALMART... Or any other store.. I tried a few times but just couldn't get out of the car.. It's like being sent to the moon but once there saying "but I don't think I should walk out there"...
Alice Torn
12-17-2010, 08:59 PM
To go to a ball, or even an informal dance, and actually dance! Or go to the symphony or ballet,! Indoors! I went to a classical symohony in the park once last summer dressed up. No problems, but i never met the guy who was to be my date. Part my fault, not looking long enough, leaving too quickly, partly scared!
Diane Smith
12-17-2010, 10:29 PM
I'd love to be a bridesmaid.
- Diane
denisecdfl
12-17-2010, 10:31 PM
I'd love to be a model for a costume catalog, posing for photos in all the different plus-size female costumes.
Or being a model in a fashion show.
Cheryl James
12-17-2010, 11:05 PM
I would like to travel en femme (no male clothes allowed). This would allow me to check flying, car rental, hotel, and restaurants off of my bucket list. Those things are, potentially, achievable. If I want to really dream, Heat or Dolphins dancer/cheerleader.
Stephanie Miller
12-17-2010, 11:49 PM
Karen is thinking out of the box. Show girl. Yes siree girl you go!
I don't know about the call girl Jayme. I need more respect.
I was lucky enough to do the dance thing in a ball gown Louise. It's great!
But for me ....... I want to shake up the world a little.
Move over Obama.... President Stephanie is here :wave:
Now, I would put equality on the fast track!
Diane Lynn
12-18-2010, 07:00 AM
I would love to go to a public waterpark and spend the day in my swimsuit.
Raychel
12-18-2010, 07:29 AM
Just be around the house with an accepting family.
jjjjohanne
12-18-2010, 07:31 AM
I would like to go out as a team with another CD. One of us would be in drab and undercover. The dressed one would do whatever as if they are out by themself. Then when the dressed member leaves the other one gets to see how the people behave. I wonder if all of those polite people who call us ma'am, etc. are also nice after we leave. (Do I have a trust issue?!?)
just do things as i do now...but as loni.
live the life of a girl.
maybe i am a latent ts?
Aleca
12-18-2010, 08:31 AM
Go to the thrift store and the grocery store. I know for fear of discovery though it will take a while to push myself to do so.
Jay Cee
12-18-2010, 08:35 AM
I'd say it would be biking (road or mountain).
TGMarla
12-18-2010, 08:52 AM
This is simple....I'd like to attend SCC. You girls are phenomenal. But without sufficient $$$ and with an unsupportive wife, it's doubtful.
Maria 60
12-18-2010, 08:59 AM
I would love just to walk on the streets, the feel of the cold air on my pantyhosed legs, the wind blowing up my skirt, without the worry of being spoted by someone i know.
Raychel
12-18-2010, 09:16 AM
This is simple....I'd like to attend SCC. You girls are phenomenal. But without sufficient $$$ and with an unsupportive wife, it's doubtful.
Oh, Yeh, that too.
linda allen
12-18-2010, 09:33 AM
1. Walk the streets.
2. Walk the streets and shop with my wife.
3. Role reversal with my wife (at home of course).
samanthalongrednails
12-18-2010, 11:07 AM
Dressed in all black,black shiny catsuit with matching boots,half gloves so you can see my long red nails,my long red wig flowing in the wind in full makeup with a bright pink helmet on my head cruising down the road on my motorcycle.
Cristi
12-18-2010, 11:30 AM
I got a big one checked off on my list this year. I spent a day in Boston fully dressed in a skirt suit, riding the subways and visiting some tourist spots. :)
The only big things left to do some day are to take a multi-day vacation fully dressed and maybe work a part-time job (like at a thrift shop?) en femme.
DebsUK
12-18-2010, 11:41 AM
Oooh, work. Definitely go to work. My boss is really classy and wears great clothes so I'd love to wear the sort of stuff she wears. I'd like to fly, even go on holiday en femme, but in the end I'd probably just wear pretty much the same thing on holiday that I'd wear in guy mode, namely shorts and T-shirts, so work is the thing I'd love to do en femme. Maybe I could do a sponsored thing for Comic Relief or something as an excuse :)
Cristi
12-18-2010, 11:43 AM
*edit*
Sorry... duplicate post. Moderator please delete .
Debutante
12-18-2010, 11:58 AM
There are several:
1. being a bridesmaid;
2. being accepted into a woman's group of some kind, getting to be "one of the girls";
3. working in a PT job as a woman... learning all the ways to act, be, mannerisms...
and creating relationships..
t-girlxsophie
12-18-2010, 12:01 PM
Did a few new things this past year,some big some small but one thing I would love to try is Flying en femme,cant see me experiencing it for a number of reasons but thats the biggie havent tried yet
:hugs:Sophie
Gizmo, Debbie
12-18-2010, 12:06 PM
go to a public swimming pool in a swimsuit i think would be top of my list....but i'd look like a beached whale if i went out in a swimsuit.
Sarah Doepner
12-18-2010, 12:07 PM
I'm still trying to get a chance to go out more in my home city. I get out other places, but not much near where I live.
Connie D50
12-18-2010, 03:35 PM
Some lucky members on here have already done this. But I would love to golf.
Connie
Loveday
12-18-2010, 04:52 PM
Hmmm let's see... Go out shoppping and maybe the Henry Ford museum, and take some pictures, but I would like to pass and maybe recieve some nice comments.
Back again, I would really like to be able to go out to do my daily shopping for small things without having to change back and forth.
Rachel Morley
12-18-2010, 05:34 PM
This is an interesting question. Gosh, I am so lucky, I have done so many things when en femme, including going on a girls-night-out with several GGs where I'm the only CDer and they make no allowance for the fact that I'm crossdressed and treat me as just "one of the girls" and believe it or not I was even a bridesmaid at a "wedding" once (http://www.crossdressers.com/forums/showthread.php?91057-I-was-a-bridesmaid-at-a-wedding!) ... I guess going to the office en femme might be nice (if I was accepted) otherwise I'd say doing anything with a small (or large for that matter) group of GGs is what I like most. :)
LoriB
12-18-2010, 07:08 PM
To go out on New Years Eve to a formal party wearing a gorgeous long gown with all the trimmings and dance the night away.
PretzelGirl
12-19-2010, 11:14 PM
There are so many thoughts here. It does make me appreciate what I have been able to do in the last year when I see that others would like to do it. So I wish it could be so for all of you.
But I think mine would be taking a trip and staying Sue for a week's vacation. I have a pretty busy household, so even a weekend is impossible. I would really be interested in seeing how my comfort level would (or not) change over the course of that week.
lucidgirl
12-20-2010, 02:19 AM
Walk on the beach on a warm summer evening in a flowing dress with no pantyhose/stockings and freshly shaved legs - and oh, most importantly, dangling my sandals in my hands - how delightfully feminine no?
dominique
12-20-2010, 04:48 AM
1. Let my wife dress me then undress me and make love
2. Go shopping with her dressed
danielletorresani
12-20-2010, 05:06 AM
There's four things I think I'd like to do, and I can't decide which one I'd pick if I could only pick one.
1. I'd love to go shopping en femme. I've never had the courage to do this, as when it comes time to pay I'm terrified of trying to fake a female voice when it's probably obvious I'm a man.
2. I'd love to go on a solo vacation en femme. Somewhere secluded by a lake with a small village/town nearby.
3. I'd love to pick up a woman while en femme and make love while we both wear lingerie.
4. I've also toyed with the idea of doing number 3, but with a fellow cd...
Amy Hepker
12-20-2010, 06:02 AM
I would just like to be with a Lady that LOVES me and wants to be with me while I am dressed. We would do everything together and she would help me look the best I can so I can pass as a female. Working as a female, I would love that, I did work as a receptionist at a LGBT Church for about 3 months and I loved every minute. I just want to be one of the girls, Ladies, Women.
erickka
12-20-2010, 06:39 AM
Work in a high end women's clothing and shoe store as a sales associate.
india-jane
12-20-2010, 09:41 AM
just to leave the house fem would be a huge start hehe iv walked around with my so in heels but it was dark and late lol so yea just out in fem
Tasha McIntyre
12-20-2010, 10:05 AM
Quite a few things, but the main thing I want is to have a day shopping with my wife.
We live in hope, don't we :)
TxKimberly
12-20-2010, 10:09 AM
I want to go to a symphony. I've never been to one at all, be it as Kim or Matt . . .
Pythos
12-20-2010, 10:18 AM
Fly.
I want to do my first love while presenting as I would like.
I did it years ago wearing a catsuit, (in a tasteful manner) and it was heaven. Full freedom in the flight deck.
At that time no one really cared.
What holds me back is the culture of aviation.
the_me
12-20-2010, 10:37 AM
I haven't really gotten to do anything, but a nice start might be hot-tubing with some wine and a few of the girls.
MargaretJ
12-20-2010, 05:46 PM
To go out en femme in daylight, and maybe do some shopping. I'm a night person at the moment as far as going out goes.
StacyCD
12-20-2010, 06:01 PM
Vacation enfemme without any male clothes for two weeks.
I'd like to feel confident and brave enough to just go out there and shop, work, do everything I do as my "non-femme projection" and be accepted as totally totally normal, with no recriminations, or even sad acceptances of how brave I am. Just to be able to do it!
And yes your avatar is scary.... and you are a SCARY person in your language! I am sorry... I do not want to offend...
Joann Smith
12-20-2010, 07:14 PM
since we dreaming
At the top of my list would be to go to a NYE party ..
Next would be a attend my family reunion....
Next would be to go see a old school concert ...
Nicole Brown
12-20-2010, 07:30 PM
The one thing that I would love to do is to get up one morning, get dressed, apply my makeup and wig and burn all of my male clothing. Then proceed to live the rest of my life as Nicole.
Davina-Alba
12-20-2010, 07:33 PM
Thats on a need to know basis and if I told you I'd have to shoot you.:uzi:
heathersthomas
12-20-2010, 07:59 PM
I would have to go with a Spa and Salon day diner danceing with limo for the whole day
Heisthebride
12-20-2010, 09:02 PM
Luckily, I am actually getting to do this. My wife is going to be my groom. We were supposed to do this last Halloween but had to reschedule for May 1st. I am having a custom wedding dress made, I have a bridesmaid( a GG friend of mine), a photographer and after the wedding we are going out to dinner and a show. Very excited for an entire day en femme and out in Las Vegas including a wedding vow renewal as the bride.
Joni T
12-20-2010, 09:58 PM
I'd like to dress and go shopping at the mall or go to the cinema or? and not be so nervous all the time. When I dress and go out I'm about as comfortable as a feline at an AKC convention.
Joni
silhouette
12-20-2010, 09:59 PM
Wait!! Just remembered something!!! Las vegas show girl!! Yep... That's on the top of my list! Its the only thing on my list..
haha nice! That's remarkably close to what I have in mind.
I'll be going out dressed in public for the first time in las vegas pretty soon.. all 6'9" of me in heels!
It's a good thing I like attention =x
jacky83
12-20-2010, 11:11 PM
Wait!! Just remembered something!!! Las vegas show girl!! Yep... That's on the top of my list! Its the only thing on my list..
I'm still looking for that perfect show girl costume for you but I forgot your size?
Enchanting
12-20-2010, 11:13 PM
To go out in public confidently. Gonna be a while.
Sophie86
12-20-2010, 11:25 PM
I would like to live for a week en femme. Maybe go on vacation with my wife someplace where we could go out together and not worry about bumping into anyone she knows. I would get up in the morning, put on girl clothes and do all the things I would normally do, but do them as Sophie.
Paula Siemen
12-21-2010, 09:04 AM
Flying?????? I understand that Broom Sticks don't require a security check!
Starla
12-21-2010, 09:26 AM
Flying?????? I understand that Broom Sticks don't require a security check!
They're also environmentally-friendly, and get great mileage! :)
kimmie_sub
12-27-2010, 09:59 AM
I've always wanted to do a long drive enfemme, say more than 4 hours, and not worry about checking in at my destination.
stefanie
12-27-2010, 11:51 AM
i think a vacation would be nice.....24/7 to really see what it feels like to do daily (without the work of course). Ideally, somewhere warm and classy to be able to wear all my fun and sexy clothes. Hawaii would be great...shop, shop , shop too!
alli2229
12-31-2010, 06:13 PM
I would just like to wake up everyday and be able to put on my lingerie and a pretty skirt or dress and pretty shoes or heels and be my soft feminine self.
Alice B
12-31-2010, 06:53 PM
Play golf.
stephanie203
12-31-2010, 10:47 PM
Spend Thanksgiving and/or Christmas with my family as a girl and fully accepted by my parents, grandparents, aunts, uncles etc. OR go to a wedding in a beautiful dress and with a date.
KateSpade83
01-01-2011, 03:29 AM
I'd like to go to work in my skirt suits. The most I ever did was go to a job fair in a skirt suit.
Debutante
01-01-2011, 07:52 AM
I'd love to go shopping, meet a supportive GG, develop a friendship (and only that). Meet other GG women to be friends with, to emulate, relate to as a female, to learn from...
jarts55
01-01-2011, 09:07 AM
Live the next day without wanting to blow my brains out.
Jocelyn Quivers
01-01-2011, 10:34 AM
I would love to go shopping with my mother en-femme. I often get envious when my mother and other GG relatives always go shopping. I'm not sure if there is any special type of bond that GG's experience when shopping with there mothers. If shopping with my mother I would love to hear her opinions on where I shop.
"Jocelyn you shop at Target!! The words Wal-Mart better not even come out of your mouth either or I will dis-own you!!" "No daughter of mine will by dresses from there lets head to Nordstroms's and get you some help with your wardrobe!"
"Jocelyn you are almost 40!" "Don't you think you are a little to old to wear a skirt that short whether you have the body for it or not!!!"
"That's the brand of foundation you wear?" "No wonder your make up does not blend, let me introduce you to Clinique."
" Payless!!! Do not give me that excuse young lady of having large feet, we will find shoes somewhere else that fit!!!
Yes just once in my life I would love to experience an entire shopping day with my mother. :o
adrienner99
01-01-2011, 10:40 AM
(I hope fantasies count.)
I would go back in time and be a prom queen at my high school I would be blond, and wear a pink satin strapless dress, white gloves, white six inch heels and have on a bit too much makeup (especially pink lip gloss), plus a pearl necklace and earrings.
Clethra
01-01-2011, 01:41 PM
I think the biggest thrill for me would be to go shopping for dressses and heels. I'd love to be able to have a girls day out. I'm getting bolder all the time going out with waxed eyebrows, manucured nails, pierced ears, and wearing shorts with my shaved legs. The funny thing is that I don't think that anyone even notices me. The only time that anyone even did a double-take was the greeter at Victoria's Secret. She saw my shaved legs and girlie sandles and just smiled.
Regards,
Clethra
JennyA
01-01-2011, 01:56 PM
I want to go out clubbing and have a night of crazy debauchery.
kristinacd55
01-01-2011, 02:24 PM
I'd love to go to a wedding as the bride but that ain't going to happen, so instead I would love to go as a guest in a gorgeous outfit. I'd also love to go to a formal event in a beautiful ballgown. I've got all the outfits I need (including the wedding dress) just need someone to take me as their date.
Here here, I second that motion!! Of course, I still need a wedding dress too!
maybe retire as a woman?
but i would have to say to just be able to look good (aka right) at the pool side. in a bathing suite (one piece is good, need not be two parts).
i need to find a way to loose 100 pounds first. but it needs to come off the right parts of the body. not just all over. and i am having trouble loosing 30 pounds in general.
karynspanties
01-01-2011, 07:28 PM
Work. I would really like to work enfemme everyday.
Robyn2006
01-01-2011, 07:47 PM
Can't say just one, need a list for this… any one of these would be amazing.
1. In complete femme mode, have lunch with my older sister, as she has been such a huge influence on me and my femme desires. There is so much I'd like to tell her!
2. Have a real, actual date with a man. Truth be told, in femme mode I'm completely heterosexual, if you get my drift. Im afraid my fantasies run a bit wild here...
3. Laying out at the beach, letting the sun caress my body and FINALLY having tan lines!
4. Shopping at the makeup counter at Nordstom's and having a makeover.
5. Having a dinner party at my home and just inviting friends over for a casual night, allowing my true self to just be.
xxxooo,
Robyn
cathie
01-01-2011, 07:51 PM
just be with others en femme. I've never left the house dressed as a gurl
paulinescotlandcd
01-01-2011, 07:55 PM
Simply get my ears pierced
ninapuella
01-01-2011, 08:12 PM
Hmmmm....just going out walking.
Angiemead12
01-01-2011, 08:33 PM
apply to be a victoria secret angel
Leyna
01-01-2011, 09:11 PM
Go dancing. There's nothing more feminine than girls dancing. Sadly, I dance like a dude. And like a dude dancing badly at that. But, oh, to have a guy ask me to a nice slow dance...that would be heaven.
:o
I should say that I'm totally straight. I like girls. But still...
:heehee:
*Andrea*
01-01-2011, 09:41 PM
just like TGMarla and Raychel, go to the SCC. Difficult but I am hopeful I'll make it this year. If not for sure it will be next year.
Krissie1962
01-03-2011, 10:53 AM
sitting on a boulder in the sun and feeling the heat from the sun absorb through my skirt,inches from the water ,and listen to nature.free from anyfear of beeing seen."the line may hit the water"what dreams are made of.:daydreaming:
Krissie1962
01-03-2011, 11:51 AM
fishing/creakside.sitting on a boulder, in the sun and feel the warmth of the sun soaking through my skirt ,and on my skin,with no fear of beeing seen,listening to nature,and the water.and mayby do alittle fishing
SuzanneBender
01-03-2011, 12:05 PM
Winning the powerball!
Actually there are quite a few things on my en femme bucket list. Some include; a night out with my wife that would include dinner, seeing a ballet or show and then shaking our tail feathers out on the town; snow skiing; and taking a cruise.
I could do all of these (if I could convince my wife about that en femme date) and a whole lot more if I win the powerball.
cindym5_04
01-03-2011, 12:40 PM
oh yeah...I'd also REALLY like to go to MAC and get a makeover done.
helena.gcd
01-03-2011, 12:42 PM
just a couple of things to do this new year enfemme that i haven done yet:
1. go shopping
2. tell someone that knows my male-self about Helena, so i can talk with her about this part of me.
Farrah
01-03-2011, 01:02 PM
Wow!! I would love to dress and take pictures as a bride, bridesmaid, be contestant in a beauty pageant, be a lane bryant model...the list could go on and on!!
Jenniferathome
01-23-2011, 03:53 AM
I've never gone out with my wife. That would be otherworldly.
Kendra (Tx)
01-23-2011, 10:17 AM
Oh yeah..Being a bride and having a big wedding....That's what I'd want ....And here's the kicker...Not only all the pre-wedding prep...hair,nails, makeup/pampering and all.....Me? I'd love to go to New York and get my wedding gown at Kleinfelds...:daydreaming:...."Friday on Say Yes to the Dress...Kendra"...:heehee:
http://www.kendra954.com
tammii1111
01-23-2011, 06:49 PM
go to work enfemme would be my pick. just to see the looks on our fello co workers faces would be entertaiment gallore.
Stephanie47
01-23-2011, 08:15 PM
I saw on YouTube the rage in Japan is cross-dressing wait staff in tea houses. I'd love to be a waitress in a fashionable restaurant. I'd want to be dressed in a sheer white blouse which would show the lacy on my white slip and white bra, a black skirt above the knee with a little flare, and, of course under the skirt and blouse I'd wear a Dixie Belle white upper/black lower slip and black panty. Underneath, I'd have on my black garter girdle, black sheer stockings and four inch black heels. I'd love to just work for tips- no need to pay me other than some motivating pats on my a$$.
erica12b
01-23-2011, 08:30 PM
some day i might go out dressed , some day maybe
patti1569
01-23-2011, 08:38 PM
I'd love to get glammed up super sex and go clubing with a bunch of girls. I think it would be such an amazing time.
Fiona Lindum
01-25-2011, 04:34 AM
I would go to the cinema or theatre or possibly take a trip by train.
Allyson Michelle
01-25-2011, 04:47 AM
HMMM... lets see EVERYTHING! I would like to live the rest of my life 24/7 as a female. for now I'll settle with shopping. I've only been out en femme once and it was while driving at night so to go out in broad daylight as a passable girl is my DREAM!:daydreaming:
bgirl
01-25-2011, 10:09 AM
I would love to have a job that doesn't care if I wear makeup in male mode. Or live in a metrosexual city and nobody would care.
EllieOPKS
01-25-2011, 10:14 AM
Ultimately I would love to go on a cruise that had at least 50% of the group being crossdressers. I would love to get en femme and stay that way for an entire 5 day cruise.
As for now, I would love to be comfortable enough to just step out the door.
GirlyBits
01-25-2011, 10:24 AM
I would love to play all of my shows and tour completely dressed!
Karen kc
01-25-2011, 12:50 PM
To drive around this great country of ours,enfemme,with my wife, and stop and see the historical landmarks,as many as possible.My wife says it could happen if we win powerball and I wear drabs for 200 miles away from home.D--- powerball!!
Melanie R
01-25-2011, 03:35 PM
Ultimately I would love to go on a cruise that had at least 50% of the group being crossdressers. I would love to get en femme and stay that way for an entire 5 day cruise.
As for now, I would love to be comfortable enough to just step out the door.
My wife and I sponsor cruises where you can dress enfefemme 24/7. Our last cruise Halloween 2011 had 64 in the group among 2000 other passengers. We have several cruises planned in 2011. there are no cruises where cd,s are in the majority. now Southern Comfort has over 600 but they pay more than the costs of our cruises. our next Halloween cruise costs $400 for a 5day cruise which includes cabin, food, entertainment, etc.
Bootsiegalore
01-25-2011, 03:52 PM
Wait!! Just remembered something!!! Las vegas show girl!! Yep... That's on the top of my list! Its the only thing on my list..
So do it.... Diva Las Vegas is coming in April!
VickysBFF
01-25-2011, 03:52 PM
I want to go to a symphony. I've never been to one at all, be it as Kim or Matt . . .
Kim: This was one of my first outings and it was great. My SO and I went to the local symphony performance and even got to meet and greet a couple of the performers. no problems or issues at all.
joannemarie barker
01-25-2011, 03:58 PM
marry Colin firth and have groundhog wedding night :D
Michelle.M
01-25-2011, 10:22 PM
Have a girl's day out shopping then end the day on a dinner date in an elegant restaurant with a nice gentleman. And then maybe see what happens next!
barbara f.
01-25-2011, 10:47 PM
sit around and have a gabfest. Barbara
Tanya83
01-25-2011, 10:48 PM
Right now, a simple movie night would be a treat. After I achieve that, who knows...
Toronto Kristen
01-26-2011, 12:55 AM
My ambitions for now are pretty modest. I would like to go the whole weekend en femme, including a shopping trip. And like Robyn2006, I would like to go on a real, actual date with a man. I want to have an evening (and maybe night) being treated like a lady.
Christine Andrews
01-26-2011, 06:18 AM
Realistically, simply to reach the stage where I looked good enough to go out enfemme - shopping, maybe cinema - just out in public and not be viewed as the freaky guy in the dress - rather it may be or is a guy but he's made a good effort.
Fantasy-wise, I would be interested in trying (if I were ever to be good enough) living for short period of time enfemme 24/7. It's one thing to be a closeted CD but to actually live it would be a truly great experience - whether good, bad or mixed - it would answer some questions.
faltenrock
01-26-2011, 07:10 AM
I've done a lot of things while dressed. One thing would be going on a ferry with my car, walking on deck, going to the restaurants on the ship.
One more would be a girls night out with one or a few gg friends.
Desiree2bababe
01-26-2011, 08:20 AM
Be escorted to a prom!!
Ash Leland
01-26-2011, 05:27 PM
Walking out the door would be an amzing thing to get done in the near future, but for me, the biggy is finding a boyfriend and going on dates! That's kind of my happy thought before going to sleep...
Eva_nine
01-26-2011, 06:00 PM
i doubt i will ever go to a beach in femme but i would LOVE to go to one in a string bikini with a sunhat and sarong(is that what its called, the kerchief around the waste) and sandals. i would love to get a nice girly tan.
helenejo
01-28-2011, 08:02 AM
I'd love to go shopping for wedding dresses - trying on hundreds, and eventually walking away with the laciest frothiest concoction.
Going to a Venice masqued ball dressed in a beautiful 18th century gown would be nice
sometimes_miss
01-28-2011, 09:09 AM
Hmmm. Took a while, but somethings did occur to me. Well, if I had the body for it, anyway. I'd like to be one of the pretty models walking the runway in the Victoria's Secret show they put on every year. Either that or an NFL cheerleader dancing on the sidelines. Sadly, it's not to be.
5150 Girl
01-28-2011, 05:15 PM
Well,,, I would love to be a bride more than anything.
I'd like to go to church on a regular basis. (I did pull it off on Holoween does that count)?
I'd like to be a model in a fashion cadalog
RobCD
01-28-2011, 05:18 PM
Sissy girl training by a Dominatrix. Or just a more dominant female partner.
It's one of my biggest fantasies.
Cathypb
03-12-2011, 02:45 AM
Slow dancing with Colin Firth in a backless long formal gown.
danielletorresani
03-12-2011, 04:51 AM
For a long time my fantasy was just to walk out my front door, get into my car and go somewhere...anywhere, while en femme. I've done it, and even gone and walked through a casino and pumped gas. It was quite exhilerating. Now I'd say my fantasy is a bit more naughty and would involve a very feminine and passable CD.
suzy1
03-12-2011, 05:00 AM
Go on stage dressed in something very sexy and sing “I feel like a women”
Jasmine Jones NZ
03-12-2011, 05:31 AM
A day out shooping and a visit to the spa with my wife followed by a week long holiday where I am dressed 24/7
Samantha Scott
03-12-2011, 06:57 AM
A day out shooping and a visit to the spa with my wife followed by a week long holiday where I am dressed 24/7
Sounds like a great day out to me. I would also love a day at the spa getting the full works done and then lunch and shopping, maybe for a sexy black dress to wear out to a posh restuarant with my wife.
Patricia Jane
03-12-2011, 08:45 AM
I would love to go out to a nice restuarent with my wife with both of us dressed to the nine's!
Joan Lea
03-12-2011, 08:51 AM
I would love to go to one of the classy horse races like the Derby. All dressed up in a summer hat, flowing dress, sexy strappy heels and gloves. Rubbing elbows will the other rich and famous at the track. My girlfriend and I would drink fancy drinks and warding off all the men.
Jessica_Dillon
03-12-2011, 09:14 AM
I've done a lot as Jessica. Sometime I'd like to take a trip/flight en femme, but since I work for the airlines...not sure how that'd go over. Really, the one thing I really want to do more than anything else in the whole wide world is be a Bridesmaid for a friend at their wedding. That would be so cool!
vickyv
03-12-2011, 09:49 AM
I just want to go out in public - but in a protected cd friendly place
katesometimes
03-12-2011, 10:12 AM
Really, the one thing I really want to do more than anything else in the whole wide world is be a Bridesmaid for a friend at their wedding. That would be so cool!
I'd love to do the whole bride thing...be the princess for a day! Want to be my maid of honor?
_-Tatyana
laura.lapinski
03-12-2011, 10:22 AM
There are so many things I'd like to do. I'd love to live in fem for a whole week while on vacation. Another thing I'd like to do is go to a party with a bunch of other Cders, socialize, and dance. Maybe feel what its like to slow dance with a man (or if I'd want to when dressed)? Other things I'd like to do is just sit and have a glass of wine while wearing a sexy dress with one or two other gurls and talk. I'd love to pose with another sexy gurl in a photo-shoot.
Laura
Makina
03-12-2011, 01:41 PM
I would like to prepare my wedding as a woman. Shopping for a wedding dress, being pampered, including hair style and make up. And finally, getting married en femme.
Sarasometimes
03-12-2011, 02:10 PM
Davids Bridals will let you do this. I bought a $99 wedding gown after trying on about 12 to15 gowns. Mine was a corset backed mermaid style!!
For me there are a couple things. After getting my chest waxed, going to a diferent salon enfemme for leg, underarm and brow wax. A day at work in a really femme job, like salon or dental receptionist. Going for a run enfemme. Has anyone done the last one? How were you attired?
alas a bad car accident killed my chance to do a cross country trip, and play tourest in Was DC.
had planed on doing this as Loni, and was going to try and meet - up with some others.
but then if I can find $30 - 50 grand for a new diesel powerd truck it can be on again.
was to be a good five weeks of time enjoying life.
but now with the problems in muslam land and it driving up fuel costs who knows if anybody can afford a trip in a couple years.
Byron
03-12-2011, 05:01 PM
Go out to a club one evening.
Nancie64
03-13-2011, 12:11 AM
Just kind of funny how all of us have a little different idea of what we would like to do. I myself am heading to Vegas in a couple of weeks and plan to have a makeover and do a photo shoot. I hope that things go well. I have had makeovers before and will go back to Stephanie again. Love her work.
joan47
03-13-2011, 05:43 AM
Bridesmaid or go to ballet class
leotard fan
03-13-2011, 06:11 AM
i would like walk on the street and do my normal live without people prejudice me for i wear how i like it.
Megan70
03-13-2011, 07:51 AM
Wait!! Just remembered something!!! Las vegas show girl!! Yep... That's on the top of my list! Its the only thing on my list..
I'm with Karren... Las Vagas showgirl. Always been a fantasy getting all dressed up in the dressing room in ltight corset bodice,sequins , feathers, headdresses, stockings and really high heels, then have some of the other girls help me do my makeup and fuss with the wig while stare at myself in the lightbulbed mirror being transformed by beautiful women, in their company. Then when all is finished them taking me by the hand and we enter stage right and put on a show and no one is ever the wiser that a CD is playing a showgirl.. but the chorus line of girls think its really need and backstage encourage me to stay and become one of them on a reagular basis.
Wow!!!! Nirvana!
Byron
03-13-2011, 12:03 PM
i would like walk on the street and do my normal live without people prejudice me for i wear how i like it.
This would be the overall ultimate for a lot of us girls I think. Well said. : )
AKAMichelle
03-13-2011, 12:12 PM
I work very hard at completing my bucket list. I have scratched a lot of items off the list already but these are some of the remaining items.
Go to a play dressed (already gone to a ballet)
Fly internationally dressed (already flown several times in the US)
Spend a holiday in Italy or Scotland as Michelle
See a Broncos football game as Michelle (Going to Avs game on the 22nd)
There are a lot more items but they appear and get knocked off the list so fast. These items will be on the list for awhile just due to circumstances.
wearingtanpantyhose
03-13-2011, 01:32 PM
Checking into a hotel fully dressed with no males clothes in my suitcase. I've dressed hundreds of times in hotel rooms, and occasionally ventured out dressed, but I've never actually traveled and checked in as Mary. Even room service would be a blast. I can't count the number of times I changed back to drab just to accept my room service, and then quickly "re-dressed" to enjoy my meal as a girl.
cdona20
03-13-2011, 02:21 PM
I have 2 things I want to try. 1st, go out in public en femme (baby steps). 2nd, do some CD modeling. But I don't think I could ever do those until I'm 100% sure I could pass.
Scully
03-13-2011, 04:02 PM
I'd imagine most gurls on here would like to do many of the things mentioned in all of these response posts. Reading them through, one common thread is that a lot of us would like to be 100% passable, or better yet 100% passable and sexy/gorgeous. Beyond that, many would like to be able to also be out in public, dressed all the time, with nobody caring about them being a gurl.
I've also desired these things, but being married (like many here), I would love to be 100% passable again and not have to be closeted about dressing. I look so foward to times when I can be alone for a few days so that I can feel the lovely sensation of false fingernails, full makeup, a great wig, and dressed all day. If I could do that a lot more often, and lived shaved 24x7, I'd probably be in heaven enough. Kinda funny, I don't see many people expressing the desire to have a serious fling with another gurl or even a guy when dressed. Am I the only one who would find that something fun to do enfemme? :-)
Really simple. I'd like to be able to throw on a floral top, put on a little lipstick, and then go and see somebody I know who wouldn't even notice anything different or unusual about me.
Yes, fantasyland, but that's a lot of what CDing is about...
CaitlynRenee
03-13-2011, 05:43 PM
Fly????.................. The look on the TSA guy's/gal's face alone would be a classic. I could just see the TSA guy looking at the back scatter and wondering, "HUH????"
Better yet, the TSA gal doing the patdown. Can you say SCREAM when she touched your junk????
Might just be worth it to get barred from flying. Oh what a wicked sense of humor I have.
On a more serious side though, I'd love to live in a world where it it wouldn't matter whether I was dressed as Gengis Khan or Rebecca from Donneybrooke Farm, a Chip and Dales stud or a Victorias Secret model. A world where no matter how one dressed or how one identified at the moment, one would always be accepted, treated accordingly as male or female.
I'd like to know that if I met another CDer (from this forum perhaps?), whether we were both en femme, en drab or one of each, we could spend quality, fun time together with no false expectations or misperceptions. A time when we could talk fashion, cars, silks and satin or couger hunting or a hundred other subjects. And if I felt girly and sad, or dude and mad, have someone to comfort me, hold me, and understand. I guess that's what friends are for.
Courtney
03-13-2011, 07:58 PM
most definately make love to an accepting and understanding woman, and have her enjoy it too haha!
alli2229
03-13-2011, 11:43 PM
I would just like to wake up everyday and be able to put on my lingerie and a pretty skirt or dress and pretty shoes or heels and be my soft feminine self. I would also love to meet a couple who both love to dress in soft feminine sexy lingerie with me and make love all night long.
janec
03-14-2011, 07:46 AM
Mine is realy simple compared to some here i would love to spend time at home dressed as jane with my wife and just having a nice time together (maybe some day)
Rachel05
03-14-2011, 02:24 PM
For me it is so simple, I just want to be brave enough to go out in public fully dressed, just to wander around and be me
Julogden
03-14-2011, 06:59 PM
I'd like to live life while dressed as I prefer, 24/7.
Pythos
03-18-2011, 11:41 AM
One thing I forgot. Do some modeling in my fem mode. Actual honest to god modeling. LOL. I think that would be a blast, and I could make a meager income doing it.
Tina P Hose
03-18-2011, 02:46 PM
3. Shoppng
2. Partying
1. Making Love
Melanie R
03-18-2011, 03:26 PM
Over the last 30+ years I have done most of the things on my CD bucket list with great success and enjoyment. I would love at attend a state dinner as Melanie at the White House. Who knows that could happen while OBama is in the White House before the religious right take over.
cindybabe
03-19-2011, 12:06 PM
make love to my wife also
AKAMichelle
03-19-2011, 12:45 PM
I want to go to a symphony. I've never been to one at all, be it as Kim or Matt . . .
I just did the ballet and it was a blast. Tuesday I am going to an Avs game as Michelle
Christine1954
03-19-2011, 06:40 PM
The one thing I would like to do most enfemme is to be 24/7.....................Highly unlikely........................I now want to cry....................
Jennifer Soames
03-19-2011, 07:03 PM
I'd like to have a nice romantic dinner with an accepting GG, both of us wearing wearing a LBD, and talk and talk and talk some more answering all her questionsand asking a few for myself.
Go into a crowded place, mingle and have a great time with everyone accepting...
Amanda_Nicole
03-20-2011, 11:33 PM
Just to go out totally dressed as a girl in public for shopping, movies, etc..
AmberM
03-21-2011, 12:48 AM
Making Amber's first confident steps out into the world.
SandraInHose
03-21-2011, 08:23 PM
So many great answers! But for me, just like in several other posts, just going out anywhere en femme would be gratifying. Shopping, clubbing, a wedding reception or other formal event, etc. Hell, even Walmart or the grocery store would be good enough for me!
GirlieAmanda
03-21-2011, 08:40 PM
I am so inspired by this thread. I am taking baby steps recently since I don't have a private home base yet. I WILL satisfy these dreams soon. Go to the movies, Go shopping all friggin' day to many stores, Go to a restaurant and order, have a conversation with a stranger in public even if brief, Take a trip somewhere, go to a nightclub. I have to get over the fear of people possibly reading me even if I look good. I have to just own it. Just do it!
Lauren KS
03-21-2011, 09:20 PM
All I have is amateur shots; I think it would be fun to get a professional photo shoot, and see how good I can really look!
Electra
03-22-2011, 10:10 AM
Go for dinner in a posh restaurant and DANCE, being asked by someone.
sometimes_miss
03-23-2011, 09:11 AM
Too easy. But it couldn't happen, so it just remains a dream for me. NFL cheerleader. I'm not interested in all the pyramids and tumbling that college cheer squads do; but I'm a very good dancer, and when I was younger could have easily done what the dancers do. Errrrrrrr....well, maybe not in high heels without some practice, anyway; I've never danced in heels.
marissa_sissy
03-23-2011, 09:32 AM
I would like to go lingerie shopping. I would be embarrassed, but I would love to visit a La Senza.
Annaliese2010
03-23-2011, 11:33 AM
Have wild sex with another girly girl (or 2 or 3 or...) allll weekend looooong. Sorry...but you asked! Not lustful, indecent. Just honest, unabashed. ;)
beth_30
03-24-2011, 09:39 AM
I guess I'm fairly lucky because I have so much yet to do :)
Realistically, I'd like to spend a day with my wife going out and doing stuff - museum/gallery/shopping/whatever.
An unrealistic dream to go to work as Beth and be Beth for so long I forget there was anything else.
Mercedes
03-27-2011, 01:38 AM
I will have to make it more than just ONE thing as it would be a full day starting with a professional make over, then shopping for the perfect outfit(s) (and lingerie) so I am ready for dinner and dancing till the clock strikes midnight.
Ahhh, to dream.
Mercedes XOXOXO
Billie Jean
03-27-2011, 06:46 PM
I know of this gay bar that accepts crossdressers. If I get passable some day, then I'd really like to go there all dressed up, and maybe dance with a cute CD there. (And maybe go further...!)If they accept crossdressers then you shouldn't worry about passing. I recently went to a bar that is accepting and I have a beard. I was dressed to the nines. I had so much fun there I went back a couple of days later and am planning my next outfit for the next time. I'd like to go out to dinner with another crossdresser and then maybe to that bar again. Billie Jean
tracijae
03-27-2011, 07:37 PM
I want to work in a womens clothing store, or the womens department....I'd love to help the ggs pick out clothes
cdtroubles
03-27-2011, 10:09 PM
just to walk down the street in broad daylight with absolutely no fear.
me
joselyn318
03-28-2011, 07:58 AM
Going for a run enfemme. Has anyone done the last one? How were you attired?
I have done this several times. I usually just wear a black or blue nike sportsbra top with a sports bra underneath and forms. Like this:
http://www.roadrunnersports.com/rrs/products/NKL1373/
I also wear woman running shorts when running.
As far as things to do en femme but haven't yet I would like to:
1) Go on vacation en femme - fly, don't bring any male clothes at all, lay out on the beach in one of my bikinis
2) Go to a formal wearing beautiful dress
3) work en femme
4) run a marathon en femme
Lainie
03-28-2011, 09:04 AM
I've done pretty much everything I ever wanted to do--often after long intervals of agonizing and fear--that can be done purely of my own accord. What I haven't done are some things that require the cooperation of others. Big fantasy: modeling in a fashion show--say for charity--where everyone knows me but doesn't know I cross dress. The other participants would choose outfits and I'd walk down the runway, being as ladylike as possible. Even more unlikely fantasy: my wife accepts that I dress, and that I go out once or twice a month with like-minded people here in Houston.
Jessica2010
03-28-2011, 11:49 AM
There's a few of us that would like to dance the night away in formal ballgowns... There's power in numbers! I can rent an entire hotel for a few days and we can take over the place and organize our own formal ball. In the day we can use the pool, hang out in the spa or just mingle in the bar and restaurant. Can anyone make it to Toronto in 2011? :)
tiffanyjo89
03-28-2011, 12:03 PM
I don't know if I've replied to this thread, but I'd love to do three things.
1) Either go to a pool or a lake or a beach for a swim in a cute one or two piece.
2) Go shopping around town (maybe not my town, but you get the point) as a regular girl.
3) Go on vacation and spend the time there as a girl.
AddyCD
03-28-2011, 12:36 PM
I would love to spend the weekend femmed up. I hope to soon as I have plans to do it in April.
kristine239
03-28-2011, 04:07 PM
All of you folks need to get out to one of the various conferences. Everyone one of you would realize your dreams come true. And yes, bring your SO.
Come on girls, it's a lot easier than you think. The only thing holding you back is YOU. Not society. www.transeventsusa.org/empire
JaytoJillian
03-28-2011, 04:18 PM
I don't really want to fly enfemme... Hell if I never fly again it would be ok with me. What a pain!! And there's really nothing specific I want to do... Certanly not working enfemme!! Hell if I never work again... :D
Ditto on what Karren said!!!!
freeindress
03-29-2011, 11:46 AM
Learn and play netball in an all-girl team.
tracijae
04-02-2011, 07:27 PM
You can do it Amanda! You are a verry pretty girl
lexinicole
04-02-2011, 08:53 PM
Lots of great responses here. I'm looking to live full time in the future. I certainly look forward to things like going to the nail salon, getting my hair done, shopping, oh the shopping! However, the things I find myself looking forward to more are more mundane. Meeting new and interesting friends and spending time with them. Hopefully finding a job that I like. Running errands. Playing sports. I was married once and it would be OK if I never have a significant relationship again. I would be lying if I said I didn't want a significant relationship again. It would definitely be wonderful to find a nice, attractive girl to spend time with. So......in a perfect world.....the thing that I would say that I look forward to the most is getting ready for a nice evening with that girl and then enjoying it. Having plenty of time for a relaxing bubble bath with some great music playing. Enjoying a glass of wine while I put on my makeup and do my hair and pick out just the right thing to wear. Then enjoying a great evening with her. Could be dinner, drinks, a club, a play, whatever. Just some musings from Alexis.
Tina P Hose
04-02-2011, 09:23 PM
make love with another CD
marny
04-02-2011, 11:50 PM
Have gone into the boardroom underdressed for years. Would love to go in DRESSED! :D I rock them on their ears as it is. Whoo! that would be fun :devil:
VioletJourney
04-02-2011, 11:53 PM
To be honest... just become completely en femme. :(
Oh, and after I actually get to create my female self (including voice), my first order of business will be to sing something. I'm not even a singer, but I think my female side is, probably because my vocal range is very high but not very low.
pink femme
04-07-2011, 12:53 AM
Has to be a make over and photo sitting - spending an hour having hair and make up done and then posing for a professional photographer - oh to dream.
Pinkx
christinac
04-07-2011, 06:43 AM
What's the one thing that you have not done crossdressed that you are really, really dying to do? For someone still housebound, it could be as simple as walking out the door. For a more experienced CD, it might be a particular venue or activity that you would love to experience as a woman.
Too many things to list. One of my biggest wishes is to go on a nice long cruise or spend a nice long weekend with fellow CD/TG's.:daydreaming:
It would really be wonderful if I could meet a nice, kind, generous, and very wealthy man or woman (I not picky) who would foot the bill.:daydreaming::daydreaming:
Danni Renee
04-07-2011, 06:48 AM
I just want to go for my first walk outside, feel the breeze in my hair, and the warm sun on my skin, all while being the REAL me instead of the facade I display.
ChloeB
04-09-2011, 02:40 PM
I'd love to go to a hairdresser's salon and have my own hair styled in a feminine style, then go to a swish restaurant with my son
SarahMarie42
04-09-2011, 02:58 PM
Go out with my GG friends to shop, get our nails done, and have lunch. Just something simple like that.
MissBobbi
04-13-2011, 04:42 AM
Go out to a TG party and speak with other TG'ers...
barbara gordon
05-07-2011, 03:39 PM
I would like to drive cross country for a few months , and have as many makeovers as I could afford and go to cd friendly restaurants ,bars and clubs in the cities . and of course visit every department store lingerie department I could find!
toriwilliams
05-07-2011, 04:03 PM
I am looking forward to one day doing a charity walk.
pantynhoseman
05-07-2011, 04:09 PM
For me it would be everything. To be able to enjoy my life as the girl I was meant to be.
connie23
05-07-2011, 04:36 PM
I would like to go to a fetish party in a tight latex outfit and sky high boots and dance and then find a nice person to speak with about my hobbies. I want to be free to let someone else know exactly what makes me feel attractive and alive.
Connie
well i get to do one thing next month. a whole weekend (4 days) as loni. doing the pride thing in SF this year and (IF) my dress gets here in time (special order) i will be one of the southern bells in the parade on sunday.
a blue with white leaf pattern.
do to possible legal (credit card & check-in thing) i must check in as the male self :-( but after that just loni for four days...maybe longer. :-)
Loni
Nancie64
05-07-2011, 10:26 PM
I have done many things other than shopping fem and the photo shoot. I do beleive that a photo shoot would be the best thing every.. Almost did the photo shoot out in Vegas in March but it turned rather warm, high 80's, and we had planned to go out to Red Rock, and I would have wanted to be dressed to the nine's. might have been to warm. Will try again in October, should be cooler.
Lizeth
05-08-2011, 01:23 AM
Try working in femme. Not at my current job though. I think ironically my dream would be to go back to my last job femmed and see who recognizes me:daydreaming:
Ginger88
05-10-2011, 10:48 PM
I would love to get a part time job that i could work as a women. Something girly like a tanning Salon.
JessicaDC
05-11-2011, 12:38 PM
I would love to spend a long weekend in some place like Vegas, maybe either with a guy friend or another CD and we'd go to a bachelorette party either with at a strip club or a private hotel suite party...
satin n lace
05-11-2011, 12:54 PM
for me and the wife to go to Montreal Fetish Weekend as latex twin sisters
Raynefall
05-11-2011, 01:09 PM
For me I would just love to be outside. Lol. Go and do some shopping or something. It would be great.
Shanice
05-11-2011, 09:35 PM
The next step for me would probably to go outside, or for a drive. Although, getting pulled over would kind of suck. Another goal would be go to a dance club or something, but that'll take balls on my part (pardon the pun).
Taylor Skyrim
05-12-2011, 11:21 AM
For me it would be to go outside further then my mailbox(I live in an apartment building). Go shopping at a Victoria's Secret(but i have a long way to go till that will happen).
Corrina
05-12-2011, 11:41 AM
I really just wanna go out shopping en femme, a nice trip to the mall would be great!!
"Mary"
05-12-2011, 11:53 AM
Maybe for just one night a Las Vegas Call Girl.
Ooooohhh! Very daring! You've got me thinking, but I'm going to say BRIDESMAID. The whole experience of rehearsal, rehearsal dinner, the wedding, the reception, the bridesmaid shenanigans... wink wink....
donnatracey
05-13-2011, 02:25 AM
Originally Posted by jayme357
Maybe for just one night a Las Vegas Call Girl.
I'm just afraid I wouldn't be able to stop after 1 night!!!.....:devil:
Dr.Susan
05-13-2011, 07:10 AM
Try on a bunch of shoes at a Christian Louboutin Boutique.
StarrOfDelite
05-13-2011, 01:20 PM
Play tennis in something that Serena would wear. The game is just too physically athletic, hot and sweaty, for wigs and makeup.
Michaela42
05-14-2011, 10:43 AM
Go to the grocery store, get the mail, walk in the park, . . . I really want to be a girl. Damn you universe!
/shakes fist at space and time
jaqueline1
06-08-2011, 07:59 PM
i would love to be a bridesmaid their dresses are always beautiful, I would also like to shop in victoria secret, and go clubbing enfemme
breannahenderson
06-09-2011, 02:03 AM
Go shopping with my wife.
*Kira*
06-09-2011, 03:42 AM
Look absolutely stunning, go clubbing, and get free drinks from admiring patrons =D
Try working in femme. Not at my current job though. I think ironically my dream would be to go back to my last job femmed and see who recognizes me:daydreaming:
I love how you think!!
At my job, I currently do a notch below 'drag' makeup, and go in gender neutral-ish fem clothes =)
JenniferS
06-09-2011, 12:55 PM
I would love to go to a professional Make up Artist ( cause I need all the Help I can get) and then go shopping to a Mall with my Wife.
sweetmelody
06-09-2011, 01:29 PM
I would love to go to go out in an incredible gown and have dinner and see a Broadway show.
spotlessMind
06-09-2011, 03:05 PM
I would absolutely LOVE to perform a gig with my band "en femme". I haven't really done much cross-dressing at all, but I get the feeling that it would be less of a shocker to mix in a form of art when going public. People might just consider it an act (i'll fool them all HA HA HA!)
Audrey34
06-12-2011, 06:18 PM
Put on a nice casual top and skirt, my favorite flats, walk over to the park near my home, sit on a bench and work on my crossword puzzles then walk happily back home without incident from anyone! It's a simple wish and who knows, maybe it will be a reality for me one day.
-Audrey
Cheryl T
06-13-2011, 08:10 PM
Go away on a vacation for a week completely as Cheryl.
We've been discussing this and it may happen this fall.
Maria Blackwood
06-13-2011, 08:15 PM
Take to the high seas as a pirate queen.
dana55
06-13-2011, 09:52 PM
I would say going to church in femme or some type of large expo somethign held in a convettions center liek a home show
Mistybtm
06-13-2011, 10:36 PM
Originally Posted by jayme357
Maybe for just one night a Las Vegas Call Girl.
I'm just afraid I wouldn't be able to stop after 1 night!!!.....:devil:
:battingeyelashes::battingeyelashes:Oh yes I would love doing this as well but any where and for more than one knight:battingeyelashes::battingeyelashes:
CindyT
06-13-2011, 11:50 PM
I would just be happy to get outside somewhere that I would not be recognized! Perhaps with some other CD's???
leannejames2011
06-15-2011, 04:29 PM
I would have to say I want to do everything for the rest of my life. But that isn't likely to happen any time soon. So, a lot of you said to be bridesmaids. I want to be a bride. I'm single now and in a committed relationship with a woman who knows about Leanne. We've been shopping together at a mall. We've been shoe shopping together. We've eaten out together. We've even taken trips together. All the time it was my girl and Leanne. I think it would be great to work as Leanne, but I don't think my employer would be so keen on the idea. One day I hope to be rich enough to retire and spend all day as Leanne, but until then, I'll have to live with what I have. I'd like to be able to hang out with friends en femme. Maybe even find another cross dresser in the area to become friends with. It seems my list fairly long and getting longer as I think about it, but then again, my first line said everything for the rest of my life. So, we'll have to leave it there.
Leanne
the_me
06-15-2011, 05:39 PM
Looked back on my old post in this thread, "wine and hot-tub with some other girls". Still have to do that! Did add and cross off a few off my list since then.
Been out as Celes in public for a day (have the sun-dress sun-burn to prove that...), been in a parade as Celes, been asked out (and went) as Celes...
make love with another CD
that...
And this Saturday it looks strongly like I will get to live out another dream, be a waitress for a day! :<3:
Going to have to start setting higher goals, and it's all thanks to all of you here giving that extra courage! I'm starting to forget what 'fear' is. Haha.
Aim for the stars, girls! I'll be cheering you on!
Kendra Sue
06-15-2011, 07:21 PM
I like your answer. Would be fun
Farrah Rose
06-15-2011, 07:24 PM
I would want to go shopping with my wife, i heard that and liked that one, and probably go on a beach vacation somewhere cool.
veroncia57
06-15-2011, 11:31 PM
Wait!! Just remembered something!!! Las vegas show girl!! Yep... That's on the top of my list! Its the only thing on my list..
I'll buy the first ticket and throw you a rose.
wantstocrossdress
06-16-2011, 02:01 AM
probably go to a dress up party where we all come in as guys, start dressing up as ladies from head to foot, and have drinks and chat as ladies. no men allowed(well men who are dressed as men). women can come but they have to be as femininely dressed as us. we'd probably have a slumber party too in pajamas(bras and panties underneath) or lingerie... and leave the next day as men. :D
sylvia uk
06-16-2011, 09:35 AM
Do crossdressed karaoke.
Beverly
06-16-2011, 01:59 PM
I am with most everyone else with flying. I could just imagine myself being dressed in hose and heels, with my hair and makeup perfect! Sitting between two handsome business men on a three hour flight
donnatracey
06-16-2011, 02:11 PM
LOL I don't even like flying en drab....to each their own, I suppose......:straightface:
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