TeenageCrossdresser
09-16-2005, 04:40 AM
Hey guys, don't mean to bore your heads off with my life, it's just that you are the only ones who truely understand where I'm coming from. I just turned twenty, three days ago (9/13), and life for me is just really confusing right now, I feel like for some reason I'm failing at life, lemme tell you why...
I've been crossdressing since I was about 6... Like most CD's, I started with my mom's clothes and stayed on that route until I started taking stuff from the laundrymat in my apartment complex. Eventually I got comfortable with buying some of my own stuff. Okay, that's taken care of...
For the most part I was fine with my crossdressing til I hit about 18. It was then that I started wondering if what I was doing was right. My parents had drilled into me to not wear women's clothes, that they were for women not men. I started doubting my sexuality since I had started getting attracted to crossdressing type porn and thoughts (when I was masterbating). I thought for sure I was gay, or at least bisexual, but I was a virgin, and I used that as an excuse as to why I was so confused.
Two months before I turned nineteen, I started dating a co-worker of mine. She was really cool and down to earth, eventually I lost my virginity to her. Only bad thing is, it felt great, don't get me wrong, but sex was not all I thought it was going to be, I somehow felt more turned on while dressed and doing it myself, this lead to total confusion in my part. I shrugged it off as a possible phase.
Eventually I got the guts to tell my girlfriend that I wore womens underwear (I did not tell her I completely dressed yet). Surprisingly, she took it very well. She said it was somewhat of a turn on for her, and that was cool. I soon admitted that I like to fully dress. Once again, she didn't have a problem with this, we did each others makeup, pick out stuff at stores...etc
Six to eight months into the relationship, I noticed she was going over to this guy scott's house a lot. She said she was going to hang out with his fiance, but she lied. She was cheating on me for about 2 months before I found out from her sister. All of a sudden, she goes around telling people I'm a crossdresser and I like anal sex, and I'm bisexual...etc. I told people she was all hyped up on drugs (which she was and everyone knew it, hence the reason they believed it.... I think...), and that she was just trying to start shit.
Since the breakup, I've been very depressed while thinking about my life. My parents and I do our best to live a religous life. I've always tried to stay out of trouble, and do what's right in my life...etc. I'd say I've done a decent job of that. I'm a very caring person, and I always do my best to help out people when I can, even if it puts me out in some way. I can't but help to think that I'm doing something wrong because my religion tells me that I have to be a man, and that's why god created man and woman, and the whole crossdressing porn, bisexual "wonderings" thing is extremely against the religion. I have this constant fear as funny as it may seem, that I may burn for all eternity because of my lifestyle. I really don't mind if people somehow found out about the things I do in life... that's just an opinion, I can get over those... but in my religion, what I do may have me suffering for the rest of eternity, and I just really freak out sometimes when I think about that.
To anyone in here who has delt with this... What do you do to help with your feelings, or what do you do to not have to think such things? Once again, I hate to bore you nice people with this EXTREMELY LONG POST, but you guys are the few who really can understand and give real, honest feedback. Thanks for your time, and responses gals! :D
I've been crossdressing since I was about 6... Like most CD's, I started with my mom's clothes and stayed on that route until I started taking stuff from the laundrymat in my apartment complex. Eventually I got comfortable with buying some of my own stuff. Okay, that's taken care of...
For the most part I was fine with my crossdressing til I hit about 18. It was then that I started wondering if what I was doing was right. My parents had drilled into me to not wear women's clothes, that they were for women not men. I started doubting my sexuality since I had started getting attracted to crossdressing type porn and thoughts (when I was masterbating). I thought for sure I was gay, or at least bisexual, but I was a virgin, and I used that as an excuse as to why I was so confused.
Two months before I turned nineteen, I started dating a co-worker of mine. She was really cool and down to earth, eventually I lost my virginity to her. Only bad thing is, it felt great, don't get me wrong, but sex was not all I thought it was going to be, I somehow felt more turned on while dressed and doing it myself, this lead to total confusion in my part. I shrugged it off as a possible phase.
Eventually I got the guts to tell my girlfriend that I wore womens underwear (I did not tell her I completely dressed yet). Surprisingly, she took it very well. She said it was somewhat of a turn on for her, and that was cool. I soon admitted that I like to fully dress. Once again, she didn't have a problem with this, we did each others makeup, pick out stuff at stores...etc
Six to eight months into the relationship, I noticed she was going over to this guy scott's house a lot. She said she was going to hang out with his fiance, but she lied. She was cheating on me for about 2 months before I found out from her sister. All of a sudden, she goes around telling people I'm a crossdresser and I like anal sex, and I'm bisexual...etc. I told people she was all hyped up on drugs (which she was and everyone knew it, hence the reason they believed it.... I think...), and that she was just trying to start shit.
Since the breakup, I've been very depressed while thinking about my life. My parents and I do our best to live a religous life. I've always tried to stay out of trouble, and do what's right in my life...etc. I'd say I've done a decent job of that. I'm a very caring person, and I always do my best to help out people when I can, even if it puts me out in some way. I can't but help to think that I'm doing something wrong because my religion tells me that I have to be a man, and that's why god created man and woman, and the whole crossdressing porn, bisexual "wonderings" thing is extremely against the religion. I have this constant fear as funny as it may seem, that I may burn for all eternity because of my lifestyle. I really don't mind if people somehow found out about the things I do in life... that's just an opinion, I can get over those... but in my religion, what I do may have me suffering for the rest of eternity, and I just really freak out sometimes when I think about that.
To anyone in here who has delt with this... What do you do to help with your feelings, or what do you do to not have to think such things? Once again, I hate to bore you nice people with this EXTREMELY LONG POST, but you guys are the few who really can understand and give real, honest feedback. Thanks for your time, and responses gals! :D