To Dress or Not to Dress

[juliecdfl]

So I haven't dressed in over 2 months :-( My wife knows I dress and would go to her mothers every other week with our daughter for girl time. During these visits I would have several hours to do my makeup, dress, and relax. She knew I dressed during these times and was neither for nor against it. It is one of those things she is not into but will not prohibit me from doing. Anyway, these visits stopped two months ago and i am not sure when they will start back up. Because of this I have let myself go. I haven't shaved in 2 months and put on some extra pounds. I made a comment to my wife that I need to start shaving and exercising again because my ass doesn't look so hot in a thong. The expression on her face was almost as if this was the first time I told her I dressed. She started questioning when the last time I wore panties.

So, my question is should I start wearing panties under my clothes or not? Do you think her reaction was just me catching her off guard and I am looking to much into this or do you think she is shocked that I want to partially dress since I have had no "Julie" time? I feel like I am going nuts and losing a part of myself because I cannot even partially express the girl inside. Any comments greatly appreciated.

[sissystephanie]

Julie, I think you need ro have a talk with your wife about your dressing! Find out what she really thinks about it. Maybe you did catch her "off guard," but maybe she doesn't like the idea of her husband wearing panties! If she doesn't like the idea of you doing that, you may have to have some serious thoughts about trying to express your feminine desires!

[Jill M]

Julie, I agree with Stephanie. Inform your wife that it is now affecting your emotions and health. Small steps first, at least discuss with her about wearing panties all the time. No matter what, try to get back in shape.

[juliecdfl]

So I had a talk with my wife this morning. I have no idea how but things went backwards. In the beginning I caught her off guard with telling her I dress but she became accepting even though it is not something she is into. At one point we even went shopping for heels, clothes, etc. together. Now she is completely against me dressing and doesn't want me doing it at all. I don't understand how someone could go backwards when nothing in life has changed. When I told her that I haven't done it in months and just want to wear panties at least every now and then she said maybe we weren't the right fit anymore...how do people change so quickly and where do I go from here?

[SherriePall]

Maybe somebody put some ideas into her head being that she has seemed to change so quickly and completely. Wouldn't doubt that she hasn't taken any visits just so you wouldn't have any time to dress.

[Alice Torn]

I won't tell you what to do, but, throw those thongs out!!!!!!!Panties, Yes! Shave, exercise, eat less. yes!

[Alice Torn]

Like Popeye said, paraphrased, women is fickle! Maybe some of her friends convinced it is terrible. Only thing i can think of is a good dinner and talk, or counselling, some kind of compromise.