Persephone
01-07-2011, 06:54 PM
As many of you know, I seem to pass pretty well. And I can comfortably integrate myself as a woman into a group of people.
But there is an event coming up that I need your help and advice on.
I have a number of "masculine" hobbies, some of which include very few women, particularly in the ranks of the well-informed.
Not a sexist remark on my part, they just turn out to be hobbies/interests that very few women seem to get involved in, and, if they do get involved it, is more as a user-participant than an informed techy.
There is a 5-day get together coming up for one of these hobbies. It is all new people that I've never met before and my spouse and I are planning on attending. But I would definitely stick out like a sore thumb attending the techy sessions en femme and those are the very sessions I'm interested in as there are a number of deep techy questions I need answers to and this gathering is one of the very few places to get them.
Since it is so unlikely that a woman would even want to attend the techy sessions, in the description of the get together the woman who runs the women's events wrote the following (Note: Genealogy is not the guy topic):
“Howdy Ladies, I need your help for our Women's Circle. I am open to anything. We have a couple of people that will talk about Genealogy, but can always listen to more.
We can have Show and Tell Time
Grandma brag time
Beading ---show and tell or share your techniques
Quilting---show and tell or share your project
Scrapbook techniques
Dog and Cat grooming
Safety for our animals
Any craft project you are interested in and would like to share would be awesome. I don't want to turn any thing down.
I also want to start a “Favorite Recipes” Cook Book to put in or on the Web site. Bring them in. We have a scanner/copier for those that need their recipes copied, No problem!
I am always open to new ideas for crafting projects."
Now, while I do love most of her topics I'm really there for the guy's techy sessions, maybe handing with the other women between sessions.
I'd love to be there en femme, but don't want to appear to be a "freak" to the guys (who, apparently can't imagine, and have never apparently met, a woman into the technical guts of the hobby).
Even worse, I definitely don't want to be suspicious to the women who might just figure that the only reason a woman is hanging out with their guys is to seduce one of them.
Question: Do I really have no choice but to drag out the en drab clothes and go as a guy?
But there is an event coming up that I need your help and advice on.
I have a number of "masculine" hobbies, some of which include very few women, particularly in the ranks of the well-informed.
Not a sexist remark on my part, they just turn out to be hobbies/interests that very few women seem to get involved in, and, if they do get involved it, is more as a user-participant than an informed techy.
There is a 5-day get together coming up for one of these hobbies. It is all new people that I've never met before and my spouse and I are planning on attending. But I would definitely stick out like a sore thumb attending the techy sessions en femme and those are the very sessions I'm interested in as there are a number of deep techy questions I need answers to and this gathering is one of the very few places to get them.
Since it is so unlikely that a woman would even want to attend the techy sessions, in the description of the get together the woman who runs the women's events wrote the following (Note: Genealogy is not the guy topic):
“Howdy Ladies, I need your help for our Women's Circle. I am open to anything. We have a couple of people that will talk about Genealogy, but can always listen to more.
We can have Show and Tell Time
Grandma brag time
Beading ---show and tell or share your techniques
Quilting---show and tell or share your project
Scrapbook techniques
Dog and Cat grooming
Safety for our animals
Any craft project you are interested in and would like to share would be awesome. I don't want to turn any thing down.
I also want to start a “Favorite Recipes” Cook Book to put in or on the Web site. Bring them in. We have a scanner/copier for those that need their recipes copied, No problem!
I am always open to new ideas for crafting projects."
Now, while I do love most of her topics I'm really there for the guy's techy sessions, maybe handing with the other women between sessions.
I'd love to be there en femme, but don't want to appear to be a "freak" to the guys (who, apparently can't imagine, and have never apparently met, a woman into the technical guts of the hobby).
Even worse, I definitely don't want to be suspicious to the women who might just figure that the only reason a woman is hanging out with their guys is to seduce one of them.
Question: Do I really have no choice but to drag out the en drab clothes and go as a guy?